MyStarsShine
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Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
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I want you all to know that the average 20 year old won't go to be with a woman who's a single parent this far in great lengths... I have faced a lot of pain and agony and I'm very proud of myself for being faithful and loyal to her till the end.
Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
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Why?
...are you ashamed of her age?
Posted by MyStarsShineBecause my mother is Greek and in our Greek culture we have something called boundaries... I didn't tell her about my Leo being unfaithful because that would just be disrespectful and bring down my Leo's value infront of my families eyes. Women have value and worth in the Greek culture it's not all western like everyone thinks. Talking to my mom about my issues would've ended with "if it were a Greek woman you would've been married and have kids already"Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
Why?
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My mother is also sick she can't handle drama and she needs attentive care instead of me opening to her about my relationships
Posted by MyStarsShineNo im not ashamed of her age. I told my Leo
...are you ashamed of her age?
Woman her age was never an issue, I don't know
how she feels about my age but her age was never an issue.
I just wanted to keep it relative atleast for my mother since she is Greek.
'My father doesn't give a shit he's Russian he is cool with everything lol
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Mark-23Your are holding on to that mistakePosted by notsosureThere was a time when she was on my hook and I should've done something instead of sitting around on my ass and enjoying everything.Posted by Mark-23Aaah. Okay. Looks like she's on his hook and you're on hers. And neither of it is a loving relationship.Posted by ImpulsvHe's like in his late 30s, I have a feeling he's taking her for a right cause when I came in the picture they were 4-5 year in and no damn ring.
Well she might care about not putting you through hell in your prime age.
How old is the ex sag?
No ring, well all is fair game. One of my favorite poetic quotes is
"all is fair in love and war"
Let it go
People lose it all cuz can't let go of one wrong moveclick to expand
As you can see I'm letting it go... I hope you all are happy. I'm letting it go... I cannot chase someone who doesn't value the effort I'm putting in for them
Posted by Mark-23I didn't mean telling your mother about the infidelityPosted by MyStarsShineBecause my mother is Greek and in our Greek culture we have something called boundaries... I didn't tell her about my Leo being unfaithful because that would just be disrespectful and bring down my Leo's value infront of my families eyes. Women have value and worth in the Greek culture it's not all western like everyone thinks. Talking to my mom about my issues would've ended with "if it were a Greek woman you would've been married and have kids already"Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
Why?
My mother is also sick she can't handle drama and she needs attentive care instead of me opening to her about my relationshipsclick to expand
Was your mum sick 2yrs ago when you met Leo?
Posted by yupvirgooNo offense but I'm no f kid. I have a career as an engineer, I finishing my mech engineers degree, and I have started a few of my own companies...Posted by PootyButt*cringesPosted by yupvirgooHa! No. I haven't had that problem lately. When I'm in the classroom I turn the mother hen and dorky nerd vibes way up, and I turn the flirty, sexy vibes way down. 😆 The young guys are still sometimes...distracted, but I just pretend not to notice that. I honestly get flirtier vibes from the male staff and married professors. *rolls eyes*Posted by PootyButtHonestly, I see them mostly as kids. They're very childish still. Freshmen huh? Those are the types to become infatuated with their professors. Been receiving any creative notes lately? lol They're ridiculous at that age.Posted by yupvirgooRight! There's a cut-off, not sure what age, I guess around 25 for most people...those younger than that, I just feel like I'm dealing with extremely intelligent teenagers. MOST of them, that is. I teach college freshmen, and the vast majority honestly are not very mature. They still enjoy smarting off to authority figures and have trouble getting themselves out of bed in the morning.
*cringes
I teach uni students.
Are you getting heart eye notes?
Kids are weird so yeah sometimes.
They tend to idealize things too much.click to expand
I'm no f kid .... don't compare to me to kids don't talk to me as if I'm a kid.
Posted by MyStarsShineNo she wasn't till this year... I actually help take care of her sometimes. I told my family about my Leo and they all know I love her so dearly; but because we are so close and tight net they can see the affects of her not being good to me... my attitude and my mood my happiness... poof gone out the doorPosted by Mark-23I didn't mean telling your mother about the infidelityPosted by MyStarsShineBecause my mother is Greek and in our Greek culture we have something called boundaries... I didn't tell her about my Leo being unfaithful because that would just be disrespectful and bring down my Leo's value infront of my families eyes. Women have value and worth in the Greek culture it's not all western like everyone thinks. Talking to my mom about my issues would've ended with "if it were a Greek woman you would've been married and have kids already"Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
Why?
