Post first date with Gemini male?!?!?

Hey all, I'm new here.
I had a first date with a Gemini male on Thursday, it all went great, lots of chat and laughter and he was a gent, I was smitten. At the end of the date he gave me a big hug, he seemed very shy. I felt love stoned for days.
He messaged me on Saturday to say it was nice meeting, and asked if I'd got home ok. I replied to his email 12hours later, and I haven't heard anything since and I don't know what to do?! Is this usual gemini behaviour? Also if he wasn't interested would he have bothered messaging me on Saturday?
P/s I met him on an online dating site.
I'm so confused :s

Hey hunnyrose! im pretty new here also...thats good u guys had a great date its kinda
hard 2 tell if he's into you or not, but i know this for sure when a Gemini ask you
if you got home safely there is some liking from his side...becus when im into
a woman i will always ask if she got home safely, but im curious 2 know why
you waited so long 2 reply back 2 him ?

Posted by Gemini78
Hey hunnyrose! im pretty new here also...thats good u guys had a great date its kinda
hard 2 tell if he's into you or not, but i know this for sure when a Gemini ask you
if you got home safely there is some liking from his side...becus when im into
a woman i will always ask if she got home safely, but im curious 2 know why
you waited so long 2 reply back 2 him ?

Hey gemini78, umm I took 12hours to reply because I wanted him to think I was busy,lol, which I was. He messaged me at 10am, and I replied 10pm that night. Was a saturday so I was busy out shopping and things.
Would a gemini man hug a girl if they didn't like them? I felt sparks go through my body when he hugged me and ended up standing there looking silly as he said he had fun,lol.
Also umm i always thought if a man didn't liek you he'd never message you again? Or if they did message you it would be to say they weren't interested?

yea he digs ya. if it was me who asked if you got home safe, my intention behind it would simply be i just want to talk to you more.

Posted by westside
yea he digs ya. if it was me who asked if you got home safe, my intention behind it would simply be i just want to talk to you more.

Cool thanks 🙂
He hasn't replied to me since Saturday though, he's probably just busy with work I suppose.

Posted by hunnyrose

Posted by Gemini78
Hey hunnyrose! im pretty new here also...thats good u guys had a great date its kinda
hard 2 tell if he's into you or not, but i know this for sure when a Gemini ask you
if you got home safely there is some liking from his side...becus when im into
a woman i will always ask if she got home safely, but im curious 2 know why
you waited so long 2 reply back 2 him ?

Hey gemini78, umm I took 12hours to reply because I wanted him to think I was busy,lol, which I was. He messaged me at 10am, and I replied 10pm that night. Was a saturday so I was busy out shopping and things.
Would a gemini man hug a girl if they didn't like them? I felt sparks go through my body when he hugged me and ended up standing there looking silly as he said he had fun,lol.
Also umm i always thought if a man didn't liek you he'd never message you again? Or if they did message you it would be to say they weren't interested?

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lol oh i see, well if your feeling those kinda sparks from his hug then yes i think he likes you, becus that lets me know he's putting his feelings in the hug he gave you, also if a Gemini doesnt message you it doesnt mean he's not interested, he could be busy or even nervous, but if he does message you he is interested. Also i asked why you waited so long 2 get back 2 him becus he may have thought you were not interested in him, but thats just what i would think if a girl did that 2 me well actually that would be after thinking she really wasnt busy haha

Well I'm sure I felt sparks, unless it was me being silly :s
On the date though I felt like I had him hooked,lol.
He s training to be a doctor and told me it gets so hectic sometimes he doesn't have time for anything else, so maybe that's why he hasn't messaged :s
I'm not gonna chase him though.

Posted by hunnyrose
Well I'm sure I felt sparks, unless it was me being silly :s
On the date though I felt like I had him hooked,lol.
He s training to be a doctor and told me it gets so hectic sometimes he doesn't have time for anything else, so maybe that's why he hasn't messaged :s
I'm not gonna chase him though.

