imnotvirgo
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How to comfort my leo and make him understand he's too clingy and I need A FRIGIN SPACE
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Posted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Posted by Black-Mamba
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..click to expand
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by Black-Mamba
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
You need to discuss this with him
Cap moons need their space
Its going to cause all types of problems if you're NOT up frontclick to expand
I share almost immediately how I feel.. so I guess that's good
Posted by Elissar18Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?click to expand
4 months of being together and living together đ What do you mean whipped?
Posted by DamousPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by Black-Mamba
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
He giv u dat gud chok?click to expand
yas he did đââď¸
You moved in together pretty soon. Does he not play computer games? So he doesnât understand you want to play them and focus on them (I used to play overwatch, you kinda need to focus when playing that game). What hobbies did he have before you got together? Tell him you donât want him to give them up, and you want him to have his friends. If he still doesnât get it, you will have to tell him gently, he doesnât sound like a guy who picks up on hints.
Posted by AriesJo
You moved in together pretty soon. Does he not play computer games? So he doesnât understand you want to play them and focus on them (I used to play overwatch, you kinda need to focus when playing that game). What hobbies did he have before you got together? Tell him you donât want him to give them up, and you want him to have his friends. If he still doesnât get it, you will have to tell him gently, he doesnât sound like a guy who picks up on hints.
He was playing a lot of basketball, but right when we started dating he kinda fcked up his leg, now he's playing 1-max 2 times a week. Nice advices you gave me, thank you â¤ď¸
Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
4 months of being together and living together đ What do you mean whipped?click to expand
It means he's crazy about you. Maybe its too much for you. Most people complain about the opposite. He might relax after a while but it seems like he's happy to have you.
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by imnotvirgoPosted by DeadInside
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? đ
burnout incoming
WHYWHYWHY? đ
most of the virgos i know are addicted to naps or doing nothing in front of a screen.
but a leo will call you sms you, while u just want to do nothingclick to expand
"do nothing in front of a screen" - ma laif â¤ď¸
Posted by Elissar18Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
4 months of being together and living together đ What do you mean whipped?
It means he's crazy about you. Maybe its too much for you. Most people complain about the opposite. He might relax after a while but it seems like he's happy to have you.click to expand
Thatâs what i was thinking, heâs going to relax after sometime the relationship is still very new
Leo men are such bebes. Makes me want to take care of them forever
Posted by rejuvenatedheartPosted by imnotvirgo
virgo bish complaining
The dude I'm dating is a Leo, we live together. I dont know if it's a virgo thing, but I love some "me-time" and it's so hard to get it atm, my lil leo is following me everywhere and he wants us to do everything together.
I feel bad for coming home from work and wanting to play fckn overwatch for an hour or two, while he's lying in bed next to me, looking like a little angry baby lion, which is not getting enough attention đ
He's Leo Sun, Moon and Merc, Aqua Asc, Gem Mars, Libra Venus.
What can I do to make this situation better? Am I the one being wrong or are we kinda opposite? I also got this Cap moon and I need some space and I have some hard time showing warm emotions.
You need time alone to chill and he needs to understand and respect that. Have you gently told him upfront about this need? If you have and he hasn't gotten the message, you should start putting less cushion in the way you tell him and he'll probably get the memo.
My Leo and I have this same issue. He also has Capricorn Moon and loves his alone time to chill after work and I am just like your Leo, sitting next to him and pouting for attention lmao. Your man needs to find shit to do while you recharge.click to expand
True!! And how do yall handle this situation? You also do something by yourself in the meantime? And when and how did you realise he is like that and needs his time, and how did you react? A lotta questions, I know
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Leo men are such bebes. Makes me want to take care of them forever
Aww, it's trueee đđđ
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Awww lion wants to be constantly pet hahah
Posted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..click to expand
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
click to expand
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!click to expand
Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of âquality timeâ is.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
click to expand
^This.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of âquality timeâ is.click to expand
We talked, you were 100 % , right about quality time and that it wasnt enough for him and now it's chill and all good, we've been hangin around at home, he actually bought a decent laptop today, so we can play together đ Let's pray it's all good
Posted by Elissar18
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
He probably will join same gym and offer to hold brushes while she is painting...he must have some Gem in him...A LOT! Lmao
Posted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by imnotvirgoPosted by stillstillwater
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like youâre together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of âquality timeâ is.
We talked, you were 100 % , right about quality time and that it wasnt enough for him and now it's chill and all good, we've been hangin around at home, he actually bought a decent laptop today, so we can play together đ Let's pray it's all goodclick to expand
Awesome sauce!
ugh he reminds me of myself, my boyfriend is a virgo sun cap moon but scorpio venus cancer mars so i get him space but we like to constantly be near each other too. sometimes i catch myself complaining when he's playin games on his phone too much loll but i enjoy just been near him. whipped i kno
I wish I was as lucky as your bf. I don't get any me-time from my libra wife. Anyways, just tell him directly that he's being clingy and it will hurt his ego so much he won't talk to you for days. You're welcome.
Posted by DeadInside
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? đ
burnout incoming
Your Cap Moon is biting you in the a**.
Does your Leo have a lot of water placements?
Posted by L0s3R
I wish I was as lucky as your bf. I don't get any me-time from my libra wife. Anyways, just tell him directly that he's being clingy and it will hurt his ego so much he won't talk to you for days. You're welcome.
đ Are you a leo? You sound tortured
Posted by SpiceNSugarPosted by DeadInside
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? đ
burnout incoming
Your Cap Moon is biting you in the a**.
Does your Leo have a lot of water placements?click to expand
He has ZERO. Leo sun, moon and merc, aqua asc, libra venus, gem mars? What is this
Awww 4 months and you donât have quality time? That is all he needs. A bit of it will make him happy, then he will be able to relax and do his own thing.
If he feels that you donât care or have time for him he will be clingy until he gets it. If he doesnât eventually he will detach and leave.
If he feels that you donât care or have time for him he will be clingy until he gets it. If he doesnât eventually he will detach and leave.
Posted by JanMayMarry
Be glad that you get someone like him while most women here complained about how the men they were dating suddenly went cold turkey on them. đ
Yes! I am glad as hell, for some time now I'm slowly realizing what a treasure I've found.
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The dude I'm dating is a Leo, we live together. I dont know if it's a virgo thing, but I love some "me-time" and it's so hard to get it atm, my lil leo is following me everywhere and he wants us to do everything together.
I feel bad for coming home from work and wanting to play fckn overwatch for an hour or two, while he's lying in bed next to me, looking like a little angry baby lion, which is not getting enough attention đ
He's Leo Sun, Moon and Merc, Aqua Asc, Gem Mars, Libra Venus.
What can I do to make this situation better? Am I the one being wrong or are we kinda opposite? I also got this Cap moon and I need some space and I have some hard time showing warm emotions.