Married Men

I read another post and Freebird mention that this married man is all into her.. do you guys attract married men? I am a magnet for married men.. it drives me nuts because i WILL NOT cross that line. I have been lied to about it before.. a few times actually.. not here recently.. that goodness.. but over the past few years.. many times.. it's so frustrating... so i'm just curious about the rest of you gems... mainly..I thought that it might be because we are such free spirits, that is attractive to someone who may feel trapped or justnot happy in there married, and they come to know us and our nature lures them in and they feel they need that.. i don't know.. i'm just rambling...

ya i don't know why.. .well like i said i think it's my extreme free-spirit. So normally, when i date someone i don't know, they get grilled.. cuz i gotta make sure they aren't hiding anything... cuz they do!

I won't even do that fight e-gem. 2 years ago i was dating this guy.. he was incredible. i had asked him DIRECTLY if he was married.. i always ask, just in case... and he directly andswered me that he wasn't. I asked him again on our way back from a weekend trip we took, cuz the guy seemed like he was made for me. He again told me no. Then we get serious... and about a month into it, we are at a diner grabbing some dinner.. and he proceeds to tell me " the story about George". I was like, i already know the story. This guy was married with 4, yes 4 kids..... WTF——?? there were no signs that i noticed or my family noticed. it was crazy. how do you protect yourself from that? and WHY ME? lol i got over it... but won't forget it. The hardest part is trying to remember, the next guy shouldn't pay for the previous guys mistakes... that's hard to do.

"Married Men..."

..Should be OFF LIMITS... not only will you probably get your ass beat by the wife (HAHA!!), but it makes you look like Angelina HOE-lie.

Well for me e-gem, i went for his heart... he was all into me, and i know how he felt and stuff.. so i cut it all off... no phone calls no nuttin.. i wasn't wasting another minute of my time on him. That killed him. He tried reaching me for a month. Coming by my house.. blah blah blah... it hurt, cuz i really felt for him, but lied to? no, don't tolerate it. Especially marriage.. lawd... i felt sooooooooo guilty even though i didn't know. I still wonder about him.. but would never.. lol

A married Gem guy calls me today and asks me to go to his boat this week. HUH? I have never been there and have NO intention of going. He then says his wife is gone for the week with her girlfriends.

He has no clue whatsoever that he is speaking with an Aries woman. We will NEVER be second and I, personally have no desire to be with a married man - how boring.

I am meeting him tomorrow to share my thoughts with him. He will not be a happy camper or perhaps I need to say - a happy boater?

*shakes head...pfttttt!

Emeraldgem,

No, this is not the same man. We have been friends for many years and he is a dear friend. For some reason, he has fallen for me and he cannot understand why I am not emotionally open and available to him and just see him as a friend.

*this is the moment when my head does the exorcist spin and then spits the green stuff in his direction-

He knows that I will NEVER cross that line and he knows that I do not feel the same way towards him.

NO BOAT TRIP and then he asks me for dinner and a movie this weekend.

*cocks head and says, "huh?"

Ya know....his lights looked to be "on" but seriously, I don't think anyone is "home."

"What sucks is now your friendship with him will suffer for his stupidity."

Nah...my friendship with him will not suffer - maybe in his eyes but not mine. He is honest with me and I appreciate that - I too am honest with him. He knows it will not ever go further than friendship and if he can deal with that fine - if not, he can no longer call me.

What truly amazes me is how so many men stay in marriages that are non-existant for both partners. I see how miserable he looks and is. It is not my job to rescue him nor any man. He has created this situation for himself - I wish him the best.

I agree with what you said, he wants what I embody - the freedom and the excitement - honestly....I think maybe he needs to purchase a good movie collection 😉