Oh ok he's training 2 become a doctor so that would make him busy big time, you must
have made a big impression on him🙂 if you dont mind me asking whats your sign, well
scractch that just tell me if your a fire / air / water / or earth sign

Posted by Gemini78

Posted by hunnyrose
Well I'm sure I felt sparks, unless it was me being silly :s
On the date though I felt like I had him hooked,lol.
He s training to be a doctor and told me it gets so hectic sometimes he doesn't have time for anything else, so maybe that's why he hasn't messaged :s
I'm not gonna chase him though.

Oh ok he's training 2 become a doctor so that would make him busy big time, you must
have made a big impression on him🙂 if you dont mind me asking whats your sign, well
scractch that just tell me if your a fire / air / water / or earth sign

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I'm a Libra 🙂 lol.
I know his job probably makes him very busy, but these dating books say a man should take out a few mins a date to message you, so then I start worrying :s lol.

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Posted by hunnyrose
Well I'm sure I felt sparks, unless it was me being silly :s
On the date though I felt like I had him hooked,lol.
He s training to be a doctor and told me it gets so hectic sometimes he doesn't have time for anything else, so maybe that's why he hasn't messaged :s
I'm not gonna chase him though.

Oh ok he's training 2 become a doctor so that would make him busy big time, you must
have made a big impression on him🙂 if you dont mind me asking whats your sign, well
scractch that just tell me if your a fire / air / water / or earth sign

I'm a Libra 🙂 lol.
I know his job probably makes him very busy, but these dating books say a man should take out a few mins a date to message you, so then I start worrying :s lol.

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Libra real good match for Gemini🙂 haha dont worry about what that book says
he's probably sorting things out with school and stuff

Those dating books really confuse me!
Sometimes he's sent me emails over that dating site and they haven't sent, so it could be that too! I'm not making excuses for him because I have a feeling he's honest!
Ive never been out with a Gemini before hehe!

Posted by hunnyrose
Those dating books really confuse me!
Sometimes he's sent me emails over that dating site and they haven't sent, so it could be that too! I'm not making excuses for him because I have a feeling he's honest!
Ive never been out with a Gemini before hehe!

lol whats the name of the dating book your reading? did he tell you he sent
messages before? sense this was your first time going out with a Gem
what was your first thoght 2 run lol im joking, no really what
did you really think about him?

Posted by Gemini78

Posted by hunnyrose
Those dating books really confuse me!
Sometimes he's sent me emails over that dating site and they haven't sent, so it could be that too! I'm not making excuses for him because I have a feeling he's honest!
Ive never been out with a Gemini before hehe!

lol whats the name of the dating book your reading? did he tell you he sent
messages before? sense this was your first time going out with a Gem
what was your first thoght 2 run lol im joking, no really what
did you really think about him?

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Hey sorry for late reply, I didn't come online yesterday.
I've kinda read loads of dating books,lol. I probably have all of them.
Yeah he said before that he'd sent 2 messages on that site to me before but they hadn't sent when he checked his outbox.
I still haven't heard from him, feel sad because I thought he'd contact me again.
When I looked at his datin site profile this morning his age has gone from 26 to 27, so it's his birthday today.He still hasn't logged on and he hasn't blocked me, as I checked that he still comes up in searches,lol. I think he may be just really busy with work and it being his birthday.
Oh I thought the gemini male was lovely, he was a true english gent 🙂 I'm Welsh,lol.

Posted by Norcalman67
To Hunnyrose:
If you like him, want to go on a second date. Just give him a text with something like, "Hey, I'm going to XYZ this weekend, Would you like to come along?"
Don't worry about the details of what this Gems thinking, most often he won't know himself. (Ask me how I know.) And, as Gem78 said he's studying to become a doctor. So, you most likely will need to chime-in too get his attention on you with that busy schedule.

Hey thanks for the advice, umm I think maybe next week I will try something like that 🙂
I really wished he'd contacted me again, I really liked him. I haven't clicked like that with anyone since my ex 😢

Well I've been doing some snooping,lol. I found his facebook and it was his birthday the other day, and he left a message on his fb wall saying thanks for all messages and hope everyone is well. From mobile web. So maybe he's on holiday?