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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?
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I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
I slept with my Cap husband right away and we're hoping we will get married.

I had always thought of marriage if I was willing to sleep with a guy. So you can have sex but she is more like it will hope for more. Not that anyone can make you married them if you don't want to right?
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?


I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
Just tell her this and ask her what she wants. Communicationnnnnnnn my dear cappie

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Well I've expressed to her that I like her and would like to see and know her more, she said the feeling was mutual, we texted for a few days then communication got faulty on her end, so I gave her a lil space, then we picked back up talking again. She didn't seem too pleased about the space I gave her, but she made no attempt to contact me? It seems as though she was saying "yeah I ignored you, but I still expected you to bother me"

This would be my first Gemini woman, is this what I'm to expect for however long we do this?
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?


I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
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I am always curious. What is the difference if you have sex vs not?

You both an adults who like each other so go ahead! How can that go wrong—
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
I slept with my Cap husband right away and we're hoping we will get married.

I had always thought of marriage if I was willing to sleep with a guy. So you can have sex but she is more like it will hope for more. Not that anyone can make you married them if you don't want to right?
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Thats funny we had a long conversation about life, marriage, particularly kids, right before we got physical. Marriage is very far off my radar though so hopefully we won't talk about that again any time soon. But I'm very very curious about the Gemini woman, so she would sleep with me right away but she won't necessarily make herself accessible to me on the daily basis or on an emotional level? Did you give your husband a hard time getting close to you?
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
I slept with my Cap husband right away and we're hoping we will get married.

I had always thought of marriage if I was willing to sleep with a guy. So you can have sex but she is more like it will hope for more. Not that anyone can make you married them if you don't want to right?


Thats funny we had a long conversation about life, marriage, particularly kids, right before we got physical. Marriage is very far off my radar though so hopefully we won't talk about that again any time soon. But I'm very very curious about the Gemini woman, so she would sleep with me right away but she won't necessarily make herself accessible to me on the daily basis or on an emotional level? Did you give your husband a hard time getting close to you?

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No! It was instant. I liked him and when he brought me to his appartment I felt immediately like cleaning it.

So we talked while I was setting up the table and than we had dinner and went to bed. Easy!

Than he dumped me for 2 days and then called and asked me to move in with him.

I don't do drama. It's what it is! Why tip toeing around simple things like life?

Talk about anything! Talking marriage and kids doesn't make you get married and have kids. But knowing point of view of the partner is vital. Enjoy
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Sex after 3-4 dates is the norm these days. Also dating (including dating others) for about 6 months till you two decide to make it official or call it a day. You shouldn't be seeing each other every day, otherwise you'll take each other for granted and never fall in love.

Carry on dating her....obviously she is interested in you for now.... more interest will come with dating, if you know what to do. Keep things interesting in your conversation/ dating. Don't overstay your date/ conversation. Short time together is good, it keeps one wanting more.
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?


I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
Just tell her this and ask her what she wants. Communicationnnnnnnn my dear cappie




Well I've expressed to her that I like her and would like to see and know her more, she said the feeling was mutual, we texted for a few days then communication got faulty on her end, so I gave her a lil space, then we picked back up talking again. She didn't seem too pleased about the space I gave her, but she made no attempt to contact me? It seems as though she was saying "yeah I ignored you, but I still expected you to bother me"

This would be my first Gemini woman, is this what I'm to expect for however long we do this?

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Have you suggested a dinner?

What were you doing texting for days—

Are you in different countries?
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?


I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
Just tell her this and ask her what she wants. Communicationnnnnnnn my dear cappie




Well I've expressed to her that I like her and would like to see and know her more, she said the feeling was mutual, we texted for a few days then communication got faulty on her end, so I gave her a lil space, then we picked back up talking again. She didn't seem too pleased about the space I gave her, but she made no attempt to contact me? It seems as though she was saying "yeah I ignored you, but I still expected you to bother me"

This would be my first Gemini woman, is this what I'm to expect for however long we do this?


Have you suggested a dinner?

What were you doing texting for days—

Are you in different countries?
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Lol no same city, I actually asked her to come to a Rockets game with me next week, she said she'll go she's never been to a basketball game before, well a professional one, so that'll be our first date I guess. But I just texted for days because I didn't know what else to do? I didn't wanna come on too strong but now that I think about it, it probably bored her that's why she stopped texting.
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if a Gemini woman wanted to fuck me upon our 3rd maybe 4th time meeting should I put her in the "fun for the night" section of my life or do you women typically move fast when you like someone? I guess my question is how do you differentiate a Gemini whos interested in you vs. one who's just sexually attracted?
Idk... Never had casual sex.

Hmmm what do you want with her?


I like her a lot, im dying to get closer to her but I don't wanna over do it if the feeling isn't mutual. She shows a fair amount of interest though
Just tell her this and ask her what she wants. Communicationnnnnnnn my dear cappie




Well I've expressed to her that I like her and would like to see and know her more, she said the feeling was mutual, we texted for a few days then communication got faulty on her end, so I gave her a lil space, then we picked back up talking again. She didn't seem too pleased about the space I gave her, but she made no attempt to contact me? It seems as though she was saying "yeah I ignored you, but I still expected you to bother me"

This would be my first Gemini woman, is this what I'm to expect for however long we do this?


