Can a pisces and leo ever really be together?

Im a pisces and not emotionally cut out for this. I didnt like him like this at first. Ive been hooking up with this leo guy i was instantly attracted to. We just got to know each other the first time, but did oral the second time. No intercourse, but still other stuff. im a virgin until im in love he knows this. Im 24 hes 27. The third and fourth times hes been much gentler and attentive, saying how he wants to please me. Someone said he wants to take my virginty so hes faking the niceness? Hes so passionate and sensual, even kissed me on the forhead in bed, and was kissibg me extremly slow. Before i left he gave me a tight hug where he picked me up and gave me a peck on the lips goodbye. We hang out at his place, hes always finding everything i say or do cute and funny. His friend is attracted to me, but says the guy im with is a bit jealous/possessive. he also said he finds me intimidating, and even the guy im fwb is shy around me when he usually is outgoing and gets most of the girls.

The thing is hes so secretive. Is that the usual deal with fwb? Ive talked to him about his career and hobbies which hes open about. He told me how hard the LSAT and bar was for him since im in struggling with the GRE. but little things he likes to keep secret. Why? Example, i saw a case in his room and asked about it, he said it was nothing, then i asked is it a rifle, and then he said yes! I know hes a hunter, so why not say what it is in the first place? Then i asked him to add me on facebook and he said he doesnt have one. I found him, albeit he hasnt updated it in 4 months.

Im a pisces and not emotionally cut out for this. I didnt like him like this at first. Ive been hooking up with this leo guy i was instantly attracted to. We just got to know each other the first time, but did oral the second time. No intercourse, but still other stuff. im a virgin until im in love he knows this. Im 24 hes 27. The third and fourth times hes been much gentler and attentive, saying how he wants to please me. Someone said he wants to take my virginty so hes faking the niceness? Hes so passionate and sensual, even kissed me on the forhead in bed, and was kissibg me extremly slow. Before i left he gave me a tight hug where he picked me up and gave me a peck on the lips goodbye. We hang out at his place, hes always finding everything i say or do cute and funny. His friend is attracted to me, but says the guy im with is a bit jealous/possessive. he also said he finds me intimidating, and even the guy im fwb is shy around me when he usually is outgoing and gets most of the girls.

The thing is hes so secretive. Is that the usual deal with fwb? Ive talked to him about his career and hobbies which hes open about. He told me how hard the LSAT and bar was for him since im in struggling with the GRE. but little things he likes to keep secret. Why? Example, i saw a case in his room and asked about it, he said it was nothing, then i asked is it a rifle, and then he said yes! I know hes a hunter, so why not say what it is in the first place? Then i asked him to add me on facebook and he said he doesnt have one. I found him, albeit he hasnt updated it in 4 months.

I have agree with seraph on all points. One I am a little confused with your post. Do have a Leo friend and a friend (FWB)? or is Leo guy FWB? If you have a FWB situation, how are you still a virgin? Just logistics.

But, yes, we Leos do love to please when we dig someone. But I think he smells a conquest here and we love challenges. If you don't want to lose the V-Card until you are in Love, stay true to yourself.

Tje leo guy is the fwb. Im a virgin, but dont know how else to discribe it lol. The leo guys ftiend rold me they both are intimidated by me and that the lwo guy is shy around me when he usually isnt bc he gets most girls. he evn said the leo guy is a bit jealous/possessive of the fact that his friend is attracted to me too

Posted by Cutenshypisces
Tje leo guy is the fwb. Im a virgin, but dont know how else to discribe it lol. The leo guys ftiend rold me they both are intimidated by me and that the lwo guy is shy around me when he usually isnt bc he gets most girls. he evn said the leo guy is a bit jealous/possessive of the fact that his friend is attracted to me too

You are willing to go to all lengths but giving up the goods. Nothing wrong with that, a personal choice and you are honest and upfront with it. I still get the feeling he is seeing you as a challenge and conquest, that is why I say to be true to yourself. Don't give up what you are not willing to give up to someone unless you are 100% certain you are ready.

I never know what i eant. I was ok with it at first, but then he started being so nice, im getting confused and kiking him for his sweetness. Yet knowing it may all be a rouse to get my v card is pissing me off enough to nit like him anymore

I never know what i eant. I was ok with it at first, but then he started being so nice, im getting confused and kiking him for his sweetness. Yet knowing it may all be a rouse to get my v card is pissing me off enough to nit like him anymore

I seem to have this issue w men in general, thinking i dont want more but fall for them when they treat me so nicely. Guess im used to jerks! Lol. Same story almost with a virgo. That is for the virgo forum, but with him i ended it. He still wanted to be friends. We still talk and see each other, but i guess hehh doesnt want me for more or he wouldve asked.

How does fwb means ruse to get my v card. Actually we never defined this as fwb, i just dont know how to out it. Guess were fooling around on occasiin. But he knows im not going to have sex, so if he says or does something with the intent of trying to get me to give him my virginity it IS deception Nd manioulation i e. A ruse. I can move on, i dont like him that much yet. Just dissapointed i keep getting guys that only want sex when im a pisces dying for love. The virgo i cant seem to forget

Virgin's don't want an FWB situation.
Please go find someone who actually cares for you and will treat you gently.
Take your time, and find the right guy for you.

