what kind of men do you attract?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by geminitwin on Tuesday, December 10, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@geminitwin
13 Years

I do not know what it is, but I have been attracting very sensitive guys and socially awkward men. Why is this? by sensitive I mean shy and of course socially awkward men who detest public places and have few words.. I can be coy but I'm very communicative. why do I attract these men?

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@jessgoogoo
13 YearsLibra

wow you and me both, it`s so strange too, cause I am a total open and outgoing person, I have no idea how this is happening..

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@geminitwin
13 Years

Posted by LilliLou
I attract arrogant, supercilious and emotionally unavailable men... Surely that's opposites attracting 😛

The emotionally unavailable men are the worst. They specialize in low self esteem.

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@numerical
12 Years

me too.
it's weird. the men attracted to me are or excessively confident or excessively shy, never balanced

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@GemsRaGalsBestPal
16 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE (subconsciously emo) WATER SIGNS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Make it stop. Someone please save me.

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@xxixxi
13 Years1,000+ Posts

younger guys .. I asked why and they said 'when you work you're so effective..informative..I look up to you.. you are very smart, too'

guys a bit less vocal/strong about their own opinions .. not that they were doormats or lacked backbones.. no, doormats and backboneless guys wouldn't have got me consider going on dates with them to begin with ..but these guys were just not very vocal.. rather suave, calm & cool..that was all

guys who don't really give much deal about femininity .. despite that I do love to dress up .. and can dress & act like a lady.. it's not really my default nature..it's just one of other many personae I have & wear interchangeably.. guys who really go hard after for sensitivity, gracefulness and femininity..they did not chase after me for a long time..probably for first few months...the times when they were somewhat misguided/misled by my outer appearances (to believe that I was a certain kind of a lady they had had in their minds..the lady which I could not realize for them -or anyone for that matter-), I assume..after all, I was not what they were looking for .. also quite lots of guys have told me that they appreciated me because when they cracked guy jokes, I got them and laughed at them...not like 'how could you..? (say such a thing)'