SmartOnTheRocks
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Just love the Gems, learn, let go and LIVE
The fact that they are gone is just that or not trying. Take it and treasure the good lessons they taught you. Be happy, be smart be beautiful all on your own. Be confident and cherish the memories. Don't even want an explanation why they are not there or trying or why they are not getting back to you. Let it go.
We all heard it. Gems will never leave were they feel love. They will never leave or disappear or all these things we mostly experience. They will go all out to assure you that you are the 1. And if they come back it is mostly because YOU initiated contact or they are bored and just want to pass time until she or he comes along. The connection or chemistry you felt is just that. They do have that electrifying thing about them. And everyone they encounter goes through that. so literally these people have 50 soul mates.
and if you leave a door open they will always come back. You allow them to use you they will use you.
bottom line for everyone including myself, unless these beautiful souls move mountains for you nothing you can do will make him or her stay. The only thing you can do is be yourself and hope and pray they love you and stay for who you are.
They love confidence. They love self love. That's why they bring out the best in you when you together. But they want you to fly and still be the best with or without them or anyone for that matter.
We all heard it. Gems will never leave were they feel love. They will never leave or disappear or all these things we mostly experience. They will go all out to assure you that you are the 1. And if they come back it is mostly because YOU initiated contact or they are bored and just want to pass time until she or he comes along. The connection or chemistry you felt is just that. They do have that electrifying thing about them. And everyone they encounter goes through that. so literally these people have 50 soul mates.
and if you leave a door open they will always come back. You allow them to use you they will use you.
bottom line for everyone including myself, unless these beautiful souls move mountains for you nothing you can do will make him or her stay. The only thing you can do is be yourself and hope and pray they love you and stay for who you are.
They love confidence. They love self love. That's why they bring out the best in you when you together. But they want you to fly and still be the best with or without them or anyone for that matter.
What made you write these? Are you a Gem or a Gem lover? If the latter, are you still on the "hope and pray they love you and stay" stage? Good for you. You seem to over-romanticize the least romantic sign.
Most of us need a partner we could rely on, though. Someone who will put effort throughout the relationship, not just during the infatuation stage. Someone who will make you feel AT HOME, not insecure about where your relationship is going, since most often than not, their actions don't match their words. Someone who knows that emotions fluctuate, and doesn't run away when feeling numb.
Shortly, the typical Gem is good for a fling. Only if they CHANGE -by mimicking any another sign- can they sustain great relationships. Some never do.
Most of us need a partner we could rely on, though. Someone who will put effort throughout the relationship, not just during the infatuation stage. Someone who will make you feel AT HOME, not insecure about where your relationship is going, since most often than not, their actions don't match their words. Someone who knows that emotions fluctuate, and doesn't run away when feeling numb.
Shortly, the typical Gem is good for a fling. Only if they CHANGE -by mimicking any another sign- can they sustain great relationships. Some never do.
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Yes they going to chase and give you the time of their life. Make You feel like a queen or King. And you going to be called beautiful and the child in you is going to come out. You going to be going on a roller coaster ride. The smart intelligent you is going to come out the dreams you always had are going to seem like a reality. You going to think you have found your soul mate brother or sister best friend and business partner all in 1 person
Then 1 day they going to disappear. At 1st is going to be subtly. But the more you push and persist the more they withdraw. Until 1 day they think you are trying too hard and to them they deem that a turn off. And then it's all over from their side and it's literally on to the next one.
But then you going to reminisce and think he or she was the 1 and down yourself into the past. You felt it. They made you alive and you know they will never have such a connection or passionate attraction with anyone but you. Then you start scheming ways to worm yourselves back into their lives.
That's when I think we selfish. We mostly want gems for how they made us feel. They brought emotions or feelings we never thought existed. We had so much fun no pressure. They made you happy and you don't think you can ever be that happy. imagine the pressure on that person. The responsibility on its own. I will also run away.
And on top of that we are so selfish that we are more concerned with how they make us feel and don't even know how they feel their thoughts because we stuck up on ourselves. And they see this side too. The fact that when they do these little tests, " my favorite team lost this weekend" you already moved on to your favorite show playing in the weekend where you didn't even ask them what their favorite team was. And which team they played against. Because you are so used to this person making it about you listening to you talking about your ambitions and dreams and poking fun at you and being stupid with you that you didn't even for once try and let them feel the way you feeling because you think your actions are enough.
Well they were not enough because you made it about you and they had to stimulate you and you couldn't keep up and failed their ULTIMATE TEST and that's when they disappear. I have learnt that you can't force or make excuses to be with someone who is not here already in the PRESENT. Stop whatever you are doing, is that Gemini that you are crazy in about in your life right at this moment? whether it is communication over Facebook WhatsApp text or any other way AND it doesn't pass more then A day without them communicating with you?
The fact that they are gone is just that or not trying. Take it and treasure the good lessons they tau