Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I'm mostly leo. But I'm a crab sun. I would treat all my kids equally and bragging is for the insecure and weak
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
Posted by drunkghost
My mom is a Leo and she's the best mom ever. She loves attention of course but she just wants to be heard. She also treats all her children the same. She says she has no favorites she loves us all the same. She's hilarious, loyal, and a ride or die woman. She support us through all our bs.
Posted by Catullusi read that about Justin Timberlake, that he didnt have a father figure, and his step father was the one who helped him.
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
Posted by lisabethur8I don't pay attention to celebs to be upfront with you, I'm glad both are alright. There are other placements, particularly the houses that represent family ties+ if the signs were in conflict with other planets etc. My post was a general summary.Posted by Catullusi read that about Justin Timberlake, that he didnt have a father figure, and his step father was the one who helped him.
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
But i also read that about cancer sun/Leo moon Tom Cruise too...
his father was an asshole and he protected and loves his mother alot. he is a very good son.
Posted by Aquarius3189Yeah my brother and my father have the same relationship as you with your dad, aqua suns don't have the cards stacked in their favor in the dad department.Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
yep my father doesnt,usually he will bond with my brothers but to me?dont count on it even though we have the same moonsclick to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeI'd like to add to this, some times families shift responsibilities on their daughters and spoil their sons. Vice versa can be true as well so maybe that comes into play for op.Posted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i wantclick to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeYep, can't rule out cultural influences.Posted by CatullusVery true... especially in the Latino community.. but I also heard its common in Asian and Arab communities as wellPosted by bittercupcakeI'd like to add to this, some times families shift responsibilities on their daughters and spoil their sons. Vice versa can be true as well so maybe that comes into play for op.Posted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i wantclick to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeReally? I didn't realize that, but it makes sense now that I think about all of the Aries Moon people I've known. Yeah both of my parents have Aries moons and they are both like that.Posted by ChuckcemCould be that Aries moon... Aries mooners are not really attention grabby... they tend to be quite solitary
I have a Leo dad and he is pretty chill. He's not your typical attention grabbing Leo.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by Aquarius3189Is her moon VIRGOPosted by drunkghost
My mom is a Leo and she's the best mom ever. She loves attention of course but she just wants to be heard. She also treats all her children the same. She says she has no favorites she loves us all the same. She's hilarious, loyal, and a ride or die woman. She support us through all our bs.
the only problem with my mom is she nags and doesnt listen, i love her to death but sometimes its too muchclick to expand
Posted by Montgomery
I'm not sure how old you all are, so this may
not apply... but you said this
"... they support my 2nd brother being a dancer
he doesnt bring money"
Has this brother *finally* found some direction
for his future?
Meaning-- did they worry that he wouldn't 'do
something with his life'?
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i wantclick to expand
Posted by Aquarius3189If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for themclick to expand
Posted by CatullusPosted by Aquarius3189If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for them
For now create a list of goals that you need to reach that will help you reach your own goals, you don't have to support your parents and siblings if you don't want to. It's okay to focus on getting your life in order instead of theirs but you've got this. Good luck!click to expand
Posted by TheSag
Both my parents were Leos. My mom was calm and sweet but she used to nag a lot in private. My dad was very demanding, too sensitive and jealous about other people at times and he had a bad temper as well. They often argued but it was easy because my dad seemed like he needed that. He wanted it always to go his way. But they had big hearts though. They definately favoured my older brother but that was probably due to him being sick for most of his life. I was an accident anyway lol
Posted by Aquarius3189Sometimes you have to harden your heart, sad to say it but it's true. Let your family work on themselves while you take care of yourself. Make yourself a priority and ignore the people who are talking shit behind your back, people like that aren't worth getting stressed over. This is easier said then done but you might need to bolster up some boundaries with people, their problems aren't yours unless you let them make them yours.Posted by CatullusPosted by Aquarius3189If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Aquarius3189Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiledPosted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for them
For now create a list of goals that you need to reach that will help you reach your own goals, you don't have to support your parents and siblings if you don't want to. It's okay to focus on getting your life in order instead of theirs but you've got this. Good luck!
it may be that i love them thats why i dont want to accept that they are but i just hope im wrong in thinking that they are,thank you!lately im in a lot of stress people talk crap behind my back judging me,problem arises even if im not involve somehow people will put me to it,my parents,my brothers,the only good thing in my life right now is my lovelife coz i keep it that way lol,but thanks for the advice and im going to even if my mother nags me about it im going to do what i want this timeclick to expand
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