Misunderstanding

This is why I get peeved at all this sun sign stereotype.
Gems are not all about head games and playing hard to get...the more you treat us like shit the more attatched we get to you...thats totally wrong. Sure I like to know my man can stand on his own emotionally but that does not mean he has to act like he likes me one day and not the other...leaves me confused and somewhat sad. Especially when I have gained esteem fot this man and really truly care about him...What's it gonna be fooly

Posted by AbstractRay
This is why I get peeved at all this sun sign stereotype.
Gems are not all about head games and playing hard to get...the more you treat us like shit the more attatched we get to you...thats totally wrong. Sure I like to know my man can stand on his own emotionally but that does not mean he has to act like he likes me one day and not the other...leaves me confused and somewhat sad. Especially when I have gained esteem fot this man and really truly care about him...What's it gonna be fooly

I agree with the first part, "Gems are not all about head games".....at least that holds true for me. I abhor mind games, period.

However, your claim that the more we are treated like poo poo, the more we get attached to a man.....THIS doesn't define me....EVER.

If there is one things I've learned with age is that only you can control your behavior. So when someone, in this case, a man is treating me with disrespect,
my initial reaction is to walk away and move on from him. I don't give him any more of my attention, my energy nor my personal time. It's done, over and out.

Men who have to treat a women like crap are emotional unstable and insecure. Anyone who wastes their time with a man as this will end up resenting him and being hurt. LIfe is too short to settle for so little.

Posted by scribble
Yeah I don't open up if I feel played with. Once someone treats me well then I am able to be sweet and show my emotional side.

If someone is playing with me I just shut down.

True. I once dated someone who turned out to be a player and in the end I never opened up to him. It was more of physical attraction. As a Gemini, it's important for us to TALK. And I cant seem to trust him. I stopped contacting him and shut it down right away. What can I say, Im a gem i have lots of things in my mind than waste time for someone who isn't worth it. Lol.

Im dating someone right now and he makes me be myself all the time. Im showing more of my emotional side and I seem to be happy. He's the nicest guy and super sweet. He always says what's on his mind and as gems i think we have a talent of distinguishing who's liar and who's not. And to me, he never is.

Anyway, it's true. Gems dont always play games. They just think so because we think a lot and come out as fickle who loves this person today and tomorrow doesnt anymore. Thats only because we think a lot, but once we say no more.. Its no more. And we dont have problems acting on it right away. We got lotsa other stuff to attend to.

Well, it's bull shiet. Its fuckn new years eve and im at home wity a personal bottle ofrose champagne because my man couldnt just down right tell me "Hey, lets go our seperate ways for this evening." well...not until after i was FULLY dressed hair make up dress shoes the whole she-bang....how annoying he really is. and sometimes rather shady. It is new years for heavens sake, Cant you have your space for the entire remainder of this week?

Sorry, a little rant on my part. Just be real!!!! be real....

Happy 2014 Abstract and all Gems!!!