I am seeing this leo.

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scoobydooo
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8 Years

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there is a saying in my language that goes "the smart one yields, the donkey suffers", meaning basically here that while you are aware of things that are happening and what he does and what that means, he may not be, and since you are smarter in this way, you have to think for him too. but I also I think that you have to change your approach to this guy and your 'relationship' from a mental one (meaning the thinking) to an emotional one, a feeling-based one. you are an air sign, it won't be easy lol. it is strange, this strong, very complicated attraction between libra girls and leo guys, but just try to accept this, that we operate differently as leos. 🙂 from experience, they do realize what they did and how it affect(ed) others, so patience is also key. but don't worry, if you move towards him, he will be receptive. if he is jealous, he truly likes you! you have to shower leos with positive vibes, with love really, lots of it. don't give up!!! : )
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Posted by Oknoti1234
I was scared this might happen. I have two posts in here; one is "how to get rid of this leo" and the other is "i got into trouble with this leo". I stopped talking to the leo once I got my answer, which was to stay away from him. Recently, I had a panic attack. Somehow, he got to know about it because he is my neighbor. He was there with me the whole time. He talked to me and tried to calm me down. And all. After a few days, my friends, him and I went out to the movies and we had a great time there. Actually, we didn't get to watch the movie we wanted to so we just had a little drinking party at one of my friends' house. Since that day, he started texting me. I used to give short, late replies, because I wasn't interested. I wouldn't say it was intentional in any way and unfortunately, he didn't stop trying. So we kind of started seeing each other. It felt just like old days. Everything was fine but he suddenly got super jealous about a guy(my friend) I was texting. I wouldn't mind showing him the texts i sent him and the texts I'd gotten but I thought it was not nice for him to check my phone on the 5th day of seeing each other just because he is suspicious of me. That shows he doesn't trust me. I told him no when he wanted to check my phone. He thought I was hiding something and he got really mad. I wasn't in a good mood either and I told him to show me his phone—which he did and I saw him texting quite a lot of girls. I asked him why he texts all these girls. He told me that they text him and he's not afraid to show me all these because he doesn't have anything to hide. I told him if he wants me not to talk to a guy, he has to stop talking to the girls that are more than just friends. I got mad at him and just took a different way to my house. He called my name a few times but didn't care enough to actually come and stop me. Also, the day before all these happened, I stayed at his house. Nothing happened between us but something could've happened. We played poker, watched movies, listened to music and went to sleep at 6 in the morning. Gosh, who doesn't like all these? We had another fight the same day. The problem with him is that he doesn't like to confront me, I like talking things out. I don't like keeping things inside me, if I don't like you, you'll know but I make sure I have a valid reason not to like you so I like to talk about "it". I was texting and he got mad over a text I sent him. He didn't let me explain. I tried to explain he just ignored me. He is not even totally ignoring me!!! This is what confuses me. He is doing everything he's been doing but you know, i can almost sense he's still not over it. It's like we're back to square one but he's still nice to. Am I overthinking? Should I just leave him alone and not look back? We don't text 24/7, we text good night and good morning. We call each other when it's urgent because duh, we live next door. Last few days, I was at his house most of the time chilling with our friends. Should I try to fix this? I hate being a libra sometimes. I can't make up my goddamn mind.

After following/responding to your other posts, none of this makes any sense. You've tried to act as if you're not in control of this situation. In your last set of posts you claimed to not want this guy around, but you've continuously allowed this man back into your life time and time again. Your statements above (which I've bolded) even clearly show that you've been a willing participant in the interactions you have with this man.

-I was scared this might happen. "Scared", why? You've been literally letting this guy into your home and hanging out with him. You've literally been a willing participant in all of this.

-Somehow, he got to know about it because he is my neighbor. He was there with me the whole time. "Somehow?" This guy isn't magic. If he lives in a different house/condo/apartment you either called him OR your were panicking so loudly that he heard you OR he's stalking you.

-I used to give short, late replies, because I wasn't interested. I wouldn't say it was intentional in any way and unfortunately, he didn't stop trying. It was intentional.

-Also, the day before all these happened, I stayed at his house. Nothing happened between us but something could've happened. That sums pretty much sun it all up.

Additionally you've already claimed that this guy talks to a lot of other women and was probably not faithful to you when you were together. So what are your doing, OP? Are you trying to rekindle a relationship with a man who you've already stated was possibly unfaithful to you the past?

The problem isn't that this guy doesn't confront you. The problem is you aren't willing to see things for what they are. Likewise you're not willing to take responsibility for your part in all of this. Unfortunately you don't seem to be learning from your past relationship with this man. You're too passive and you need to start owning up to what's been happening. You're an adult after all. According to you, this guy has already proven that he's not a good communicator or a trustworthy person. You've already stated that he's simply not relationship material. So again, why are you entertaining his advances? What are you DOING?