Libra/Gemini or Libra/Aquarius?

Posted by Perspicacity
Gemini/Aquarius makes for a much better pairing. At least in my very myopic, humble opinion.

Libra is too clingy for Gemini and too idealistic for Aquarius.

I agree that Libra is too clingy but in a sense, I think they're too boring also.

Had Libra and Aquarius girlfriends, now they got married and got kids but still in touch with me as friends. That says it all. If I want to choose one then I'll go with Aquarius, they are very good as your travel buddy and less materialistic.

Posted by AirMan
welcome back home to the gemini forum once again. um for me that is.

well i really prefer none of those air signs myself but rather sagittarius. tho if i had to choose one i would no doubt go for the aquarius. and don't ask me why cuz i couldn't tell you. i just feel that libra women are a little too stuck up for me.

Agreed.

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Posted by Perspicacity
Gemini/Aquarius makes for a much better pairing. At least in my very myopic, humble opinion.

Libra is too clingy for Gemini and too idealistic for Aquarius.

I agree that Libra is too clingy but in a sense, I think they're too boring also.

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Libra mooner and ascendant here! If you actually find them boring, then you've certainly met the wrong ones. Ones with different placements ruling their personality. I find Libra Suns to be my favorite air sign. They're the most welcoming, fair, loving and interesting in my opinion. I find Geminis too arrogantly detached and I notice that a lot of them tend to use people, or just want to be the center it attention. I enjoy Aquarians, but they stay in their own world for a little too long for my taste. I need people to connect more than they do. I understand being a daydreamer given all of the air in my chart, but I come back into focus when necessary lol they're very kind people generally speaking.

Out of the two I'd say Libra/Aquarius. Or Libra/Libra lol they'd understand each other's need to bond and be more emotionally connected.

Sorry, had to defend my Libra Sun bretheren haha

I love Libra 🙂

I have to correct myself, I didn't say anything nice about Geminis and I have many close Gemini friends!

They're definitely some of the most fun people I've ever spent time with, and I do feel they have really good intuition about things. Very naturally inquisitive and from what I've seen, it's very hard to get over on a Gemini lol I don't think badly of these people at all. I just tend to find Aquas to have a softer nature -- but I havebt met all Geminis! Lol
I think anyone with Libra placements would connect with both.

Posted by xomelindabelle
I have to correct myself, I didn't say anything nice about Geminis and I have many close Gemini friends!

They're definitely some of the most fun people I've ever spent time with, and I do feel they have really good intuition about things. Very naturally inquisitive and from what I've seen, it's very hard to get over on a Gemini lol I don't think badly of these people at all. I just tend to find Aquas to have a softer nature -- but I havebt met all Geminis! Lol
I think anyone with Libra placements would connect with both.

and now the scales are balanced..hehehe 😉

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Posted by Perspicacity
Gemini/Aquarius makes for a much better pairing. At least in my very myopic, humble opinion.

Libra is too clingy for Gemini and too idealistic for Aquarius.

I agree that Libra is too clingy but in a sense, I think they're too boring also.

Libra mooner and ascendant here! If you actually find them boring, then you've certainly met the wrong ones. Ones with different placements ruling their personality. I find Libra Suns to be my favorite air sign. They're the most welcoming, fair, loving and interesting in my opinion. I find Geminis too arrogantly detached and I notice that a lot of them tend to use people, or just want to be the center it attention. I enjoy Aquarians, but they stay in their own world for a little too long for my taste. I need people to connect more than they do. I understand being a daydreamer given all of the air in my chart, but I come back into focus when necessary lol they're very kind people generally speaking.

Out of the two I'd say Libra/Aquarius. Or Libra/Libra lol they'd understand each other's need to bond and be more emotionally connected.

Sorry, had to defend my Libra Sun bretheren haha

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Haha! No, I agree with a lot that you said actually. Gems are my favorite, they're just so funny and fun to be around. Libras are way too laid back for me and superficial. Gems can be superficial too but not as often as Libras. Libras are great supporters and great to talk too. I actually like my Libra ascendant kinda bc it helps me make great first impressions lol. I like Libra/Aqua. Libra helps Aqua let loosen up and show emotion, I like that. And Aqua always makes Libra smile and laugh. But it's true what you said about Gems tbh.

Posted by gemguyaz34
I love Libra 🙂

Please share what you like about them, I'm curious.

We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Posted by gemguyaz34
We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Meant to say too that It's like a union of the souls. You'd swear a lib is your missing half if you couldn't use any discernment whatsoever. Just the feeling of nearly everything together but also a feeling of independence that is required by both, being positive and being a dynamic team when doing things together. To me you could not ask, find or want anything better.

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Posted by xomelindabelle
I have to correct myself, I didn't say anything nice about Geminis and I have many close Gemini friends!