Idk what it is about us Pisces and Leos, but we always seem to end up in a FWB relationship. The sexual attraction is very strong. Lol! It is very possible for a Leo and a Pisces to be together but it's gonna take a lot of hard work especially when it comes to communication and understanding each other. But I personally think a Pisces woman and a Leo man have a lot of potential. Good Luck hun!

Posted by seraph

Posted by TheLioness79

But I think he smells a conquest here and we love challenges.

Yes, it would appear he has the better deal and she's left wanting more intimacy, which is more often than not optional in an FWB situation.

My question is whether she does in fact want this. In an FWB situation it's common for one of the parties to develop feelings, which tends to complicate what's intended (whether it's reasonable or not) to be an arrangement based on a sexual, rather than emotionally intimate, connection.

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I agree with you 100% .

Posted by Cutenshypisces
I seem to have this issue w men in general, thinking i dont want more but fall for them when they treat me so nicely. Guess im used to jerks! Lol. Same story almost with a virgo. That is for the virgo forum, but with him i ended it. He still wanted to be friends. We still talk and see each other, but i guess hehh doesnt want me for more or he wouldve asked.

You are a young lady who is growing and learning about life. You are also dealing with young men who are in their sexual prime. You are looking for love but at the same time you are meeting guys and taking the physical intimacy to a level where anything goes except sex before you even develop feelings for them. With the physical intimacy happening so fast so soon, of course these young men are going to feel they are going to achieve getting the VCard from you so soon. Not just Leo's, but any sign will see this as a challenge and one they want to win. Soon they realize they will not get it and yes will start being a jerk and move on. If love is what you are looking for. Slow it down. Get to know the guy and let him get to know you before you start any physical intimacy. Build a relationship first were you both develop feelings for each other. Take the WB out of the FWB when it comes to guys you are interested in getting to know better for a possible relationship. Once you get guys to know you based off of you substance as a person and you them, you will be able judge better if this is someone you want to have a relationship with. Stop chasing love and let it find you.

Posted by missnia08
Idk what it is about us Pisces and Leos, but we always seem to end up in a FWB relationship. The sexual attraction is very strong.

Very strong, right from the get-go! Super magnetic 🙂

I haven't read thru all of this just the first few posts. From experience with a leo being in a similar situation, the problem is u started as Fwb. If u want to stay a virgin until u find love this is not the best way to begin, IF you are looking to get somewhere with him. He will always want sex no matter what and may be comforting and all now but his needs will eventually overpower your restrictions. Basically it has gotten too complicated already and u need to really figure out what u want.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Virgin's don't want an FWB situation.
Please go find someone who actually cares for you and will treat you gently.
Take your time, and find the right guy for you.

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this reminds me of a joke...well, a meme.
It goes like ths:
Who are we?
Women!
What do we want?
We don't know!
When do we want it?
NOW!

lol.
seriously, though...baby girl, please don't go to him indecisively because, like they say, if you don't stand for something,
you'll fall for anything. That would surely lead to the demise of your chastity.
good luck!.

Posted by Cutenshypisces
But he knows im not going to have sex, so if he says or does something with the intent of trying to get me to give him my virginity it IS deception Nd manioulation i e. A ruse. I can move on, i dont like him that much yet. Just dissapointed i keep getting guys that only want sex when im a pisces dying for love. The virgo i cant seem to forget

Think about your future.....

Realistically, if this Leo accidentally got you pregnant could you deal with him for years to come —

Plus If you've gone this long of being a Virgin why not just wait until you get a ring.

Hmmm ... I am a Leo woman who dated a Pisces man for many years. While there were other issues at play as to why it didn't work out, a large part was the fact that Leo's and Pisces are so different. A Leo will appreciate and love the romanticism and sensitivity of the PIsces, as well as be intrigued by the dreamer, head in the clouds state. A leo will also love the love that pisces gives them. However, over time, Leo's need to be grounded and their need for realism etc. will cause the dreamer like qualities of the Picses to become a little irritating as they start to see it as not being in touch with reality or facing the world.

That being said, there is nothing wrong with that and I still appreciate that in my Pisces ex and I sometimes feel like may I'm just not spiritually advanced enough from this Earth to understand his way of thinking. We remain good friends but there were too many differences in value and point of view, as well as motivation and goal orientation for it to stay a love relationship.

Just one more thing that has nothing to do with signs ... I applaud you for waiting for the one you really love, but also take the pressure of yourself and whoever 'the one' may be. You can love and love long and deep, but that doesn't guarantee forever or marriage or the next 50 years. If you're waiting for that, you may never find it because the future can never be guaranteed. But if you love someone and trust them ... even if years down the line it doesn't work out, you'll know that it was true love and a genuine experience you both shared.