Do leo men punish you for a bad behaviour? (Page 2)

Does it mean he misses me or wants only an ego boost? And why not speak to me then? He sent a Skype request three days ago and did ring me. What does it mean?

*he did not ring me

This could mean he's waiting for an apology or some peace offering from you. He's making himself available. I don't understand why you're sat there waiting for him to do something when you have the same means to do something and you're not doing anything either...

I apologized at length and he still did not listen to me.

Now after a month, he first unblocked me from facebook, then after a week he adds me on Skype but still does not say anything...

What is he looking for?

Posted by Alex1234
Never cheated but insulted and was mean. Told him I moved on and had someone else to make him miserable. Then told him the truth.

I finally found this after looking through the posts - It's a lot simpler if you say what you did in the OP.

Personally this would be the end between me and you. The problem with what you've done is you've actively tried to make me jealous, and that means you can do that any time you think I deserve it. Therefore you're unreliable and not worth my time. I will probably try and make you jealous back just so you learn your lesson, but effectively i won't verbalise any of this. I'll just let you see on my facebook that my life is moving on nicely.

Just to clarify i've written this as if its an issue between me and you, but its so you understand whats going on between you and him. At least from what i've discerned.

He does not make me see anything and I don t know why he wanted to add me on skype.

Will he give up if I don't contact him?

I fear he's already given up, but you should try to contact him yes. Just please don't do it so rapidly and often as you think you need to do it. Once or twice and be concise.

So if he gave up it is only revenge?

I'm not all to clear that he's 'given up', i generally don't actively take out revenge on women, i just seek fun, sex and love. Life's hard enough without someone to purposely try and make me jealous and degrade me. He may just want to know that you've learnt your lesson and will be a friendlier happier person to have relations with. I'm a busy man and i tend to not go out of my way or waste my time with people that have tried to injure me for what ever reason. If a bloke hits me or a woman cheats on me however, revenge becomes a very definite possibility.

Will he finally talk to me if I keep silent?

No. I'm getting a lot of glares off a woman at the moment because i've stopped talking to her. She has a voice, she can talk to me if she desires it so much and i'll talk back. But i shouldn't really be forced to talk to her through glares, and i certainly don't *need* to talk to her because there's some billions of other women to talk to. Like you for example.

But if he really misses me, will he finally say something—

I can only go by what i'd do myself. And it's another No. I'd just be short tempered until i stop missing you or i move on. Disgruntled over lost time would probably be more accurate.

I know how proud he is.

But I don't know why he adds me on Skype and then ignores me....

I am Leo, we no acting as a Libra to need that "space" . If he told you like that, it means he use that space to recover himself from the hurting time with you, but after he recover, is hard to believe that he will be back to you as a Libra do . Leo no need more space to decide something. If they say " stop here" and they say in a angry time this, he will back to you after few hours or days, but 3 weeks is too much. That means he just want to move on further, because a Leo no need so much "space" to go back to you . We go back fast if we pass over what you did and consider is not so bad what you did. But if we keep silent and no contact at all, we are only in a recovery time and care ourself in that time, we will no need this time to think the situation as Libra do.

Alex, he added you and ignore you just to show to you that he is not still interested in you . This is one way, and another way is, Leo never likes to cut off all the contact with someone, Leo hate to know someone does not exist for him anymore. but again I say, is hard to say that he need space, Leo no need space to decide, just to recover and move on.
We have the intention to ignore someone only when we want to show that we are not longer interested in that person and if you insist to contact us, we will do more bad, even add some words that hurts you in some siituations. Leo no likes pression . I had a friend who pressed me and said " I decided to call you evey day" and from that moment I told him, I dislike that thing and I do not need this much pression and at least he tried to meet me again and insisted, but I totaly ignored him and deleted him forever from my list and mind.

It does not make sense at all.

If he is not interested, he just needs to keep going and ignore me.

Posted by Alex1234
It does not make sense at all.

If he is not interested, he just needs to keep going and ignore me.

Have you contacted him, at ALL?

Posted by Alex1234
It does not make sense at all.

If he is not interested, he just needs to keep going and ignore me.

Alex he is technically ignoring you. I know you think adding someone to skype is classed as not ignoring someone but girls give out their number all the time to men they won't take things any further with. A tenuous link perhaps but one worth remembering.

I did not contact him at ALL. Out of nowhere, he wants to add me to Skype and also unblocked me from Facebook and checked my linkedin profile twice.

Why all that if he does not want to do anything with me? Better to ignore me TOTALLY then.

I feel as if you're looking for answers in the wrong place. I can keep going over this with you but i think what i'm saying is what you don't want to hear. The only person that truly understands these actions are him but i will say that the outcome does not sound positive if you choose to pursue him.

I agree, if he is really interested he will contact me.

I'm not some girls, we had a deep relationship but we'll see. One thing is sure, he's trying to get my attention.

Each leo's different..

Thanks Jynga, I did not contact him at all since he unblocked me on fb, checked my linkedin and now Skype.

Hopefully he will send me an email. So, I wait.

How long is it going to take before he properly contacts me?

Or will I push him away if I don't respond positively and contact him as he seems to want to?

I really need an advice, should I contact him as he tries to get my attention. If I don't will he disappear forever?

Just contact him but not from the point you last spoke. Be fresh and see if you can simply get communication back open. Don't put high expectations on this though, and don't assume he wants you back if he does start talking with you again. This will take time and you'll have to wait for the right moment to breach the topic with him. He may not respond at all but the only way to put your mind at ease is to try.

Contacting him will ruin my efforts to stay away from him. Will he give up if I don't contact him?

I'm confused over what you're trying to achieve. Yes not contacting anyone will always result in them moving on. Make your mind up and stick to your choice.

I'm just trying to figure out what he's trying to achieve.

My leo man came back to talk to me, asked me many questions, said he was happy I am fine, etc , etc...

Should I wait for his next move? Or tell him I still love him?

Thanks

I asked him "out of curiosity, why contacting me now?"

No answer. Will he contact me again?

Did I push him away?