They're definitely some of the most fun people I've ever spent time with, and I do feel they have really good intuition about things. Very naturally inquisitive and from what I've seen, it's very hard to get over on a Gemini lol I don't think badly of these people at all. I just tend to find Aquas to have a softer nature -- but I havebt met all Geminis! Lol
I think anyone with Libra placements would connect with both.

and now the scales are balanced..hehehe 😉

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Haha indeed! I do enjoy Gemini energy very much. Didn't wanna come off like I was bashing y'all!

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Posted by Perspicacity
Gemini/Aquarius makes for a much better pairing. At least in my very myopic, humble opinion.

Libra is too clingy for Gemini and too idealistic for Aquarius.

I agree that Libra is too clingy but in a sense, I think they're too boring also.

Libra mooner and ascendant here! If you actually find them boring, then you've certainly met the wrong ones. Ones with different placements ruling their personality. I find Libra Suns to be my favorite air sign. They're the most welcoming, fair, loving and interesting in my opinion. I find Geminis too arrogantly detached and I notice that a lot of them tend to use people, or just want to be the center it attention. I enjoy Aquarians, but they stay in their own world for a little too long for my taste. I need people to connect more than they do. I understand being a daydreamer given all of the air in my chart, but I come back into focus when necessary lol they're very kind people generally speaking.

Out of the two I'd say Libra/Aquarius. Or Libra/Libra lol they'd understand each other's need to bond and be more emotionally connected.

Sorry, had to defend my Libra Sun bretheren haha

Haha! No, I agree with a lot that you said actually. Gems are my favorite, they're just so funny and fun to be around. Libras are way too laid back for me and superficial. Gems can be superficial too but not as often as Libras. Libras are great supporters and great to talk too. I actually like my Libra ascendant kinda bc it helps me make great first impressions lol. I like Libra/Aqua. Libra helps Aqua let loosen up and show emotion, I like that. And Aqua always makes Libra smile and laugh. But it's true what you said about Gems tbh.

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I have met superficial and negative Libra Suns that I just do my mesh well with, so I get it lol I find that my Libra moon and ascendant make me more open and compassionate than my Aries sun; not saying Arians aren't, it just adds to it 😛 I've had favorites it every air sign so it really can just co

*that I do NOT mesh well with lol no meshes well with that!!

*can just come down to the individual. It cut me off

I am sensing a well defined Libra moon having difficulty making a decision lol

Haha you're sensing correctly! My indecisiveness is rearing it authot head right how; my Libran diplomat is showing :ap

*ugly head; dumb typos.

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Posted by gemguyaz34
We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Meant to say too that It's like a union of the souls. You'd swear a lib is your missing half if you couldn't use any discernment whatsoever. Just the feeling of nearly everything together but also a feeling of independence that is required by both, being positive and being a dynamic team when doing things together. To me you could not ask, find or want anything better.

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I feel this way about aqua.

But..... I'm alil biased being married to one. Lol!

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by gemguyaz34
We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Meant to say too that It's like a union of the souls. You'd swear a lib is your missing half if you couldn't use any discernment whatsoever. Just the feeling of nearly everything together but also a feeling of independence that is required by both, being positive and being a dynamic team when doing things together. To me you could not ask, find or want anything better.

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You're making this indecisive Libra partial to Gems all the sudden lol the way you've conveyed the bond is making my Libran romanticism swoon haha
And I don't understand why so many people are calling Libras superficial and materialistic; never encountered that.

Posted by xomelindabelle

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Posted by gemguyaz34
We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Meant to say too that It's like a union of the souls. You'd swear a lib is your missing half if you couldn't use any discernment whatsoever. Just the feeling of nearly everything together but also a feeling of independence that is required by both, being positive and being a dynamic team when doing things together. To me you could not ask, find or want anything better.

You're making this indecisive Libra partial to Gems all the sudden lol the way you've conveyed the bond is making my Libran romanticism swoon haha
And I don't understand why so many people are calling Libras superficial and materialistic; never encountered that.

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lol it is what it is.

They can be materialistic to a degree. However, I find they just have excellent style/taste. Dress well, smell good, expensive possessions, good taste in music. Oh and did I mention they want the same for their partner? They want you to look good with them and they want you to be happy. They will spoil you rotten if they really like you!

Posted by gemguyaz34
They can be materialistic to a degree. However, I find they just have excellent style/taste. Dress well, smell good, expensive possessions, good taste in music. Oh and did I mention they want the same for their partner? They want you to look good with them and they want you to be happy. They will spoil you rotten if they really like you!

That is very true of the way I like to present myself. I like to dress elegantly and be portrayed as "refined". I have an eclectic taste in music, books and movies. My friend did my chart and said that's definitely my Libra placements.
I do notice that I do like my partner to be eye catching; however they also have to challenge me intellectually and be understanding people. So it's not all superficial 😛

I sound like I'm boasting. My apologies, not the case. I just feel like I recently found myself discovering my Libra moon and ascendant. I never fully identified with my Aries sun so I never understood it. Now I know myself more lol

Posted by xomelindabelle
I sound like I'm boasting. My apologies, not the case. I just feel like I recently found myself discovering my Libra moon and ascendant. I never fully identified with my Aries sun so I never understood it. Now I know myself more lol

You aren't boasting if you come to realize what makes you, you. When I came to understand my moon (in leo) I was able to better comprehend better how I viewed everything as a whole.