My mother is also sick she can't handle drama and she needs attentive care instead of me opening to her about my relationships
Was your mum sick 2yrs ago when you met Leo?
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Posted by Mark-23Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Mark-23Your are holding on to that mistakePosted by notsosureThere was a time when she was on my hook and I should've done something instead of sitting around on my ass and enjoying everything.Posted by Mark-23Aaah. Okay. Looks like she's on his hook and you're on hers. And neither of it is a loving relationship.Posted by ImpulsvHe's like in his late 30s, I have a feeling he's taking her for a right cause when I came in the picture they were 4-5 year in and no damn ring.
Well she might care about not putting you through hell in your prime age.
How old is the ex sag?
No ring, well all is fair game. One of my favorite poetic quotes is
"all is fair in love and war"
Let it go
People lose it all cuz can't let go of one wrong move
As you can see I'm letting it go... I hope you all are happy. I'm letting it go... I cannot chase someone who doesn't value the effort I'm putting in for themclick to expand
Happy that you have listened to people that have experience in these things, yes
You know Mark, if you ask for advice, it's good idea to listen to it and not push it away
Posted by MyStarsShineMy apologies I'm writing her my ultimatum letter and it's frustrating going through the shit I've endured...although I love her to death...Posted by Mark-23Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Mark-23Your are holding on to that mistakePosted by notsosureThere was a time when she was on my hook and I should've done something instead of sitting around on my ass and enjoying everything.Posted by Mark-23Aaah. Okay. Looks like she's on his hook and you're on hers. And neither of it is a loving relationship.Posted by ImpulsvHe's like in his late 30s, I have a feeling he's taking her for a right cause when I came in the picture they were 4-5 year in and no damn ring.
Well she might care about not putting you through hell in your prime age.
How old is the ex sag?
No ring, well all is fair game. One of my favorite poetic quotes is
"all is fair in love and war"
Let it go
People lose it all cuz can't let go of one wrong move
As you can see I'm letting it go... I hope you all are happy. I'm letting it go... I cannot chase someone who doesn't value the effort I'm putting in for them
Happy that you have listened to people that have experience in these things, yes
You know Mark, if you ask for advice, it's good idea to listen to it and not push it away
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I really I wish I never met her. Heartbreak is a bitch
Posted by yupvirgooYour not that old you've got a young heart a young soul. I'm a very old soul... a very very old soulPosted by Mark-23*hands upPosted by yupvirgooNo offense but I'm no f kid. I have a career as an engineer, I finishing my mech engineers degree, and I have started a few of my own companies...Posted by PootyButt*cringesPosted by yupvirgooHa! No. I haven't had that problem lately. When I'm in the classroom I turn the mother hen and dorky nerd vibes way up, and I turn the flirty, sexy vibes way down. 😆 The young guys are still sometimes...distracted, but I just pretend not to notice that. I honestly get flirtier vibes from the male staff and married professors. *rolls eyes*Posted by PootyButtHonestly, I see them mostly as kids. They're very childish still. Freshmen huh? Those are the types to become infatuated with their professors. Been receiving any creative notes lately? lol They're ridiculous at that age.Posted by yupvirgooRight! There's a cut-off, not sure what age, I guess around 25 for most people...those younger than that, I just feel like I'm dealing with extremely intelligent teenagers. MOST of them, that is. I teach college freshmen, and the vast majority honestly are not very mature. They still enjoy smarting off to authority figures and have trouble getting themselves out of bed in the morning.
*cringes
I teach uni students.
Are you getting heart eye notes?
Kids are weird so yeah sometimes.
They tend to idealize things too much.
I'm no f kid .... don't compare to me to kids don't talk to me as if I'm a kid.
Chill.
