I think this Gemini man has me on tap....

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mslayde
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12 Years

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Summary:
-Known each other for two years; in the last 6mos we've became closer and yes sex has come into play
- he has some financial stuff he trying to take care
-says he's not ready NOW for a relationship; on the flip side I told him I'm not either b/c 6 mos ago I got a job 180mi away although I'm still a resident (my house) of the same state as he thus I come home on every other wknd or so.
- during the convo where we discussed our not being ready for a relationship, he states, "I adore you".
- I gave him the key to my home when I got the job so he'd keep an eye on it ( he checks it once a week- shoveled snow, checks w/ neighbors, and etc).
- Recently I told him I was gonna get some one to rent a room in my house particularly a male b/c women haven't been working out for me. He told me a month aho he might consider it and it he's hesitant b/c its a little out his way when heading to work.
- A week ago on the night we had the "relationship talk" he say he gonna move in around June to help me out ( I have a mortgage and I'm renting in the state that I work; he works crazy hours so his family stays at his house so he's gonna let them "have it" n stay at my place b/c it will be peaceful). He's in his early 40s and I'm a mid 30s Sag.

there's no doubt there's feeling from both our ends, no games have been played to date, he's respectful, honest (admits he not ready b/c he will not able to do what he's should do as a man in a relationship), trusting ( hell I gave him my key) and so on...my question is, Why is he doing all of this...is this a game or does he really want me? and is trying to keep me close until he taken care of his business so we could. enter a relationship? I'm going to keep my options open but I just don't know where to put him, so to speak.