why is he going crazy

Question.. He dumped me but his behavior is totally bitter.. deleting me from his facebook and myspace.. lieing on me to his mutual friends.. can someone help me explain this geminis behavior? besides childish..

he's making you look bad, so he will look good. it's part of the "never accepting fault" for anything they have done wrong.

What's wrong with deleting you from his personal space?


Isn't that part of a break up?

It just seems like he made an extra effort to make sure I was no longer apart of his life... Even if it is something as shallow as a facebook. That makes it hurt even more.. you dislike slash dont care for me ..enough to log on search my name and delete me .. I mean Damn.. thats just ridiculous.

Its like you dumped me.. told me ur done.. and came back to slap me in the face.. by saying .. your not worthy of being my sorry ass myspace friend.. now if yall dont see that as cold.. I do!

N then he had the nerve to put on his page that he is living the good life blah blah.. or so a friend tells me.. im just like what a jerk.. Im over here balling and your chaning your statuses to ..life is great ..!

dee Im really sorry to hear how this guy is treating you....why dont you delete him from your facebook as well as myspace?....give him a taste of his own medicine....cut him off completely...i know its hard...but you are making it harder on yourself to keep chasing him....he just doesnt seem worth it...he sounds very childish and well....you deserve better

i agree with P-Angel and dward. i know you are hurting, but why hurt yourself more than you have to? i went through this about a few years ago. i deleted him. i didn't even want him as a friend anymore. why would you want a friend like that? the longer he's connected, the longer you are "allowing" him to hurt you.

"Its like you dumped me.. told me ur done.. and came back to slap me in the face.. by saying .. your not worthy of being my sorry ass myspace friend.. now if yall dont see that as cold.. I do!"



He didn't come back to slap you in the face, dee .... you just want him to want you so bad that you have yourself believing that he should at least want you to be friends with him.

Trust me ... once your heart is no longer huring .. you'll be able to see more clearly. Because certainly, if this were the other way around and you broke up with him and no longer wanted a relationship with him, you wouldn't want him for a friend niether.



It's finished .... the only way you are going to heal from disgruntlement is by allowing yourself to be free of him ... let him go.

Time has allowed me to see alot clearer on this situation and what makes me happy, is as the vail lifts. I dont see myself getting angry but happy that I no longer have to deal with someone like that in my life. I dont fault him for ending a relationship he was no longer interested in.. but I do for the way in which he went about it. And his actions following the break up shows me that he is not even worth my friendship. And Im not just talking about the myspace etc.. he was a straight jerk to me... and the disrespect that he has shown me..will be forgiven but not forgotten. thanx for the advice..

n i would like to add karma is a bitch... he always complanned cause I am a broke college student who cant afford a car.. and 2 days after we broke up.. he got his precious..vehicle impounded..cause he couldnt pay the bill. 🙂 ..its cruel to laugh.. but ... LOL.

serves him right...by the way what is your horoscope deezired? You sound like a really nice person and I hope you find someone to treat you nice.

Tasha your comment is confusing... but ur making it seem like he got away wit murder. He's a nobody.. I let him know that n then some after he disrespected me.. and took a few mutual friends wit me! So while .. . he is an ass.. I didnt let him punk me. I just saw this whole deleting crap .. as like over the top and childish.

at one point I was in a tire slashing mood.. but Im glad I had me a margarita and sat down somewhere. Because the car would have been taken away and my efforts would have been ..USELESS 🙂

Prolly so..