When I called you a "kid," it just means I'm old.click to expand
Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Posted by Mark-23So the reason you didn't tell her the Leo's age wasn't due to your mum being sick as she wasn't then. It was because you were scared what she would think ?Posted by MyStarsShineNo she wasn't till this year... I actually help take care of her sometimes. I told my family about my Leo and they all know I love her so dearly; but because we are so close and tight net they can see the affects of her not being good to me... my attitude and my mood my happiness... poof gone out the doorPosted by Mark-23I didn't mean telling your mother about the infidelityPosted by MyStarsShineBecause my mother is Greek and in our Greek culture we have something called boundaries... I didn't tell her about my Leo being unfaithful because that would just be disrespectful and bring down my Leo's value infront of my families eyes. Women have value and worth in the Greek culture it's not all western like everyone thinks. Talking to my mom about my issues would've ended with "if it were a Greek woman you would've been married and have kids already"Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
Why?
My mother is also sick she can't handle drama and she needs attentive care instead of me opening to her about my relationships
Was your mum sick 2yrs ago when you met Leo?
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You see when we mature, we don't need our mother's approval ... whatever culture we are from?
You can still love your parents but have the courage to live your life as you want.....hiding things from them is kind of childish
Posted by VageenkaI have a feeling that is gonna be the case. I'm already mad at myself... I went out for the first time yesterday and met a few ladies. Didn't get any numbers but I will next time I'm out.
You're gonna be SO mad at yourself once you get over this woman... The shit she has put you through... The insecurity she built up in you... She makes you look like an idiot and when your head lands out of the sky you're gonna be mad at yourself for years for allowing some 40 year old woman to treat you like a toy
Posted by MyStarsShineNo its called boundaries and respect. My parents never cared for her age they cared for me to be happy. They saw me happy with her...Posted by Mark-23So the reason you didn't tell her the Leo's age wasn't due to your mum being sick as she wasn't then. It was because you were scared what she would think ?Posted by MyStarsShineNo she wasn't till this year... I actually help take care of her sometimes. I told my family about my Leo and they all know I love her so dearly; but because we are so close and tight net they can see the affects of her not being good to me... my attitude and my mood my happiness... poof gone out the doorPosted by Mark-23I didn't mean telling your mother about the infidelityPosted by MyStarsShineBecause my mother is Greek and in our Greek culture we have something called boundaries... I didn't tell her about my Leo being unfaithful because that would just be disrespectful and bring down my Leo's value infront of my families eyes. Women have value and worth in the Greek culture it's not all western like everyone thinks. Talking to my mom about my issues would've ended with "if it were a Greek woman you would've been married and have kids already"Posted by Mark-23So you lied to your mother who you are very close to?Posted by MyStarsShineYa sort of... I said she was 35 because my Leo looks 33-35Posted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShineNo im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home dramaPosted by Mark-23Posted by MyStarsShine
Mark, is your mother still around?
Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.
So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?
Why is that?
Oh right..does she know you are with a woman double your age?
Why?
My mother is also sick she can't handle drama and she needs attentive care instead of me opening to her about my relationships
Was your mum sick 2yrs ago when you met Leo?
You see when we mature, we don't need our mother's approval ... whatever culture we are from?
You can still love your parents but have the courage to live your life as you want.....hiding things from them is kind of childish
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My siblings know her real age not my parents.
Posted by VageenkaNo im not writing a letter of love it's a letter of ultimatum. It's stating that I'm done period it's overPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
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Posted by VageenkaI already feel used up and traumatized and beatup. Thanks to her I can't trust women anymore...Posted by palehoovesPosted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
hopefully he'll listen to you because he's not listening to anyone else. lol. this kid is in too deep and it's only gonna get worse from here. he's too young to be going through this kind of thing with someone her age. he has so much life to live. so many women he could have a better situation with. i feel bad for him actually. if this is legit and he's not a troll. lol
He's in love. Love can be blind.
I don't have an issue with him dating or falling for a woman in her 40's but she treats him like her bitch. Uses him up to boost her ego and fucks her ex on the side in hopes that her ex will come back to her and commit. She's making him play the role of a substitute boyfriend until the type of guy she truly wants to settle down with enters the picture, then he'll be dropped like a bad habit.
If he doesn't already feel used up, depressed and insecure out of this situation then I guarantee you he will very soon. This traumatizing situation will effect the rest of his relationships and give him trust issues for years and years down the line.
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BREAKING NEWS FOLKS: BECAUSE SHE IS USING ME..... Ima use the shit outta her. No more
I love yous, no more future, none of that shit.
Ima turn this bitch upside down. Hands up if yall agree!!!
I love yous, no more future, none of that shit.
Ima turn this bitch upside down. Hands up if yall agree!!!
