@Capricorn124
11 Years
Hard to Drop the Leo (Page 2)
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Posted by 037
All these people screaming Leo men like independent women, do you think they mean someone who is led by others to behave in a contrary manner to who they were at first?That is weakness, and speaks of a person who does not have her own mind. Immaturity and insecurity will break any man down. Whereas, your self confidence continues to thrive.
Ask Mrs Obama how she scored the President? Do you think it was through playing games?
I'm done here.
she didnt score with the President. She scored when he was just some dude on the come up. 🙂
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
See..if they have an interest, they will make time for you. That's all I'm saying people. ACTIONS!!!!!!Actions. Eventually. But not necessarily on your timetable and when YOU want it.
The taurus looked for ways he showed her he cared. Cap seems to wants what she wants. It's a great way to destroy a relationship before it even has a chance to get off the ground.
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Oh, yes, yes, I'm such a bitch 🙂
Posted by dontgetmewrong
See..if they have an interest, they will make time for you. That's all I'm saying people. ACTIONS!!!!!!Actions. Eventually. But not necessarily on your timetable and when YOU want it.
The taurus looked for ways he showed her he cared. Cap seems to wants what she wants. It's a great way to destroy a relationship before it even has a chance to get off the ground.
Oh, yes, yes, I'm such a bitch 🙂
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You're missing the point - but I'm not surprised at this point. Clearly, your approach did not work. Surely, you see that now. Hey, I wanted you to land your leo. Leos are fucking awesome in so many ways I can't even count all of them. But you can't hold on to them too tight.
They choose you, you don't choose them. It's just a fact of life.
I am sure anyone who thought they could manipulate, control, box-in, or play games with a leo, have found themselves in the rearview mirror being waved goodbye.They may not catch what you're doing the first time, but TRUST, they will and when they do...well... game over.
Wish you luck in your next pursuit.
Posted by dontgetmewrong
See..if they have an interest, they will make time for you. That's all I'm saying people. ACTIONS!!!!!!Actions. Eventually. But not necessarily on your timetable and when YOU want it.
The taurus looked for ways he showed her he cared. Cap seems to wants what she wants. It's a great way to destroy a relationship before it even has a chance to get off the ground.
Oh, yes, yes, I'm such a bitch 🙂
You're missing the point - but I'm not surprised at this point. Clearly, your approach did not work. Surely, you see that now. Hey, I wanted you to land your leo. Leos are fucking awesome in so many ways I can't even count all of them. But you can't hold on to them too tight.
They choose you, you don't choose them. It's just a fact of life.
I am sure anyone who thought they could manipulate, control, box-in, or play games with a leo, have found themselves in the rearview mirror being waved goodbye.They may not catch what you're doing the first time, but TRUST, they will and when they do...well... game over.
Wish you luck in your next pursuit.
Come on!! Do not encourage the OP to pursue!! She is better off as the prey but maybe not big cats! This one does not seem to like the food she is offering!!!!
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Leos are not for everyone. He may not have been the one for her, but hopefully she will find her match that doesn't mind her approach to a relationship.
Busy, I don't know about you...you can be really harsh and over the top at times. But then again, I haven't liked what some people have said to my posts, but I appreciate the variant views - makes me think. 😉
Eh, guess there was a reason why I never them before. But honestly, if he wanted to, he could've not answered as I thought at first he could've just sent it to voicemail. He could've said he wasn't free at all due to his project but instead he said he will be free "next week" which is this week. If he's running away like you guys said why would he inform me "all" his times that he would be free? I literally asked for one day and he gave me everything. Explain that.
I also even asked when I called him, "Are you busy?" He said, "I am, but I don't mind talking to you." Is that what you consider running away? Don't give me the whole he was just being nice comments. if he wanted to, he could've dropped like a rock already. Leos know what they want right? Okay then. Jesus...
I talked for a while. He could've ALSO ended the conversation early than I did. It's simple. If you don't like the person, you don't. You tell them or make it plain obvious you don't care to amswer anything. Text messages is meh, but on the phone it's different for some reason.
You would be better sticking your tongue out and saying ... na nana na na. You're alienating yourself from the very leos who can help your further down the line if you do end up in a relationship with this leo. This is not wise.
It's one thing to get a guy, it's another than to keep him. I don't know how to say it to you any other way, your pushy approach will eventually make leo run the opposite direction and when he does you won't be able to get him back. Winning a battle is not the same as winning the war.
