May I engage the help of the male Gems...I am a

Before I begin my very long story-I realize this is not a therapist hotline-I only hope to receive some input from those of you out there. And thanks in advance.

I am a single 30+ virgo female who recently began to date her best platonic male gemini friend of +2 years. We had great fun prior to our relationship, but I had no interest in him and I had always been in a relationship. He had always been a perfect gentleman, in our friendly past. He then began to come on to me in a very obvious way. I finally gave in to a very nice compatible, mutually mind-reading relationship, with fun and nice intimacy. All was great and he wanted more time doing married people things with me, than I him. This was all new to me.

I then began to b**** about certain things, such as him having a pic of an ex, ex and female friends calling him, a former friend's piece of lingerie hanging in his closet. He did away with most of that, but continued to do things to simply see if I could be angered, such as verbally oogling women on tv (in private & in company).

We have now not seen each other for nearly a month, but have spoken often. He last said a week ago "I love you and I miss you", several times. The following evening he said, "I am not in love with you. You think we're getting back together."

Now, although I do treasure honesty in all its forms, please be gentle with me if you choose to respond. And thanks for listening.

BEING AN AIR SIGN , THE GEMINI MAN PLAYS WITH WORDS. HE MAY BE SINCERE AT THAT VERY MOMENT , OR HE MAY NOT BE. I THINK GEMINI MEN LIKE TO FLIRT AND HAVE LOTS OF FRIENDS , AND IT'S HARD TO HOLD THEIR INTEREST FOR LONG. PLAY HARD TO GET AND KEEP HIM INTRIGUED IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM. I AM BETTING THOUGH THAT AS A VIRGO , YOU ARE NOT INTO THAT GAME.

WAKE UP ! SMELL THE SHIT! HE IS USING YOU!!!!! THAT IS ABOUT AS GENTLE AS IT GETS! MOOOVE ALONG WITH YOUR LIFE!!!

Hi Virgo. Im a male gemini and I find myself in the same situation with a female virgo. I am in fact very much in Love with her, she says she Loves me but doesnt allow me to be a part of her life. What I dont understand is if a female virgo says she loves you, you being a female virgo does she realy feel this way about me in her heart or is she only telling me she thinks I want to hear. I want to spend the rest of my life with her so as a female virgo do you believe she is telling me the truth. Thanks for your reply

Hello All and Jerryg9,

I am the author of the long rant and whine. Thanks for listening and taking the time to share your opinions. It took me a month...but all is well in my world, once again. I can respond to the question of virgos in pure generality because you are only considering the person's sun sign and not all the planets in an individual's chart that create the full character (a chart can be prepared online for free at astrocenter.com). In general, virgo women are honest, hardworking, kind, conservative beauties, guilt-ridden, serious, (outwardly)strong, (inwardly)frazzled, highly-capable, loving, independent, privately sexual, impatient, intelligent, introverted, shy at first-preferring one-on-one's and are often the most unmarried of the zodiac, due to their high standards and distaste for games.
I hope this helps.