Mark, was Leo your first lover ?
Posted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaNo im not writing a letter of love it's a letter of ultimatum. It's stating that I'm done period it's overPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
An ultimatum is like asking her to change and if not THEN you're done. That's what an ultimatum is. "Do this, act like this, commit to me or we are done."
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Posted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaI already feel used up and traumatized and beatup. Thanks to her I can't trust women anymore...Posted by palehoovesPosted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
hopefully he'll listen to you because he's not listening to anyone else. lol. this kid is in too deep and it's only gonna get worse from here. he's too young to be going through this kind of thing with someone her age. he has so much life to live. so many women he could have a better situation with. i feel bad for him actually. if this is legit and he's not a troll. lol
He's in love. Love can be blind.
I don't have an issue with him dating or falling for a woman in her 40's but she treats him like her bitch. Uses him up to boost her ego and fucks her ex on the side in hopes that her ex will come back to her and commit. She's making him play the role of a substitute boyfriend until the type of guy she truly wants to settle down with enters the picture, then he'll be dropped like a bad habit.
If he doesn't already feel used up, depressed and insecure out of this situation then I guarantee you he will very soon. This traumatizing situation will effect the rest of his relationships and give him trust issues for years and years down the line.
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Yes you will
Trust yourelf to make more suitable choices
Posted by MyStarsShineI dated a lot a lot of women I mean a lot a lot a lot of women and the truth is I never cared about them I mean I treated them equally by just never cared for them in my heart and I never really felt any love or compassion towards them and never felt any sort of connection with them like a soulmate connection you know what I mean
Mark, was Leo your first lover ?
I dated women from the ages of 20 all the way till the age of 46-47 maybe.
But this Leo yeah she's not the first thing I've ever dated but she definitely was the love of my life and she bought my heart with her love and compassion that she showed me not the person she is today but the person I knew at the beginning former half of my relationship
I mean if I can describe her the way she was to me I'd say she was perfect but this was before shit hit the fan and The truth be told even if I do walk away from her I'm going to look at her in the eyes I'm going to say I love you now I loved you then and I will love you till the day I fucking die and I want to thank you for teaching me that lesson that you taught me
Because she wasn't just the love of my life she wasn't just the woman I wanted to have children with and Mary and all of that OK now I'm crying she was a teacher to me she was someone I looked up to and I just wish it would never have gotten to this point
Posted by MyStarsShineThe problem was that when I was with her I forgot all about myself and you can ignore your own needs and wants for so long until it starts to chew you up from the inside and I cannot let that happen to me anymore I need to concentrate on myself I need to worry about myself because at this point I come firstPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaI already feel used up and traumatized and beatup. Thanks to her I can't trust women anymore...Posted by palehoovesPosted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
hopefully he'll listen to you because he's not listening to anyone else. lol. this kid is in too deep and it's only gonna get worse from here. he's too young to be going through this kind of thing with someone her age. he has so much life to live. so many women he could have a better situation with. i feel bad for him actually. if this is legit and he's not a troll. lol
He's in love. Love can be blind.
I don't have an issue with him dating or falling for a woman in her 40's but she treats him like her bitch. Uses him up to boost her ego and fucks her ex on the side in hopes that her ex will come back to her and commit. She's making him play the role of a substitute boyfriend until the type of guy she truly wants to settle down with enters the picture, then he'll be dropped like a bad habit.
If he doesn't already feel used up, depressed and insecure out of this situation then I guarantee you he will very soon. This traumatizing situation will effect the rest of his relationships and give him trust issues for years and years down the line.
Yes you will
Trust yourelf to make more suitable choices
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I still wonder... I talked to her every single day for almost 3 years and for the first time I've gone no contact past 2 days, been 9 days tomorrow is day 10. And she still hasn't called or texted me... is she even worried about me?
I wonder what's going through her mind, Leo folks?
I wonder what's going through her mind, Leo folks?
Posted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaNo im not writing a letter of love it's a letter of ultimatum. It's stating that I'm done period it's overPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
An ultimatum is like asking her to change and if not THEN you're done. That's what an ultimatum is. "Do this, act like this, commit to me or we are done."
