Don't know what to do

I have been seeing a leo for a little while now...everything has been going great. ...talking about stuff we would do in the future. I know he has a lot on his plate. .raising a teenager daughter. .getting divorced and financial issues. ..all which I totally understand. ..then boom...he says he needs to step back. ....he isn't ready. ..I'm at a total loss. ..someone please help. ..

Not long. ..1.5 months. ..but saw each other whenever possible. ..

Not long. ..1.5 months. ..but saw each other whenever possible. ..I mean this was all overnight. ..within 24 hours

You said....getting divorced....as in, he's married right this second?

oh i had a similar story... my leo left me after a year, said he needs space...
i think he did need space...to fix all his problem, child, divorce, job loss...blah, blah...
i was there for him, supporting him in every way... he had big plans for us...than over night he changes his mind..

your leo cares for you i am sure, its just too much for him to handle all that is happening to him right now...give him space... if you still feel the same way later, who knows ...
everything is possible..
i learned myself that i need a strong man who can cope with problems not run away from them...its up to you...
from my experience, and i will say not all leos are the same...but the ones i know...they are always having some problems...
and never solving them

Thank you all...I guess my only choice is to give him space. ....

So I'm seeing a Libra woman right now and slowly understanding how fast and heavy Leo/Libra can be. The flames can flare up REALLY fast, but to keep things going, our signs need to step back and look at the reality, which generally means cooling off a bit. Don't let this scare you since ti can be productive for both of you.

One thing to note about Leos is that we can expend a lot of energy, especially in relationships, but then need to figure out how to keep all of our other obligations going. There is a good chance he put a lot of focus on you in those 1.5 months, then realized that he needed a quick breather to figure out his current situation. It sounds like his current situation is difficult so he needs time. Leos pride themselves on always being in control and being able to maintain. Sounds like he is working on that so that he can be proud of himself (which is important). So here's how you can make it easy for both of you:

1. Be sure this is a solid Leo. Take a step back to make sure this isn't some excuse not to see you. It sounds serious, so I'm sure it's all true. Easiest way to do this is by talking to him though. See where his head is before putting out any extra energy.
2. Be there for a Leo, if nothing else as emotional support (that is if you truly want to continue this). Don't be clingy as it may overwhelm him, but let him know you are there. Be positive for him. Leos can sulk in bad situations. Every now and then ask him how he is and listen. If he's too depressed to talk about himself, talk to him about current events.
3. Be the strong one. Leos admire/respect that.
4. If you've been on dates where he was buying everything, offer to chip in or make things more mutual since he's having financial problems.
5. Throw in compliments here and there as this will keep you in his mind.
6. Also figure out his other placements to see where his head may be (via his birth chart)

How much time should I give him before I send a how are you doing text or call....I don't want to overwhelm him or compound any issues he is having. ...because I'm getting mixed messages. ..let him make contact first to the advice you just gave me.....I really do like and enjoy his company and would love to see where we could go....

Posted by Libragirl92
How much time should I give him before I send a how are you doing text or call....I don't want to overwhelm him or compound any issues he is having. ...because I'm getting mixed messages. ..let him make contact first to the advice you just gave me.....I really do like and enjoy his company and would love to see where we could go....

Give it a day or so, then shoot him a nice text stating that if he needs anything or just wants to talk, to give you a call. This puts the ball in his court and lets him know you are thinking about him. This won't come across as pushy or overwhelming either. Luckily Leos don't let things sit for too long, so he should get back to you. As a Libra you can probably understand the need to cool off / recharge/ rebalance. Leos generally need time off to prioritize our goals or to heal our wounds.

Be prepared for the chance that he doesn't respond. This could be because he is overwhelmed putting his life back together. A divorce is no small thing, especially when kids are involved. If you don't hear from him for several days, feel free to call him with the same message. If you get his voicemail just say that you were thinking about him. At that point, leave it and move on with your life. If you do hear from him, be cordial and hear what he has to say.

Thank you sooooo very much. ...helps a lot. ...any other advice would be greatly appreciated. ...

Been there with my leo. When he stated he needed space I was very sad but I didn't show it. I respect his wishes and responded with a simple ok and left him alone. I use that time off to get back to me. Get my hair done, workout more, whatever. After 3 days he called me up. We talk and I explain to him how I felt about the space thing. He explain he needed it because he was avoiding any lashing out at me when he's stressed out. It never happened again that was 2 years ago. Leos don't like to hurt the ones they love he can be very ferocious. Its so dull when he's quite but I learn to be patient when the warning signs crop up. I go do my own thing until he comes around.
A simple call/text complementing how strong and focus he is always puts him in a good mood.