100% Leo here - so what is the deal?

So I seem to most interested in woman that play hard to get. However, I seem to never give up long after the flame is gone. The easy woman get boring to me very often. I am chasing a woman that is probably thinking this guy is not for me. I have learned to read the signs (yeah - yes or no who knows). This one wanted me every second and now maybe a text once a day. I know she is busy with life or another dude. I have taken the high road and backing off from constant to replying only to her. She is a Pisces and not very good with the compliments. Of course we Leo's need a compliment here and there.

So my fellow other Leo guys, do you have the same issues?

Cringe.

Stop chasing women who are not interested. No means no

Nah



I say

Pisces

Sag

Taurus

At least your admitting to needing compliments



Find someone who strokes ya ego

Posted by sportscarguy

So I seem to most interested in woman that play hard to get. However, I seem to never give up long after the flame is gone. The easy woman get boring to me very often. I am chasing a woman that is probably thinking this guy is not for me. I have learned to read the signs (yeah - yes or no who knows). This one wanted me every second and now maybe a text once a day. I know she is busy with life or another dude. I have taken the high road and backing off from constant to replying only to her. She is a Pisces and not very good with the compliments. Of course we Leo's need a compliment here and there.

So my fellow other Leo guys, do you have the same issues?

Lmao!!! Sorrry, I’m laughing because I feel like I could be be the Pisces woman you’re talking about, and you’re the frustrating Leo in my life. Lmao! If so, oops, guess we may as well be honest and say “gotcha!” Lmao.

Jokes aside. I’m a Pisces female and if your situation is anything like the one I have/had with a Leo male, then let me explain...

When I met this Leo male, I found him endearing. He’s a Leo, but he seemed shy, a little socially awkward around pretty women, and a little insecure. The juxtaposition of it all was cute to me, because he’s this big tall, sports guy, attractive, lots of women throw themselves at him, but that shyness, that bit of insecurity, bashful side of him made me feel he was a bit down to earth, humble.

Pisces women, we are more about the internal side of someone. The character.

Anyway, I took the initiative, I never do that with men, I like to be the woman, and play the feminine, submissive, passive role. But with him, I thought he’s shy, I’ll let him know I like him. So I flirted, and flirted. I gave him my number. I mean I really, REALLY went out of my comfort zone. Trouble is, he never matched. Instead it felt like he wanted me to kiss his ass. He’s Brad Pitt and I’m now some nobody groupie.

Ew. No thanks. I kept trying, saw no change. It just became the “Leo show.” BIG TURN OFF! Remember, I liked him initially cuz I thought he was down to earth. Not some cliche, self absorbed pretty boy and jock.

I started pulling away, not because I wanted to play games, but because I genuinely lost interest. I’m interested in a partnership. Pisces women want partnerships. We can treat you like a King, but not if it means you’re treating us like second class peasants.

This Leo, never asks me about my day. I have a health issue currently that’s difficult for me. Does he ever ask me how I’m doing? No.

He only asks me and pretends interest in how my day to day life goes when he’s about to follow it up with a “so...do you want to come over?” The compliments I get. All amount to my body and looks and how he wants to get his hands on me.

Meh. I’m attractive. Tell me something new.

I’d like someone to not objectify me but actually show they like me for more than my looks. I had thought, cuz people judge Leos for being vapid and good looking, he’d get that and be different. But nope.

My point is. There’s a chance that perhaps in your search of needing your ego stroke, (“she sucks at compliments”) that you may have made yourself come across as self absorbed and vain.

That’s a HUGE turn off for Pisces that value things like depth, humor, spirituality over material, shallow qualities like looks and sex.

If you want to win her heart, you have to treat her like she’s a prize. You treat her like a Queen, She will treat you like a King. It’s honestly that simple.

Sorry OP. My message was long.

But I’ll tell you what I wish I could honestly tell the Leo guy I know.

I can’t kiss your ass and scratch your back, if you can’t scratch mine.

I can’t make you the star of my life, if I’m some after thought in yours.

Relationships need to be balanced. That’s ALL relationships: friendships, coworkers, family, sexual, etc.

My Leo doesn’t seem to get that. It’s literally the Leo show for him, 24/7. I’ve noticed even when we are at work, he only comes around when he’s sniffing for his daily fix of Leo adoration and attention.

The real mark of how ego driven he was, was when we went almost two months not talking. I was out sick for a week or so, he never once thought to text or call to see if I was okay. Instead he waited until I returned to work, and suddenly he’s showing me with shallow, sexual compliments (you look so hot blah blah). Then invites me over. So it’s like the compliments, the attention, a prelude to his hookup invite.

Idk. Idk. This Pisces girl-I’m a Leo Rising—Aries Moon. I can handle fire. But the ego of Leo men is just unattractive to me. I’m not gonna kiss your ass and stroke your ego and be this one sided cheerleader for you.

Can’t say for certain if this is why your Pisces woman has pulled away, but I’m willing to bet you aren’t coming off as you think you are. And as a result, you’re both maybe lost in translation. You misperceive her. She’s mispercieving you.