Posted by Lust
Libra like beautiful things just like like Taurus do. It can comeback to us as superficial as others perceive it. People who are-not close enough, might missing out the quality that burry deep inside libra: feeling of fairness, peace loving, intelligent, patience, & very accommodating, all of those ingredient to make partnership wonderful.

Absolutely. Well said.

Posted by Lust
Libra like beautiful things just like like Taurus do. It can comeback to us as superficial as others perceive it. People who are-not close enough, might missing out the quality that burry deep inside libra: feeling of fairness, peace loving, intelligent, patience, & very accommodating, all of those ingredient to make partnership wonderful.

Spot on!!

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Posted by xomelindabelle
I sound like I'm boasting. My apologies, not the case. I just feel like I recently found myself discovering my Libra moon and ascendant. I never fully identified with my Aries sun so I never understood it. Now I know myself more lol

You aren't boasting if you come to realize what makes you, you. When I came to understand my moon (in leo) I was able to better comprehend better how I viewed everything as a whole.

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Exactly, I feel so much more aware now. Love it 🙂

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Lust
Libra like beautiful things just like like Taurus do. It can comeback to us as superficial as others perceive it. People who are-not close enough, might missing out the quality that burry deep inside libra: feeling of fairness, peace loving, intelligent, patience, & very accommodating, all of those ingredient to make partnership wonderful.

Absolutely. Well said.

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Well, except for the Taurus part. Don't really think you can compare them to a Libra. They are complete opposites personality wise.

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Posted by gemguyaz34
We're just connected. It's actually kind of scary. We know what each other needs emotionally and I have never had this with another sign. It's as if our hearts and minds are completely synched. it's really the best way I can put it. The needs on both sides are taken care of and it doesn't require a second thought.

Meant to say too that It's like a union of the souls. You'd swear a lib is your missing half if you couldn't use any discernment whatsoever. Just the feeling of nearly everything together but also a feeling of independence that is required by both, being positive and being a dynamic team when doing things together. To me you could not ask, find or want anything better.

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Awwww, that is nice.

gemguy, random question, not sure if you'd know. But would you consider a taste for richer foods to be common for Libra placements? I find myself being more partial to sushi, steak tartar, caviar, rack of lamb, duck, and so on and so forth; you get it.
Do Libras usually appreciate finer foods? I wasn't raised on those cuisines, just drawn to them. My siblings and other family members often found that odd.

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Posted by Lust
Libra like beautiful things just like like Taurus do. It can comeback to us as superficial as others perceive it. People who are-not close enough, might missing out the quality that burry deep inside libra: feeling of fairness, peace loving, intelligent, patience, & very accommodating, all of those ingredient to make partnership wonderful.

Absolutely. Well said.

Well, except for the Taurus part. Don't really think you can compare them to a Libra. They are complete opposites personality wise.

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I think it's due to sharing the same planet; I find myself surrounded by Taurses and I love them. My sister who's a Taurus sun gets along with me quite well. I also have Venus in Taurus so that could add to it.

Well in my personal experience, I think so yes. Not sure about the caviar part as I think that's an acquired taste, but I do know they like to have the finer things in life and will spend the money to do so and if not, at least try to eat more 'natural' foods. They can be overindulgent at times just depending on the mood.

*Tauruses ugh typos on my phone!

Wow, this post just like died.

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Posted by Perspicacity
Gemini/Aquarius makes for a much better pairing. At least in my very myopic, humble opinion.

Libra is too clingy for Gemini and too idealistic for Aquarius.

I agree that Libra is too clingy but in a sense, I think they're too boring also.

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We feel the exact same way about Aries women. Too masculine, loud, annoying and promiscuous.

I'm a Virgo sun, with Libra moon. My ex gf is an Aries sun, with a Gemini moon. She broke up with me because we got too complacent with each other and she got tired and bored in the relationship. Says she fell out of love, but after separating she realized that she still have feelings for me. Though couple of weeks ago, we've talked and she agreed to give me last chance. Any tips on how I can win her back. She did try to entertain other men but she felt empty with them.

She's actually doing the hot and cold thing with me. Whenever we're together we became sweeter than ever, but when we're back to our own lives, she kind of act cold towards me.

I've always respected her personal space. I don't get quite jealous unless of course if I don't trust the intentions of the other guys she's hanging out with. We do also travel together. I just screwed up too much around jan-feb because it felt like I just wanted to be alone so I focused on online games even if we're together. When I came out of it, I did try to make it up for her, but she has already withdrawn, probably because she was entertaining some other guy.

I know she's an Aries, but most of the time I can relate to her being a Gemini.