You don't need to write her a letter. You blocked her and haven't spoken to her in 9 days. Why write her a letter? You subconsciously want her back in your life that's why. And if she comes back, she will continue to treat you like a doormat because you unconsciously allowed yourself to be treated like one. She knows she can keep her ex around and you'll be back eating her pussy because that's what you've done time and time again in the past.
Move on! But we can all tell you the same thing on here and you won't listen because you have those rose coloured glasses on. You even try to justify your "relationship" by stating she froze her eggs for you. Manipulative people lie! She's 40 years old. She froze her eggs because she may still want to have babies down the line with someone else.
If this woman loved you she would have commited by now. She wouldn't keep her ex around. That is not loveeeee!
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Actually I didn't block her she can still call me and text me but she just chose not to call me or text me ..
Do you think it's because of her pride that she hasn't called or texted me yet?
So, there is your answer.... you didnt really do anything before you learned about her boyfriend, you were enjoying the ride.... and then suddenly, when you learned she is with somebody, you started obsessing
Mark wrote:
There was a time when she was on my hook and I should've done something instead of sitting around on my ass and enjoying everything.
I mean, how she can believe you, you really love her? you just seem to enjoy the drama and the chase...
Ok so we communicated a few times and she even brought me food one day when I was starving I came outta class and she brought me a shit ton of food.
and then a few days later we had in argument after that we haven't spoken and into weeks. Kinda worried now..
and then a few days later we had in argument after that we haven't spoken and into weeks. Kinda worried now..
Posted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaNo im not writing a letter of love it's a letter of ultimatum. It's stating that I'm done period it's overPosted by Mark-23Posted by VageenkaHer daughter isnt her bodyfriends it's from another relationship. Yes if he obliged. Now I'm gonna post my final ROUGH DRAFT letter once I'm done writing it and I'm gonna send it to her...
Ugh.
Oh my God I'm sorry but you are so pussy-whipped and don't even realize how dumb you sound and make yourself look.
She's 40 years old, kept her ex around, has a daughter and you're still obsessed with this woman. I mean for God's sake where is your pride? She kept her ex around because she wants him, not you. She strung you along because like you said, her ex didn't want her back and didn't want to commit to her.
You are her ego boost. You're the young guy who makes her feel sexy but her ex is the one she is still in love with and wants to settle down with... If he obliged she would have cut you out of her life immediately.
Are you OK with being someone else's second option? Are you OK with loving someone who keeps her ex around and has definitely fucked him while being in a relationship with you?!
You sound like a woman who is putting up with her cheating husband because she's too insecure to move on.
I'm fucking done.. I'm the commodity and I'm the one that she should be chasing not the other way around
Yes she should be but she doesn't love you! If you love someone you don't treat them like shit, and if you do you make it a priority to make things right because you love and care for them!
She keeps her ex around because that's who she wants. If he wanted her you would have been cut a long time ago. And you're the one chasing HER? You're the one writing letters?
This is disturbing
An ultimatum is like asking her to change and if not THEN you're done. That's what an ultimatum is. "Do this, act like this, commit to me or we are done."
You don't need to write her a letter. You blocked her and haven't spoken to her in 9 days. Why write her a letter? You subconsciously want her back in your life that's why. And if she comes back, she will continue to treat you like a doormat because you unconsciously allowed yourself to be treated like one. She knows she can keep her ex around and you'll be back eating her pussy because that's what you've done time and time again in the past.
Move on! But we can all tell you the same thing on here and you won't listen because you have those rose coloured glasses on. You even try to justify your "relationship" by stating she froze her eggs for you. Manipulative people lie! She's 40 years old. She froze her eggs because she may still want to have babies down the line with someone else.
If this woman loved you she would have commited by now. She wouldn't keep her ex around. That is not loveeeee!
Actually I didn't block her she can still call me and text me but she just chose not to call me or text me ..
Do you think it's because of her pride that she hasn't called or texted me yet?
Her pride mixed in with she's so used to you reaching out to her when shit hits the fan that she see's no point in reaching out to you. She knows you'll end up reaching out to her.click to expand
How do I reverse this? Vageenka, The moment I reverse this I mean she's going to be back in my hands and we will be back to fucking and making love i swear you!!
she is definitely used to me reaching out to her all the time she is 200% sure that I'm going to reach out to her all the time!! And she's lost the fear of losing me!!
I learned the hard way that if you love a woman you keep her on her toes and you let her know that she will lose you the minute she stops working for you!!
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