What you say about this situation as geminis ma or Anyone?

for awhile...

i knew his pattern since every august he did it to me.. he disappear and comeback to me like nothing happen..

its been ayear since we are dating... he has this withdraw issue.. when he often dissappear, loss contact.. and dont text me back for awhile..

i read alot about gemini man,and end up with this forum..

i love him too much, maybe iwas too clingy and pushy when comes i feel insecurity, i always endup looking for his validatoin in this relationship...

just like last year, he did the same on august, i dont know he intend to did it to me, or just coincident that he felt stressfull or desperated about something..

everytime he disappear, he never failed to comeback to me... i never ask about why... but i always text him such "i m here,whenever you need me" or just simply "good night " "good morning"

my sign was Capricorn and dont know my other sign..

i always support him



some day i ask him, "did you ever get bored with me, my presence..." he said "never felt that way...." its fun to be with you, and i was flattered. and i ask him same question.. "will you get bored with me..." he said "no, i feel sorry if you should always do something for me..i felt dont deserved it.."

i care about how he felt about me.. and i knew about "withdraw" "doesnt text back" things and i understand him alot.. i never ask him why,he endup telling me why...after couple days he cameback...

and this time i felt he so different...

he sweet to me like usual.. i felt to much, too emotional recently, i read my diary same datee and i felt like it happent again.. and i still wish..."its nothing to do with me" and "theres nothing wrong about you" just like he said to me..

i trust his words.. but why part of me doesnt feel the same...

a year past with alot of fight, beautiful things, adventures... knowing each other...

will it be disappear in days... after he dissappear...

im afraid gems man tend to leave without saying anything.... when he felt bored, threatened, or something else bother his freedom...



this month so tough for him, for us... company financial issues, we work together, and we use to work daily keep the spark on, have something fun always, scheduling travel somewhere...

we rarely meet each other since it will waste money for anything..... he take day off for couple days... seems his work perfomances are down little bit because we didnt get paycheck for 3 months, but we can stand for each other to back up... i saw him mad one time because of this situation...and this august seem alot of pressure...

i feel wronged sometimes... i keep analyszing, reading our old conversation and end up crying alot ....

i never feel tired of this.. i just want an answer...

did he comeback again this time, if anyone of you are geminis man.. in this situations....

i really need answer or advice...

sorry for my english...

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Posted by Kjk62
Ouch. This is rough stuff.

Come on man. Maybe you could try to help her with something.

Shed some light on it. 😉

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u can help her too :

It sounds like you too need a break from this guy. He's had his , by disappearing again this august , but you have restlessly spent your days thinking about him , questioning his behaviour...

He seems like an inconsiderate person by disappearing without trace and then reappearing again like nothing has happened. Give him a chance to Communicate properly about what's going on. That's really the only way to sort things out. You should then considerate if it's still worthy continuing this relationship or not.

Note: you sound like you depend a lot on this man emotionally , you should detach yourself a little from him. It sounds like you do lots of stuff to please him. Is he doing the same for you? It doesn't sound like it.

You can love someone but not depend on them 100% for everything . Take a break.