Gem Cancer Venus, Scorpio Moon Facebook stalk?

SO would you Facebook stalk someone you just recently ended things with or would you be too busy moving on to notice if they deleted you or not? Not trying to manipulate or anything its just that I deleted the guy I into and I wondered if he would even noticed he was gone. Yes, it was rash and I would still like to be friends I just cant handle him on my Facebook because I am constantly stalking him on there to see what he has been up to and it was making me crazy, but now I am not sure how I would explain it if he asks. After ignoring me off and on mostly on Friday night he saw my post about going out and text me to have a good time which immediately pissed me off because it felt like a reminder like oh i'm still over here like your still kinda an option don't do anything stupid, but maybe i'm not at all and i'm over thinking it.

I really need to get over this, but im not sure how to transition this back to a friendship with out burning bridges because he clearly doesn't want it to be anything more.

Posted by ladylibra21
SO would you Facebook stalk someone you just recently ended things with or would you be too busy moving on to notice if they deleted you or not? Not trying to manipulate or anything its just that I deleted the guy I into and I wondered if he would even noticed he was gone. Yes, it was rash and I would still like to be friends I just cant handle him on my Facebook because I am constantly stalking him on there to see what he has been up to and it was making me crazy, but now I am not sure how I would explain it if he asks. After ignoring me off and on mostly on Friday night he saw my post about going out and text me to have a good time which immediately pissed me off because it felt like a reminder like oh i'm still over here like your still kinda an option don't do anything stupid, but maybe i'm not at all and i'm over thinking it.

I really need to get over this, but im not sure how to transition this back to a friendship with out burning bridges because he clearly doesn't want it to be anything more.

This is another reason people should not be on Facebook at all!

I'm a Gemini and doing the same. Struggling to move on and ashamed to say am also guilty of stalking on Instagram. Think it's been made worse because I've recently had an op and been housebound for 2 weeks. When I step back and look at my actions it makes me cringe also realise I'm only making it harder for myself to move on.

By the way I'd try and cut him off completely, you seem to want to be more than friends and by keeping in touch you're just torturing yourself. In time you can rekindle your friendship

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by ladylibra21
SO would you Facebook stalk someone you just recently ended things with or would you be too busy moving on to notice if they deleted you or not? Not trying to manipulate or anything its just that I deleted the guy I into and I wondered if he would even noticed he was gone. Yes, it was rash and I would still like to be friends I just cant handle him on my Facebook because I am constantly stalking him on there to see what he has been up to and it was making me crazy, but now I am not sure how I would explain it if he asks. After ignoring me off and on mostly on Friday night he saw my post about going out and text me to have a good time which immediately pissed me off because it felt like a reminder like oh i'm still over here like your still kinda an option don't do anything stupid, but maybe i'm not at all and i'm over thinking it.

I really need to get over this, but im not sure how to transition this back to a friendship with out burning bridges because he clearly doesn't want it to be anything more.

This is another reason people should not be on Facebook at all!

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Yeah people stalk and get stalked :p

I feel like an idiot because now I feel like I will have to tell him I deleted him because I have feelings for him and it is not healthy to stalk his page so I deleted him. It will probably push him away indefinitely but I think Ohdear is right I should probably just cut him out completely as much as I would like to stay friends with him. 😢

Posted by Lust
Is this the same gem guy that you've been dating recently?

Yes I can't move on that fast as much as I'd love to.

Posted by ladylibra21
I feel like an idiot because now I feel like I will have to tell him I deleted him because I have feelings for him and it is not healthy to stalk his page so I deleted him. It will probably push him away indefinitely but I think Ohdear is right I should probably just cut him out completely as much as I would like to stay friends with him. 😢

You should have never resorted to these types of games. You should never do that, especially to a Gem. They will be very hurt by it regardless. The better thing would have been to put on your big girl panties and approach it in a mature mild mannered way. Still not too late to do so, but use the experience as a learning opportunity for the future. If a Gem did that to a Libra, it would be hell. So I don't understand how acting this way is acceptable. Tisk tisk tisk!

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by ladylibra21
I feel like an idiot because now I feel like I will have to tell him I deleted him because I have feelings for him and it is not healthy to stalk his page so I deleted him. It will probably push him away indefinitely but I think Ohdear is right I should probably just cut him out completely as much as I would like to stay friends with him. 😢

You should have never resorted to these types of games. You should never do that, especially to a Gem. They will be very hurt by it regardless. The better thing would have been to put on your big girl panties and approach it in a mature mild mannered way. Still not too late to do so, but use the experience as a learning opportunity for the future. If a Gem did that to a Libra, it would be hell. So I don't understand how acting this way is acceptable. Tisk tisk tisk!

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I honestly wasn't trying to make it a game it was just something I did in the heat of the moment because I have intense anxiety and it has been on 100 lately and thinking about him doesn't help with that. I am an extremely busy person but for some reason he is always in my head I needed a moment to breath and stop checking up on him, but now it's gonna be award to explain. If I explain at all i mighy just as LUST said let it be I don't want to make him unhappy that's not what I'm going for, but I don't want to be unhappy either. I have a big play coming up in September that I have to be clear headed for. Sigh just wish I could say goodbye in person.

Just cancel your Facebook. You'll feel better without it. Seriously, you will.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Anybody with a scorpio moon will stalk the living shyt out of you. So just know that. lol.

They make the world's greatest detectives.

Truth^^^ depending on if he wants to let you know he noticed and reveal himself quickly will depend on him. He might wait to mention it or it might make him completely write you off. Disconnection to me is the easiest way, hard at first but it's the first step in me letting go.