This is when my ugly twin comes out.

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by myloveyourlove32 on Sunday, May 4, 2014 and has 8 replies.

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

When I am ignored and I KNOW I am being ignored. For no good reason either.

What triggered this is my boyfriend and my best friend haven't talked to me all night, yet they are on social media. I'm so sick and tired of being here for these two solely when they need it, or mostly just when they want it.

I'm literally ready to go MIA for a week.

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

I'm sick of it. I expect my capricorn and my virgo to be more faithful than this. For two signs who thrive on being "faithful and committed" they sure have a shitty way of showing it.

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

Honestly, I'm not perfect. But this has become a regular thing with these two lately. It would be different if I knew they were busy, but I know they both are sitting at home in their rooms. And that's what so stupid. And if you would rather have time to yourself just tell me. You won't hurt my feelings.

Ridiculous.

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@CreativeCap
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Really? Your being overly dramatic, throwing a hissy fit because your boyfriend and best friend haven't texted you in 3 hours. Get a life of your own and stop worrying so much about theirs.

Stop extending yourself so much for them. Do things for them on your own terms and only when it's convenient for you.

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

Yeah maybe you're right creative cap. I'm being dramatic. Do you have PMS GPS? Haha.

I do have my own life, though. But it still is stupid to me if they have time to post on social media sites then they can have time to text me back. I think that's what sets me off more than anything.

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@Szostak
12 YearsPisces

Well, i got this from a gemini girl. Im pisces sun And with gemini rising.
Must be the reason why i released my wrath at her. Hate when not getting answers when someone keeps posting and going online elsewhere.
Same case as you OP, but as people told me, it seemed that the girl wasnt that interested in me.

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@2BlackIndian3
12 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Yeah I agree with Szostak, I think you need to stop giving them all your attention. If they are not willing to make time for you, then why should you give your time. If they don't change their behavior, then maybe you need to find some more reliable people. I hate when I haven't talked someone, but I see them all on twitter & FB & shyt lol. Like ok, I see what it is. @myloveyourlove32 in the mean time, find things besides them that make you happy.

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@myloveyourlove32
12 Years

Aw thank you! @2blackindian3
That's refreshing to hear. I may have been a little dramatic in my earlier posts, but it was the heat of the moment.

I do have a very busy life. I work three jobs, work out on a daily basis, and do yoga 5 times a week. I guess it just sucks when I know that my best-friend and boyfriend could be communicating with me and catching up, (because we barely talk) but instead they decide to be on social networking.

I think it's time to back off for a little while and solely focus on me. I have taken all of your advice, (and constructive criticism from CC) haha, and I am going to use it to my advantage.

PS: yes it is very cool we have the same moon and rising signs!