My gem girl hurt from Sex Addiction

OK, this one is messed! It's my boyfriends best friend. He has a BAD addiction. His girlfriend is my friend, we all get along great! They moved away for work together a few months ago 8 hrs away. The problem ? she discovered their cable bill: $ 1000 of PORN in ONE month! Before she moved she found a $ 500 porn bill, and he swore on their relationship that it wasn't him. Her angry roommate had moved out mad so they blamed her. She asks me what to do, I don't know what to say!!!! He is such a nice guy, respectful, smart, confident, and THEN THIS!!!!! I feel awful, they wanted to marry each other & now she feels sick & unwanted, never mind LIED to! Advice on how to be a friend and suggestions for what to do?

I suggest Dr.Phil's forum for this one, porn board there for peeps like ya friend.....sorry to hear she is hurt by it all.

I went to the relationship thread. Just thot if she's a gem u guys might understand what she needs to hear & needs for support.

After reading both threads ... I'm getting the feeling that this is a bigger deal to you, taurusgoddess, then it is your girlfriend.

I don't know how most gem's feel bout porn but for me that wouldn't be an issue at all. The being lied to is the problem along with the amount of money the idiot ran up when you can look at all the porn you want for free on the internet.

Only she knows if she can handle these issues, but if she can't.. the only thing i would suggest is to be done and over with him. Most men that love porn will continue to look at it no matter what. He may not have been honest with her because he knows she may not accept his enjoyment in porn. If she's up for it, once she kicks his ass for that bill and lying to her, she may want to think about enjoying lookng at it with him. But i mean, for him to be so irresponsible and run that bill up like that, that would set my ass on fire.