So I've been dating this Leo for about a month now... All going well, seems to be a few control issues but were learning to compromise.
I prob should tell you the history...
We met in march, went to a huge party together, had lots of fun. I kept it quite casual as I was sleeping with someone else so I only saw my Leo once a week or so. After a few meetings, maybe 6 weeks or so, the Leo was asking for more from me, said she wants to get to know me more, go on dates etc, I said I wasn't ready etc.
So then were in April 26th to be exact and I see her at a pub, we hang out but it's clear she's over my games etc. We still hang out, have lots of fun etc... We're then inseparable. I prob should mention I ended it with another girl (libra) I was seeing so my full attention was on the Leo. We hang out all the time which brings us to current day, were together but I can't figure her out, I give her so much attention, affection, I listen, good to her friends etc but it seems we've done a complete 180 and now I'm the one who really likes her and although I know she wouldn't see me if she doesn't like me. I just want to know what Leo's are like in relationships? She's all cool, calm and confident. Meanwhile inside I just want her to fall for me.
I'm a first decan virgo with Leo rising.
All I know if her is she's a 2nd decan Leo, older than me etc.
It's quite simple, the things we Leos want the most are usually the things we cannot have. As long as you were seeing the Libra it was a challenge to win your affections. The chase is over. The prey has been tackled.
If you want to turn the tables again you must act like you don't really care one way or another. You might even want to go out with someone else. Before you do this, ask yourself if you want to go down this road of cat and mouse. It can be exhausting and quite unhealthy. However, if you hang in there it might change your life. We are quite the prize if I do say so myself.
Seraph's advice was true however as a Virgo I know not analyzing is not something you can do. You don't know how.
Hi! I am a virgo girl and dated a leo man. I would say that I feel your pain, its a constant chase game with leos. The minute they got you they drift away. Both virgos and leos are very giving but we are also very different. The key is to not try to dissect them and try to figure them out, you will get disappointed. As virgos, we love to analyze and we like to see were we stand. Let go of that! It will not work with a leo, with them you just need to sit and enjoy the ride. Also, be prepared to put up with her ego, leos have big egos but they also have BIG HEARTS and are very giving. I personally think that virgo and leo is a great match as long as virgo doesn't start analyzing, dissecting, and criticizing them, they hate that!
And I can also tell you that I have many leo friends and they love virgos and cannot get us either lol. Some of their comments are:
-Virgos do not feel - Virgos are responsible, and we admire virgos because we are hard workers and have our lives together
And guess what? I know at least 3 married leo and virgo couples who are very much happy and in love. The key here is not to try to analyze your leo lover. But just know that leos are very loyal, passionate, and givers.
I prob should tell you the history...
We met in march, went to a huge party together, had lots of fun. I kept it quite casual as I was sleeping with someone else so I only saw my Leo once a week or so. After a few meetings, maybe 6 weeks or so, the Leo was asking for more from me, said she wants to get to know me more, go on dates etc, I said I wasn't ready etc.
So then were in April 26th to be exact and I see her at a pub, we hang out but it's clear she's over my games etc. We still hang out, have lots of fun etc... We're then inseparable. I prob should mention I ended it with another girl (libra) I was seeing so my full attention was on the Leo. We hang out all the time which brings us to current day, were together but I can't figure her out, I give her so much attention, affection, I listen, good to her friends etc but it seems we've done a complete 180 and now I'm the one who really likes her and although I know she wouldn't see me if she doesn't like me. I just want to know what Leo's are like in relationships? She's all cool, calm and confident. Meanwhile inside I just want her to fall for me.
I'm a first decan virgo with Leo rising.
All I know if her is she's a 2nd decan Leo, older than me etc.