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8 Years
Who is angry at Gemini, what did Gemini do to u this time?
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.
Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo moon and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
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Or unless i get bored first 😅 because it seems like i have more random interests than he does. Sometimes i feel like im all over the place. He goes with the flow.
Softies? Sweet 😊 I feel I dont have the heart to say when he is starting to bore me.
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
Or unless i get bored first 😅 because it seems like i have more random interests than he does. Sometimes i feel like im all over the place. He goes with the flow.
Softies? Sweet 😊 I feel I dont have the heart to say when he is starting to bore me.
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He bores you? 🤔 maybe to much Virgo energy he has... that’s kinda unusual for a Gem to be boring.
He bores you? 🤔 maybe to much Virgo energy he has... that’s kinda unusual for a Gem to be boring.
Yes. Moon, mars, jupiter, saturn in Virgo. (I made a mistake in OP -his merc is in gemini). Academic career. When he puts on his serious face it makes me giggle haha
He bores you? 🤔 maybe to much Virgo energy he has... that’s kinda unusual for a Gem to be boring.
Yes. Moon, mars, jupiter, saturn in Virgo. (I made a mistake in OP -his merc is in gemini). Academic career. When he puts on his serious face it makes me giggle haha
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Oh wow that’s one helluva interesting Gem...
He bores you? 🤔 maybe to much Virgo energy he has... that’s kinda unusual for a Gem to be boring.
Yes. Moon, mars, jupiter, saturn in Virgo. (I made a mistake in OP -his merc is in gemini). Academic career. When he puts on his serious face it makes me giggle haha
Oh wow that’s one helluva interesting Gem...
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Yes 😁 Happy vibes in general maybe from Gem, and the softness in his features esp the eyes maybe from Venus? Or maybe it is all the Virgo in him ~ive just taken for granted Virgos so much because the suns are tedious
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
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She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
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That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
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I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
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Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
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Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. 😢
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. 😢
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NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon 😉
I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. 😢
NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon 😉
I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.
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How long has this been going ok for? One thing I can say about Gems is they are very blunt and I appreciate that very much. So if you're curious about something in the future, just ask away when you feel ready to. I know it's easier said than done, but what have you got to lose?
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. 😢
NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon 😉
I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.
How long has this been going ok for? One thing I can say about Gems is they are very blunt and I appreciate that very much. So if you're curious about something in the future, just ask away when you feel ready to. I know it's easier said than done, but what have you got to lose?
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Thank you. Less than a month 😅 so im not ready. Im just enjoying this for now. Good vibes, he makes me happy.
im so mad at my gemini friend. i haven't seen him in a month & 2 months ago i bought tickets to a concert asking him to come but he didn't say yes. then this week he said that yeah he'll prob come and now he's telling me he has to hangout with his friend (that he can see any other day because she lives in the same town as him).
i know this sounds dumb, but it's an ongoing thing. this has happened more than once in different contexts.
if one of my friends was going to a concert (or anything else) and asked me to go, i always say yes. he knows that im just going to be going to the concert alone -- i would never do that to anyone. i don't understand why gemini's always need things to be beneficial for themselves. if they're going to be slightly uncomfortable for a friend, they're not doing it. they're not good friends tbh -- I'm always giving and giving (not that he asks but i always do) and i get nothing in return. whenever i visit him, we take my car everywhere, smoke my weed, etc and he does nothing -- it sometimes feels that he feels like its chore to hangout with me.
im so hurt. this has been my friend for a long time but I'm starting to think that i should stop being friends with him. he's so selfish and doesn't give a f*ck about me. he never does anything for me -- i think I'm done.
and this holds true with 2 of my other gemini friends -- they want everything done for them but will not lift a finger for anyone else.
Posted by fishcrabscale2
There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.Points of consideration:
Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars
Yeah we are cautious and slow 😑
Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems 💗 such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them 😆
She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. 👍
Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. 😢
NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon 😉
I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.
How long has this been going ok for? One thing I can say about Gems is they are very blunt and I appreciate that very much. So if you're curious about something in the future, just ask away when you feel ready to. I know it's easier said than done, but what have you got to lose?
Thank you. Less than a month 😅 so im not ready. Im just enjoying this for now. Good vibes, he makes me happy.
