Ok so let me start off by saying me and this guy have seen each other 3 or 4 times and were intement. We then both were driven away geologically by work related issues for a few months but still texted ALL of the time. Long story short I got caught up in some personal financial and otherwise issues and didn't reach out for appx. 2 weeks. I reached out one day because I was missing him and didn't hear back which was unusual because I usually at least heard back the next day. By the end of the 3rd day I freaked out thinking something happened to him and sent him texts, an email, called several times and video messeged him. The location his was in and his lack on communication freaked me out and then I thought maybe he was ignoring me because he found interest in another and pissed me off because at least you could say something and not be rude and disrespectful! Needless to say the very next day I got a ride text stating that he had been busy and to lose his number because he didn't need my drama. I can understand that's and t overboard but I was genuinely concerned and freaked out because he simply didn't respond like usual. To be honest I was happy hat I at leas knew he was k when he responded but apologized about crewing out and told him why and asked for him to color give my snapping session and take a breather for a couple months until he got back and try again. My question ultimately is do you think he will? I know that both of us both stated that we had not met anyone hat we really felt could be the real deal in a very long time and we both really liked each other and mised each other too. What do you think?
Aries woman's and Leo male. Typical Aries snapping
Sorry damn auto correct! I hope you can understand lol.

Posted by Arieschic
Ok so let me start off by saying me and this guy have seen each other 3 or 4 times and were intement. We then both were driven away geologically by work related issues for a few months but still texted ALL of the time. Long story short I got caught up in some personal financial and otherwise issues and didn't reach out for appx. 2 weeks. I reached out one day because I was missing him and didn't hear back which was unusual because I usually at least heard back the next day. By the end of the 3rd day I freaked out thinking something happened to him and sent him texts, an email, called several times and video messeged him. The location his was in and his lack on communication freaked me out and then I thought maybe he was ignoring me because he found interest in another and pissed me off because at least you could say something and not be rude and disrespectful! Needless to say the very next day I got a ride text stating that he had been busy and to lose his number because he didn't need my drama. I can understand that's and t overboard but I was genuinely concerned and freaked out because he simply didn't respond like usual. To be honest I was happy hat I at leas knew he was k when he responded but apologized about crewing out and told him why and asked for him to color give my snapping session and take a breather for a couple months until he got back and try again. My question ultimately is do you think he will? I know that both of us both stated that we had not met anyone hat we really felt could be the real deal in a very long time and we both really liked each other and mised each other too. What do you think?

What the hell is "intement?"

"... didn't reach out for appx. 2 weeks."
Did he contact you during that time?
Did he contact you during that time?
Exactly the typical Aries ego went to work! I feel really bad but I explained that 2 people close to me had died suddenly while I was going through a stressful personal situation and he was in a dangerous area. When he didn't respond I freaked out thinking something happened to him too! Even though he told me to lose his number he didn't delete or block me from the video chatting app so I was thinking maybe he was aggravated and annoyed by my tantrum but understood where I was coming from. I was guessing that when he came back that both of would kinda be over the situation and try again. What do y'all think?
Also I wasn't unavailable I just didn't text him nor him me. When I noticed it that's when I contacted him. I should also add that I do it to friends and family too and visa versa. I personally feel that he could have at least just texted and said hey I'm good just busy will text when thinks calm down, then I wouldn't have freaked out.
Oh well I guess I'll find out at the end of the month. If not it'll suck but at the same time I am a good looking woman with my own home, 2 jobs and a business, and 1 degree and working on the second with no kids and never been married.i know I'm an asset and a needle in the haystack. I'm pretty sure he'll be back because anyone whine I have ever dated or slept with has ALWAYS come back at some time, whether it was pretty quick or a year later. If I'm still available maybe we can start over and try it again but I never stay in the market for long. I am very very picky though lol.
No I'm not arrogant just confident. It took me a long time to know my self worth after being in a emotionally, physically, and verbally abusive relationship to get here.

Please can I add the following disclaimer:
"Arieschic's opinions are purely her own and do not represent the wider views of other (sane) Aries women"
thank you
"Arieschic's opinions are purely her own and do not represent the wider views of other (sane) Aries women"
thank you
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