Have you suggested a dinner?

What were you doing texting for days—

Are you in different countries?


Lol no same city, I actually asked her to come to a Rockets game with me next week, she said she'll go she's never been to a basketball game before, well a professional one, so that'll be our first date I guess. But I just texted for days because I didn't know what else to do? I didn't wanna come on too strong but now that I think about it, it probably bored her that's why she stopped texting.

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Exactly.

You don't have to be a professional entertainer to keep woman interested.

And good luck with a game.
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I'm the same way as instant and pooty. I am extremely selective and know pretty much instantly (halfway through first dateish) if I am going to want to have sex with a guy or not.

When I am really really into him (only has occurred 3 times), I surprise myself by the intensity of feeling and sexual attraction there is, and it happens very quickly lol!

If she is into you and you are into her, and that has been acknowledged, then why put her in the "fun for the night" basket?

Maybe she got really busy that day you felt ignored. Caps should understand that more than anyone else 😛

I have a Capricorn moon btw. I fell hard for a cap man, he would fall off the face of the earth for a month at a time. I was understanding. He was very isolated and had PTSD and stuff. Eventually I just knew and accepted that he wasn't as into me in the end.
True, I ignore almost everyone in my life at least once a week not always on purpose, but I cant handle being ignored. I actually haven't talked to my Gemini girl in 2 days I should probably tell her good morning or something, after talking to you guys I'm sorta realizing that's it's probably me with the issues and the overthinking, not her, haaaa story of my life.

My brother is a Gemini cap moon by the way, one of the most genuinely awesome, very intelligent person I've ever known.
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I'm the same way as instant and pooty. I am extremely selective and know pretty much instantly (halfway through first dateish) if I am going to want to have sex with a guy or not.

When I am really really into him (only has occurred 3 times), I surprise myself by the intensity of feeling and sexual attraction there is, and it happens very quickly lol!

If she is into you and you are into her, and that has been acknowledged, then why put her in the "fun for the night" basket?

Maybe she got really busy that day you felt ignored. Caps should understand that more than anyone else 😛

I have a Capricorn moon btw. I fell hard for a cap man, he would fall off the face of the earth for a month at a time. I was understanding. He was very isolated and had PTSD and stuff. Eventually I just knew and accepted that he wasn't as into me in the end.
True, I ignore almost everyone in my life at least once a week not always on purpose, but I cant handle being ignored. I actually haven't talked to my Gemini girl in 2 days I should probably tell her good morning or something, after talking to you guys I'm sorta realizing that's it's probably me with the issues and the overthinking, not her, haaaa story of my life.

My brother is a Gemini cap moon by the way, one of the most genuinely awesome, very intelligent person I've ever known.


Well at least you have the awareness of it about yourself, so that you can work on it. I don't mind falling off the face of the earth for maybe like a week max, but eventually my feelings will be hurt. The cap man I saw, he told me he only saw his own family twice a year or so. Try and message her 🙂

And that's awesome! There are not many Gemini suns/Capricorn moons out there. I think I've only come across me and only 1 other person on this site who never posts, since I've been here for a few years. I think my moon makes me like you caps a whole lot.

Do you know where your gem gal's moon is??

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Im sure it does, it amazes me how much my bro and I are alike, he's just a busy body that's on the go 90% of the time, that's where you gems tend to lose me.

Her moon is Pisces.
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I'm the same way as instant and pooty. I am extremely selective and know pretty much instantly (halfway through first dateish) if I am going to want to have sex with a guy or not.

When I am really really into him (only has occurred 3 times), I surprise myself by the intensity of feeling and sexual attraction there is, and it happens very quickly lol!

If she is into you and you are into her, and that has been acknowledged, then why put her in the "fun for the night" basket?

Maybe she got really busy that day you felt ignored. Caps should understand that more than anyone else 😛

I have a Capricorn moon btw. I fell hard for a cap man, he would fall off the face of the earth for a month at a time. I was understanding. He was very isolated and had PTSD and stuff. Eventually I just knew and accepted that he wasn't as into me in the end.
True, I ignore almost everyone in my life at least once a week not always on purpose, but I cant handle being ignored. I actually haven't talked to my Gemini girl in 2 days I should probably tell her good morning or something, after talking to you guys I'm sorta realizing that's it's probably me with the issues and the overthinking, not her, haaaa story of my life.

My brother is a Gemini cap moon by the way, one of the most genuinely awesome, very intelligent person I've ever known.


Well at least you have the awareness of it about yourself, so that you can work on it. I don't mind falling off the face of the earth for maybe like a week max, but eventually my feelings will be hurt. The cap man I saw, he told me he only saw his own family twice a year or so. Try and message her 🙂

And that's awesome! There are not many Gemini suns/Capricorn moons out there. I think I've only come across me and only 1 other person on this site who never posts, since I've been here for a few years. I think my moon makes me like you caps a whole lot.

Do you know where your gem gal's moon is??




Im sure it does, it amazes me how much my bro and I are alike, he's just a busy body that's on the go 90% of the time, that's where you gems tend to lose me.

Her moon is Pisces.


She has the same sun and moon as I do. 🙂
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Is it the Pisces that makes her so relaxed? I have a few other gems I've been pretty close to in life and they are nutcases. Almost embarrassing. I'm not sure what their moon signs are.