If every time he doesn't give you the attention that you want, you call and text and whatnot and go all in a panic until he answers you, guess what? He WILL eventually stop answering you. Ask yourself, do you just want to get this leo or have him in your life long term? If long term, for god sake, keep it cool, slow it down, be patient and let him come to you.
You like him and want a relationship with him. That's not a bad thing. It seems to me this sign does NOT like to be pressured, pushed, nagged, or demanded of. I'm telling you this, not from a leo point of view since obviously I'm not one, but from one whose been in a relationship with a lioness for over 5 yrs. and have made every mistake imaginable.
You don't want to claim yourself the victor when you haven't even crossed the finished line yet. Hell, you don't seem to even realize that you're at the starting line, waiting for the gun to go off inorder for the race to begin. And it's at this point that you're trying to claim victory? Again, not wise.
I want you to land your leo. 🙂 But I fear your know-it-all attitude is going to get you just short of the finished line.
I agree with craby's last post ... when I fist got with my leo bf, he pursued me and really fast that I wasnt sure if hes even serious about me bec. we werevonly friendsvfor one month..n i do take my time and very slow in starting relationships.. now several months in the relationship, I feel attached to him but will be careful not to be pushy or even sad if hes not responding as fast as i thought he should be.. and I observe my actions (as someone on dxp told me) if i realize what im doing seems pushy, I hold back... and its funny it works.. when im not giving his actions too much thought, i get the attention i wanted
I really like to tell u a married woman's advice (a wise stranger) she said "have no expectations" .. im trying to have this attitude cos surely it feels better to not feel disappointed (its usually all inour head anyway)
Posted by Capricorn124
I talked for a while. He could've ALSO ended the conversation early than I did. It's simple. If you don't like the person, you don't. You tell them or make it plain obvious you don't care to amswer anything. Text messages is meh, but on the phone it's different for some reason.Leos are polite. But I bet if you stopped stopped contacting him.... Then you will find your answer.... Zero contact!!! You are the initiator!! Lol
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Because he has a lot of work to do. I'll be honest, the number 1 person that you need to care is yourself. And it's okay to be selfish. I had people I like and would be too tired to do anything with them. If he's going to be polite then so be it. I'll initiate because I don't quit. I had friends who are too busy and forget. To this day, I still talk to them.
Posted by Capricorn124
I talked for a while. He could've ALSO ended the conversation early than I did. It's simple. If you don't like the person, you don't. You tell them or make it plain obvious you don't care to amswer anything. Text messages is meh, but on the phone it's different for some reason.Leos are polite. But I bet if you stopped stopped contacting him.... Then you will find your answer.... Zero contact!!! You are the initiator!! Lol
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Polite would be not to ignore or polite would inform the person to stop. Secondly, in this whole thread, I was approaching this in a friend way not romantically that will eventually will be romantic.
Posted by busyeyes88
Looks like you have answered your own thread!!! Lol good luck
I feel sorry for your life :/ you have nothing better else to do pther to put people down huh? 😄
I will, thanks 🙂
Posted by busyeyes88
Looks like you have answered your own thread!!! Lol good luckI feel sorry for your life :/ you have nothing better else to do pther to put people down huh? 😄
Feel sorry for your life!! The problem with women like you is that you come here asking for sound advice and when you don't hear what you like you turn the tables.
If you want to continue with your "masculine " role, then continue to chase and look and feel desperate.. Because while you are chasing him he is chasing someone else....
The only person putting you down is you....
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"The problem with women like you is that you come here asking for sound advice." Isn't it it the whole point? Secondly, I like to risk 😛
Posted by Gobshite
Capricorn124 - the female OwlPharaoh...+1000000
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Uh, who?
Capricorn124
Just read through most of the thread, being a cap sun and Scorpio moon. I felt the need to share my experience with a Leo men. The first guy I ever fell for and seriously dated was a Leo. He broke my heart 😢 never chased him though. Quite the opposite, I did not show enough interest and he moved on to a more active partner. Anyways, from my observations, Leo men do like attention from their partner. But they give just as much, if not more than they take. If this guy is not meeting you halfway, it is best that you fall back a little. There's that saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Well, it's true. A lot of advice that the Leos in this forum is giving you is also true. You can be selective what you take from it. Some of it is a little blunt and bordering cruel. But that's what Leos are known for €Sometime we cap women know what we want so intensely that it is difficult for us to see things another way. I mean really put yourself in his shoes. He probably likes the attention because it's validating to his ego, but he is probably entertained by your constant pursuit as well.
