need ideas for a day otu with gemi gurl

so im thinking what would be a good thing to do with a gemmim girl so its kind of like a date but not really
im thinking drive in movie theater or miniature golf blues bar maybe,
i just dont want to do this old fashioned dinner and a movie and good night crap
what are you gemin girls find most exciting?

well.. I wouldn't think in terms of one or the other... rather both 😉
and about old fashion... forget it!

I have a very good Gem girlfriend and she loves to do things shocking, things that border on inappropriate. For instance .. she's always bugging me about going to an S&M club with her just for fun. She claims not to get into that sort of thing, however, she thinks it would be exciting as hell to go and pretend.

Obviously, that would be way off limits with your girl .. but, if she's anything like my friend, she would love doing something that goes against what is considered "normal".

I know with my friend, when she was first dating her man (now husband), she always wanted him to take her to strip clubs .. she found it quite thrilling to watch her man get all aroused .. and then attack him in the back seat of his car afterward.

Ok, maybe she's a tad naughty 😛

.."hings that border on inappropriate"...
yeah, that sounds like us 😄
but not likely on a first date
that feeling that you were my "accomplice" in something semi secret... right on the money P-A... LOL 😛

I recently planned a day out with a male friend (not a date, but I wanted it to feel date-like, even though we're just friends.... I was in Evil-Gemini mode that day, all flirty).

So... I sent him an invitation over email, and invited him to go for a drive. I packed a small picnic lunch (too much and it'd feel too date like) and we drove, went hiking, listened to cool music. I let him pick the direction (probably less important in your case, as you're taking a girl out) and let him control the pace of the day. It was excellent. We talked and laughed all day, and when we weren't talking or laughing, we were singing to music. It was one of the most beautiful days I've ever had. We returned to my home to watch a DVD together, and then he went home. By the end of the day I felt so connected to him. We're still not dating, but that day to me was really special and we both talk about it often. I'm hopeful for our relationship status but he said he wants to stay just friends.

So, I organised it, but he picked where we went. I'm a Gemini female, and that day to me was ideal. Might give you some ideas, anyway.

I want to add, too, that the DVD we watched wasn't some random movie. It was a sit-com of a show we realised we both watched in the 90s (Mad About You). He owned a DVD of some of the best episodes, so we watched 6 episodes together, and laughed and discussed the characters. Coming home to watch a random movie probably would have been an anti-climax, but we are both invested in this show, and it's a commonality.

Mmmm. I smile even today, just thinking about that day.

Only thing that would have made it better? A kiss at the end 😉