Born on my birthday ... sigh Leo

I met a Leo man on social media who was born on my birthday and he's super cool but I am not getting enough attention from him. I get jealous if he gives other females attention but of course I hide it from him because I don't want to scare him away from me . Recently, I told him we should stop being so consistent with each other in text because we know that we don't want to be more than friends, I only said that to him because I've been hurt in the past and I don't want to be hurt again. I really like him but I strongly believe we both are lying to each other about our true feelings. I have a feeling he's into polygyny and eventually he wants me to accept it and I ain't on that life style .

I am a Queen , A LEO QUEEN and I need all his attention.

I am of the opinion he's pist off because I told him we should ease down on our text message ( I didn't really mean it lol ) , I really thought he was going to fight for our friendship because we share the same birthday but he ran off into the jungle and now I can't find him.

What do I do ?

He's lease interested in talking to me right now and it's killing me inside .

I really don't want to be in is DM like a stalker ( ewwww) so I just have to sit back and wait for his feedback.

What should I do Guys ? I AM CONFUSED ! Sigh