Here is how I would approach this situation. I would be lighthearted, don't take it too seriously, disappear for for a short while, live your life and meet other people. One big mistake I make as a cap sun/ scorp moon is underdating and moving into relationships too quickly, expecting thr guy to be my knight in shining armor. I'm really at my best when I take my time, sort out my prospects and make myself less accessible to the opposite sex. It gives me clarity and If the guy interested, he comes at me harder or at least initiates contact lol. Either way, 9/10 times they are usually return. Good luck!
Like I said, part of me is an Aries. I like the thrill of the hunt. What difference does it make if a man does it? Isn't he also considered "desperate" to seek the woman or man he likes? No? Explain. It's 2015 hun. Times have changed. A woman can do whatever a man does and that includes courting. Again, get off your high horse because not everyone will follow your way of life. 🙂
Posted by Capricorn124
Like I said, part of me is an Aries. I like the thrill of the hunt. What difference does it make if a man does it? Isn't he also considered "desperate" to seek the woman or man he likes? No? Explain. It's 2015 hun. Times have changed. A woman can do whatever a man does and that includes courting. Again, get off your high horse because not everyone will follow your way of life. 🙂Your hands are empty sweetie!!! Lololololololol
Hey, if you are only interested in the thrill of the hunt with no game... But you are chasing and your hands are EMPTY and it does bother you hence you wrote this thread for affirmation!!! Lol lol
2015... Yeah please continue to keep us updated. let us know if he make ANY EFFORT at all to contact you...... Lol
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Plot twist! He did 🙂
Posted by Capricorn124
Like I said, part of me is an Aries. I like the thrill of the hunt. What difference does it make if a man does it? Isn't he also considered "desperate" to seek the woman or man he likes? No? Explain. It's 2015 hun. Times have changed. A woman can do whatever a man does and that includes courting. Again, get off your high horse because not everyone will follow your way of life. 🙂Your hands are empty sweetie!!! Lololololololol
Hey, if you are only interested in the thrill of the hunt with no game... But you are chasing and your hands are EMPTY and it does bother you hence you wrote this thread for affirmation!!! Lol lol
2015... Yeah please continue to keep us updated. let us know if he make ANY EFFORT at all to contact you...... Lol
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You haven't answered. What difference does it make if a man does it. Really? Don't be sexist. And people like you want women to be equal, but can't with courting? Your logic is flawed. All I think about you everytime is a child swinging it's arms and screaming to get what they want. Guess what? Again, not everyone wants to do it your way. Why do you honestly care about what everyone does? Care about yourself. You can continue on trying to tell me what to do, but the results will be ever the same.
Sorry to dissapoint you, but I don't give in. Maybe you do? I can live without sex for awhile since I am on the pill. If he can't wait til commitment then bye? You know you just look bad on yourself for trying to bring me down. Since I don't know you, you're invalid 🙂
Posted by Capricorn124
Like I said, part of me is an Aries. I like the thrill of the hunt. What difference does it make if a man does it? Isn't he also considered "desperate" to seek the woman or man he likes? No? Explain. It's 2015 hun. Times have changed. A woman can do whatever a man does and that includes courting. Again, get off your high horse because not everyone will follow your way of life. 🙂Your hands are empty sweetie!!! Lololololololol
Hey, if you are only interested in the thrill of the hunt with no game... But you are chasing and your hands are EMPTY and it does bother you hence you wrote this thread for affirmation!!! Lol lol
2015... Yeah please continue to keep us updated. let us know if he make ANY EFFORT at all to contact you...... Lol
You haven't answered. What difference does it make if a man does it. Really? Don't be sexist. And people like you want women to be equal, but can't with courting? Your logic is flawed. All I think about you everytime is a child swinging it's arms and screaming to get what they want. Guess what? Again, not everyone wants to do it your way. Why do you honestly care about what everyone does? Care about yourself. You can continue on trying to tell me what to do, but the results will be ever the same.
I'm not being sexist.... If you want to hunt a man down good for you. My method works for me and my hands aren't empty. I'm not telling what yo do... But it bothers you as you would not have created this thread!!! Keep hunting!!! Lol lol lol You have no confidence or self esteem if you did you would not act so desperately!!
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No one told you to comment. I can do whatever I want since this is the internet after all. Second, if it bothers you, ignore like a grown adult. 3rd, I'm glad ypur method works, but it doesn't work for everyone. I have my own, thanks.
