Bit of a slump

MY fellow leo's I'm having a slump, it's been 5 years since I last dated. I can't seem to find any girl I'm interested in, and there doesn't seem to be any interested in me either. I'm long since over the last relationship I had and wouldn't mind a new gal, but I just haven't been having any luck. What do you folks do when you're having a bit of a dating slump?

Not a leo but when I'm in a bit of a slump I just live my life making sure in every moment I make myself happy. My philosophy is that if I don't go looking for love, love will find me. And if I'm busy with my life not worrying about it an opportunity usually presents itself. Good luck!

Posted by xtina
Not a leo but when I'm in a bit of a slump I just live my life making sure in every moment I make myself happy. My philosophy is that if I don't go looking for love, love will find me. And if I'm busy with my life not worrying about it an opportunity usually presents itself. Good luck!

this is my usual approach but now its been 5 years lol Doesn't appear to be working.

5 YEARS ..., hold up, blow the whistle.

Find your inner Lion. I would suggest dating a couple different women simultaneously so you don't fall in love after the first date. Make sure you disclose that your are just out here having fun. After a few dates you should have a better idea of what you are looking for.

Posted by Nala13
5 YEARS ..., hold up, blow the whistle.

Find your inner Lion. I would suggest dating a couple different women simultaneously so you don't fall in love after the first date. Make sure you disclose that your are just out here having fun. After a few dates you should have a better idea of what you are looking for.

Yeah, after the last one( she was a leo as well) I just sort of didn't even think about it, I went off and did some things for myself, finished school, got my own place, better paying job, got my life a bit more sorted out. but now things are a bit routine and fairly boring, I'm not meeting new people and the single life is starting to get stale. Everyone i know keeps asking why I haven't found somebody yet.

Posted by LeonianGuitar

Posted by Nala13
5 YEARS ..., hold up, blow the whistle.

Find your inner Lion. I would suggest dating a couple different women simultaneously so you don't fall in love after the first date. Make sure you disclose that your are just out here having fun. After a few dates you should have a better idea of what you are looking for.

Yeah, after the last one( she was a leo as well) I just sort of didn't even think about it, I went off and did some things for myself, finished school, got my own place, better paying job, got my life a bit more sorted out. but now things are a bit routine and fairly boring, I'm not meeting new people and the single life is starting to get stale. Everyone i know keeps asking why I haven't found somebody yet.

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I'm surprised your friends aren't trying to set you up.

Or are they, and you're turning them down?

Nope. Nobody is trying to set me up with anyone, in fact a lot of my friends have moved away. Thus the monotony. Get up, go to work. Return home early in the morning, sleep, repeat. you can see why this isn't very stimulating.

Forgive me for I know not the answer, are you at least moderately attractive?

Posted by Nala13
Forgive me for I know not the answer, are you at least moderately attractive?

I'd hope so lol!

your venus isnt aligned right w/the sign

You probably needed the break.
Are you actually going out and meeting people?
Do you belong to any social clubs?

I am actually having the same problem and looking for things to do that will have me socializing more.

Posted by LunarMaiden
You probably needed the break.
Are you actually going out and meeting people?
Do you belong to any social clubs?

I am actually having the same problem and looking for things to do that will have me socializing more.

im a musician. I play at a local place every week. But i work alot.

I had a plenty of fish profile once but it didnt get me anywhere lol. Just feels like a really long dryspell.

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Posted by LeonianGuitar
I had a plenty of fish profile once but it didnt get me anywhere lol. Just feels like a really long dryspell.

Are you sure that, subconsciously, you're not holding yourself back from dating and love relationships?

A simple test to figure this out (Pardon the explicit nature of a few of these suggestions)

- You have a long term plan (5 years and above) and are en route to achieving it.
- You find yourself listening to the news rather than watching a sitcom just for something meaningful to pique your interest
- You are asking more questions of yourself than finding answers
- You are committed to finding answers
- Shallowness irks you now more than it did five years ago, but you have much more tolerance of it now... ironically
- Your sexuality is not the first and foremost on your mind - your emotional life is more important to you
- You are able to achieve physical sexual satisfaction more easily now and are seeking an emotional connection more.
- Social niceties are just so tiring (If you're a Cancer moon, it's possible lol)

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I wouldn't say I have any long term plans, I've always been self analytical though.
And I never pay attention too the news, already know whats happening; somebody lied, somebody died, government's screwing you.

Here's my birth chart if that provides any incite

Posted by LeonianGuitar

Posted by Jynja

Posted by LeonianGuitar
I had a plenty of fish profile once but it didnt get me anywhere lol. Just feels like a really long dryspell.

Are you sure that, subconsciously, you're not holding yourself back from dating and love relationships?

A simple test to figure this out (Pardon the explicit nature of a few of these suggestions)

- You have a long term plan (5 years and above) and are en route to achieving it.
- You find yourself listening to the news rather than watching a sitcom just for something meaningful to pique your interest
- You are asking more questions of yourself than finding answers
- You are committed to finding answers
- Shallowness irks you now more than it did five years ago, but you have much more tolerance of it now... ironically
- Your sexuality is not the first and foremost on your mind - your emotional life is more important to you
- You are able to achieve physical sexual satisfaction more easily now and are seeking an emotional connection more.
- Social niceties are just so tiring (If you're a Cancer moon, it's possible lol)

I wouldn't say I have any long term plans, I've always been self analytical though.
And I never pay attention too the news, already know whats happening; somebody lied, somebody died, government's screwing you.

Here's my birth chart if that provides any incite

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Sorry post didn't work, here's my natal chart

Posted by geminicandIe
Do you live in a place where everyone's retarded or something?
Do you have too high standards or expectations? Are you shy? Or is NOBODY capturing your interest at all?

I can't really find anyone that grabs my attention, I don't really have too many standards, just want a nice person with a bit of a responsible outlook on life. Not really in to the party life anymore since I'm approaching my 30's. I live in a small town where in most of the people are teenagers goign to highschool and old folks retiring...

I either meet people way too young for me or way too old. Can't seem to meet people close to my own age that aren't already spoken for.

It'd be nice if I could. I've suspected it was environment as well. I'm actually hoping to move to the city towards the end of summer. Really, I'm not looking for a girl to BE my life, I just think it's more fun to SHARE my life with someone. I love my quiet alone time, but once in a while, it's nice to have someone to enjoy life with.

Quite possibly 😄 In the mean time ugh the boringness.

Thanks! No worries I like conversation! Still kinda new to all the astrology stuff myself.

Have you ever considered moving to a new city? That always works for me. When things get stale or I feel stuck I move and it always seems to revive the energy back in my life and things become interesting again. On the plus side moving to a new city means more new and bigger dating pool 🙂.

^^^Opps sorry didn't read the other posts. Tend to do that a lot -__-