What makes you want to be in a relationship?

Since you guys are so hard to get into a relationship what makes you want that?

Because there is so much more growth for you personally with someone else rather than by yourself

Ah crap...sorry for the post. Thought it was for everyone.

Are we really that hard to pin down?

As long as your not a complete a-hole, and you are genuine...

When it comes to matters of the heart and someone wants to play games, we'll play along with you...until we are bored lol

I don't think we are hard to pin down at all.. we may play hard to get at first coz we don't want to seem clingy (coz we hate that) but not once we know our feelings are reciprocated - then we're all over deepening the connection with lots of intelligent, emotional and dirty talk. I am a Gem sun Capri rising Cancer moon though so not all Gems are the same. Care to tell us a bit more about who you're trying to pin down and the current situation?

Posted by Lust
OP is a libra, and libra views relationship, perticularly in behaviours differently from gemini. It sounds like she is trying to learn about you guys. Libra likes to please and try working hard to make the relationship work. If she ever in love with a gem guy again then she would know what to expect and act accordingly.

Thanks Lust yeah I am just trying to get some understanding. I can't stop thinking about why he picked someone else over me when I felt like we had a deeper connection, but now I wonder if those 3 months were just to keep him busy while he was waiting for someone else he cared about to come around. Oh well I just feel like you shouldn't be telling a girl that you feel like you can tell them things that you can tell no one else or that you would love to be laying there just kissing them all day and that you want them to meet your parents or going through their phone and all that stuff then go off and pick someone else. *shrugs* I'm really just sad for the loss of friendship in reality, but I just thought is ask. I like to study you guys lol

Gemini are not all alike.But we do like honest,genuine and kind people who truly care about us,listen to us and make us feel special.Loyalty is very important,we love to laugh and are optimistic.When insecure we tend to be silent and appear cold.A hug,a kind word,some love and we melt.

since my moon is in pisces and my rising sign is in scorpio = having a connection is # 1

LOL. I've never had a problem locking down a gem. Simply give them a challenge, be confident, sexy, know how to hold a conversation, dont be too predictable cant be boring, you gotta loosen up around them, this sign likes to have fun. I'm a libra, and my last bf was a gem, i dont care for him now but when we were together it was like magic we just clicked. He asked me to be his girl in a matter of about 3 months. so...i dont know.

Posted by supreme
Libra and Gemini are a great match.

The trick is always leaving the lines of communication open at all times. Speak your mind and encourage the other to do the same.

Communicate, communicate.

Don't let doubts and unsiad words linger. It'll start to eat away it your relationship an exponential rate.

YES! I swear communication was on point from the beginning with my ex, but the minute he went silent and started keeping things from me, we perished from the inside out. I ended up walking away. I dont like secrete when my heart is on the line. When he tried to get me back, the trust (relationship-wise) was gone, but i trusted him enough to stay friends. But putting my heart back on the line? Nope. The desire was gone.

Posted by supreme
Libra and Gemini are a great match.

The trick is always leaving the lines of communication open at all times. Speak your mind and encourage the other to do the same.

Communicate, communicate.

Don't let doubts and unsiad words linger. It'll start to eat away it your relationship an exponential rate.

Libras...hmmmm

had one on my HEELS a couple months ago...I mean blowing my phone dooooowwwn...but I had to find out through social media that he also had a baby on the way AND was engaged to be married around that same time...

so yeah, communication is key...lol

What do you think of this compatability?

Him
Asc cancer
Sun gem
Moon pisces
Merc gem
Venus taurus
Mars sag

Me
Asc sag
Sun pisces
Moon aries
Merc pisces
Venus cap
Mars sag

I dont know all my placements.
I just know i'm Libra sun
Pisces Moon
Leo Venus
I believe my mercury is Sagitarius or Aries, not sure but i know it's a fire sign

Idk if they make me feel good and they seem genuine.
I wanted to date a guy after meeting for a few days.
Also if we have similar interests, like music tastes.

Idk I'm kinda simple.
I don't mind chilling listening to music, messing around.

I have taurus moon :3

Posted by supreme

Posted by bella_fish
What do you think of this compatability?

Him
Asc cancer
Sun gem
Moon pisces
Merc gem
Venus taurus
Mars sag

Me
Asc sag
Sun pisces
Moon aries
Merc pisces
Venus cap
Mars sag

K...

There's a lot of hidden potential in your charts.

Can you please post the houses too? 🙂

Houses are very important.

I like the guys placements. What type of work is he in?

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Sorry Supreme been crazy busy

He is self-employed.

His

Sun gem XI
Moon pisces VIII
Merc Gem XI
Venus Taurus X
Mars Sag V

Me

Sun pisces III
Moon aries IV
Merc pisces III
Venus capricorn II
Mars sag I