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Well every situation is different and not everyone is going to act the same based on their sign so don't worry about it and let it flow and see what happens as time goes on. For me I wasn't looking for a bf b/c a capricorn played me so I was ready to just live life and do me. Was introduced to Gem man along with other people in a group chat by my best friend (his cousin) and the moment he saw pics of me; in his eyes, I was his target and his goal was to take me off the market. Took him two weeks to get the job done LOL! Anyways, enjoy each others company, get to better know each other and if the vibes are still good, go for it 🙂
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im so mad at my gemini friend. i haven't seen him in a month & 2 months ago i bought tickets to a concert asking him to come but he didn't say yes. then this week he said that yeah he'll prob come and now he's telling me he has to hangout with his friend (that he can see any other day because she lives in the same town as him).i know this sounds dumb, but it's an ongoing thing. this has happened more than once in different contexts.
if one of my friends was going to a concert (or anything else) and asked me to go, i always say yes. he knows that im just going to be going to the concert alone -- i would never do that to anyone. i don't understand why gemini's always need things to be beneficial for themselves. if they're going to be slightly uncomfortable for a friend, they're not doing it. they're not good friends tbh -- I'm always giving and giving (not that he asks but i always do) and i get nothing in return. whenever i visit him, we take my car everywhere, smoke my weed, etc and he does nothing -- it sometimes feels that he feels like its chore to hangout with me.
im so hurt. this has been my friend for a long time but I'm starting to think that i should stop being friends with him. he's so selfish and doesn't give a f*ck about me. he never does anything for me -- i think I'm done.
and this holds true with 2 of my other gemini friends -- they want everything done for them but will not lift a finger for anyone else.
^why would you still hang with them then?
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because he's my friend and has been for a longtime and just because he doesn't want to do things that i want to do doesn't mean i should stop being friends with him. i guess I'm more mad at the fact that i have yet to meet people who are like me...who are down for whatever, whenever. but that still doesn't excuse his selfishness...i just need to distance myself from him i guess.
Posted by bloopbloopbloop
im so mad at my gemini friend. i haven't seen him in a month & 2 months ago i bought tickets to a concert asking him to come but he didn't say yes. then this week he said that yeah he'll prob come and now he's telling me he has to hangout with his friend (that he can see any other day because she lives in the same town as him).i know this sounds dumb, but it's an ongoing thing. this has happened more than once in different contexts.
if one of my friends was going to a concert (or anything else) and asked me to go, i always say yes. he knows that im just going to be going to the concert alone -- i would never do that to anyone. i don't understand why gemini's always need things to be beneficial for themselves. if they're going to be slightly uncomfortable for a friend, they're not doing it. they're not good friends tbh -- I'm always giving and giving (not that he asks but i always do) and i get nothing in return. whenever i visit him, we take my car everywhere, smoke my weed, etc and he does nothing -- it sometimes feels that he feels like its chore to hangout with me.
im so hurt. this has been my friend for a long time but I'm starting to think that i should stop being friends with him. he's so selfish and doesn't give a f*ck about me. he never does anything for me -- i think I'm done.
and this holds true with 2 of my other gemini friends -- they want everything done for them but will not lift a finger for anyone else.
^why would you still hang with them then?
because he's my friend and has been for a longtime and just because he doesn't want to do things that i want to do doesn't mean i should stop being friends with him. i guess I'm more mad at the fact that i have yet to meet people who are like me...who are down for whatever, whenever. but that still doesn't excuse his selfishness...i just need to distance myself from him i guess.
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I understand that you are angry. But that is how they are. They don't mean to be like that. They don't understand that what they are doing is bad. They are like butterfly's if u have an appointment and they think about something else. They just forget about u. They can't relate to your feelings. Its how they are. U need to choose if u can handle that kind of friendships. If it's to hard and stressful than I get it that u want out. They are like butterfly's u can't count on them. But they expect it from u. Like children. But don't forget about the good parts of your friendship. Than make a choice what to do. Or accept them how they are. They don't mean to hurt your feelings. Or try to talk to them about it. But I don't think they will change their behavior. But just for u to see if they care. Goodluck
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