As an Aries, I will say this. A Leo does like a very independent woman, he wants someone who has their own things going on. They see a relationship as two individules, in a relationtionship, meaning: You each have your own life, but at the end of the day you come back to each other. Leo's work hard, they need someone to appreciate that and they inreturn appreciate the time and attention given to them. Leo's also need to to re-energize when they are felling drained down, they also need you to respect that. Leo's when interested will make sure you get the attention from tem you deserve in a relationship, they will also compliment you and "show with action" how they feel about you. There was a lot of very good advice in this thread and its great to see all that were willing to give good advice, even if it seemed hurtful. I am an Aries, so I undertsand the "chasing" part, but I also know a Leo wants a Lady, a Lady with style, a Lady who takes care of themselves, and if comes off to agressive, its a complete turn off. You have to show them your interested and then back off, Leo's dont like women shoved down there throat. To them, they have a whole Pride of women out there just standing in line are circling that "Sunshine" of theirs wanting for a chance. I am a CAP rising also, but many Aries placements, if you feel that need to go after something harder, take the focus to sports or your career, not the Leo. He wants a Lady in the streets and a Freak in the bed and you to know your place. Your place is to play the "Regal Queen and His the Alpha King of the jungle". I wish you the best of Luck, there's nothing more magical than receiving the love of a Leo.... 😉
Posted by EmotionalAries
As an Aries, I will say this. A Leo does like a very independent woman, he wants someone who has their own things going on. They see a relationship as two individules, in a relationtionship, meaning: You each have your own life, but at the end of the day you come back to each other. Leo's work hard, they need someone to appreciate that and they inreturn appreciate the time and attention given to them. Leo's also need to to re-energize when they are felling drained down, they also need you to respect that. Leo's when interested will make sure you get the attention from tem you deserve in a relationship, they will also compliment you and "show with action" how they feel about you. There was a lot of very good advice in this thread and its great to see all that were willing to give good advice, even if it seemed hurtful. I am an Aries, so I undertsand the "chasing" part, but I also know a Leo wants a Lady, a Lady with style, a Lady who takes care of themselves, and if comes off to agressive, its a complete turn off. You have to show them your interested and then back off, Leo's dont like women shoved down there throat. To them, they have a whole Pride of women out there just standing in line are circling that "Sunshine" of theirs wanting for a chance. I am a CAP rising also, but many Aries placements, if you feel that need to go after something harder, take the focus to sports or your career, not the Leo. He wants a Lady in the streets and a Freak in the bed and you to know your place. Your place is to play the "Regal Queen and His the Alpha King of the jungle". I wish you the best of Luck, there's nothing more magical than receiving the love of a Leo.... 😉
I 100% concur!!!!
Busyeyes, what are you going on about? Not once did this girl say she was gonna chase the Leo.
Instead, she resolved to stand back and let him come after her when he is not even aware - apparently- that she is expecting this.
Why so mad?
Take a walk, jog, sit in a park, breathe.
Ffs.
Posted by EmotionalAries
As an Aries, I will say this. A Leo does like a very independent woman, he wants someone who has their own things going on. They see a relationship as two individules, in a relationtionship, meaning: You each have your own life, but at the end of the day you come back to each other. Leo's work hard, they need someone to appreciate that and they inreturn appreciate the time and attention given to them. Leo's also need to to re-energize when they are felling drained down, they also need you to respect that. Leo's when interested will make sure you get the attention from tem you deserve in a relationship, they will also compliment you and "show with action" how they feel about you. There was a lot of very good advice in this thread and its great to see all that were willing to give good advice, even if it seemed hurtful. I am an Aries, so I undertsand the "chasing" part, but I also know a Leo wants a Lady, a Lady with style, a Lady who takes care of themselves, and if comes off to agressive, its a complete turn off. You have to show them your interested and then back off, Leo's dont like women shoved down there throat. To them, they have a whole Pride of women out there just standing in line are circling that "Sunshine" of theirs wanting for a chance. I am a CAP rising also, but many Aries placements, if you feel that need to go after something harder, take the focus to sports or your career, not the Leo. He wants a Lady in the streets and a Freak in the bed and you to know your place. Your place is to play the "Regal Queen and His the Alpha King of the jungle". I wish you the best of Luck, there's nothing more magical than receiving the love of a Leo.... 😉
Sounds like work.
How about you just be real?
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I'm.pretty chill, thanks 🙂