I don't get this Leo.

He sends me texts messages with music just about every 2 weeks. When I respond, he vanishes... replies "I'm still working non-stop". (if you recall... that is why he said we couldn't see each other anymore)



Like, why message me and then leave me on read?! It's like he does it and then INSTANTLY regrets it. So weird.

Are we friends or nah?! hahaha



I also just learned Mick Jagger is a Leo with Taurus Moon.... AHHHHHHHHH!

It just makes me feel stupid. I reply because I think we are cool... but im not getting tricked next time. lol

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
A leo does this to me too

He’ll send me a video with fb messenger

Then I say something about the video

But he never responds or makes conversation

What’s the point if you’re not going to talk to me?!

Right?! I purposely never text him first anymore. He needs to focus on him, so be it... but its almost like I feel he's put off when I reply! So strange.

Posted by MiZLeo
Maybe he thought you would like the song?

It's a song we listened to at my house. He knows I like the song. haha.

It's not a huge deal, its just confusing. It was the third time he's done it.

I’ve learned now, a response is not desired.

I just don’t understand the gesture if you aren’t interested in communicating.

He's trying to keep himself relevant in a very non-committal way. It's either that or he thinks he's being nice by reaching out from time to time. Sounds like he wasn't 100% sure about letting you go, but felt that he had to do so.

Seeing if your still on the hook.

Just ignore ignore ignore. Give him a taste of his own medicine.

You're not DOING it right. 😐

You send a song back... not commentary.

Jeeez

Posted by Arkansassy

Posted by Montgomery
You're not DOING it right. 😐

You send a song back... not commentary.

Jeeez

Dang where you been—

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Have we met?

Are you Sassypoof?

Oh yes! My Leo does this as well!!! I can't handle being ignored. Every once in awhile I would send him something or he would send me something and then disappear, It drove me bonkers! It made soooo mad!!! so I quit messaging him and we would only occasionally talk to each other on the phone. Well he must have read my mind because he never ignores me lol He too is a workaholic. I never ignored him but now he certainly doesn't ignore me anymore. I really recommend you talk to him about it and not do like I did but he probably sees it and gets busy and doesn't think to message you later. I would like to think I would always at least reply to him at a later time but who knows.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Arkansassy

Posted by Montgomery
You're not DOING it right. 😐

You send a song back... not commentary.

Jeeez

Dang where you been—

Have we met?

Are you Sassypoof?

Tis Dazed

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Weird.

I've been racking my brain the past couple of

days trying to remember your current nickname

so I could annoy you.

*joy*

I'm putting myself into his situation because I've done the same thing, but can't guarantee the reasons will match.

He wants you to relate to it the same way he does. Its really a flaw with some Leos, and a perfect example of the ego. He wants you to feel, think, relate, and discuss it in a way he mentally pictured you would. Then when you don't his ego takes a hit, and he thinks you aren't good enough or that you can't relate with him on a deeper side.

Imo its a flaw more then anything. Simply because no one will ever be able to truly sync with his personal mindset 100% of the time. Yet as a Leo he honestly believes that is possible. He thinks he will eventually find a person that is in every shape and form perfect for him. Which quite frankly is impossible. But you will never convince an ego like that otherwise. Which is why most Leos like that end up alone and solo. Unable to settle with anyone because they are in search of this specific type of perfection that is impossible in our world. Some leos truly live in another world altogether.

To be honest. I think he found out I’ve been dating this Scorpio. It’s very casual. I think he reached out, but for some unknown reason has an attitude with me.

Whatever.

I wanted to be friends, but not if he’s gonna be a jerk.



He finally responded. With that “I’m busy with work” BS.

I said “So, are we friends or not? I sometimes think we are, but your behavior makes me think you’re not really about it. Which is cool either way. But it’s confusing.”



Left me on read. So..... that’s all the energy I’m putting out 🙂

Posted by Soul
I'm putting myself into his situation because I've done the same thing, but can't guarantee the reasons will match.

He wants you to relate to it the same way he does. Its really a flaw with some Leos, and a perfect example of the ego. He wants you to feel, think, relate, and discuss it in a way he mentally pictured you would. Then when you don't his ego takes a hit, and he thinks you aren't good enough or that you can't relate with him on a deeper side.

Imo its a flaw more then anything. Simply because no one will ever be able to truly sync with his personal mindset 100% of the time. Yet as a Leo he honestly believes that is possible. He thinks he will eventually find a person that is in every shape and form perfect for him. Which quite frankly is impossible. But you will never convince an ego like that otherwise. Which is why most Leos like that end up alone and solo. Unable to settle with anyone because they are in search of this specific type of perfection that is impossible in our world. Some leos truly live in another world altogether.

I could see this. This isn’t one of those delusional things we as humans sometimes do. You know? where you make yourself genuinely think someone likes you who doesn’t. I KNOW he did, and my intuition is he still does. But his behavior is so foreign to me. Erratically calm is the best way I can describe it.

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Posted by Soul
I'm putting myself into his situation because I've done the same thing, but can't guarantee the reasons will match.

He wants you to relate to it the same way he does. Its really a flaw with some Leos, and a perfect example of the ego. He wants you to feel, think, relate, and discuss it in a way he mentally pictured you would. Then when you don't his ego takes a hit, and he thinks you aren't good enough or that you can't relate with him on a deeper side.

Imo its a flaw more then anything. Simply because no one will ever be able to truly sync with his personal mindset 100% of the time. Yet as a Leo he honestly believes that is possible. He thinks he will eventually find a person that is in every shape and form perfect for him. Which quite frankly is impossible. But you will never convince an ego like that otherwise. Which is why most Leos like that end up alone and solo. Unable to settle with anyone because they are in search of this specific type of perfection that is impossible in our world. Some leos truly live in another world altogether.

I could see this. This isn’t one of those delusional things we as humans sometimes do. You know? where you make yourself genuinely think someone likes you who doesn’t. I KNOW he did, and my intuition is he still does. But his behavior is so foreign to me. Erratically calm is the best way I can describe it.

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The way a Leo man goes about things will be in ways you never seen before. Most tend to be original in every aspect, and go out of their way to be the first in anything. Even if its as simple as a young Leo who was the first to bite your lip during a kiss, or an older one who is actually paying attention to you and trying to impress you by doing things you've never seen before. Don't be fooled though. All of this can be a test, because somewhat like a cat they are quick to move on to something else they feel will interest them more. Even if that ends up being something disastrous in the end. Leo men and women are queens and kings of drama, because they are willing to try absolutely anything if it seems interesting.

When dealing with Leos you want the more mature ones who excel at their best traits, and learned to remove the worst ones from their life.

This post of mine is a perfect example of a Leo who is out of touch and their ego. I didn't even acknowledge your questions or opinions. I just read it, then made a post that related to me and me alone. Because my ego see's nothing more then that. You likely forgot what you were even talking about, and found yourself focused on what I was saying. I know I'm cutting myself short by saying that, but it isn't what you what with a Leo male. As pretty and though out as the text sounds, it was never about you. It was about me and my personal opinion. Just trying to help in the future for people who might have a Leo they don't understand.

Posted by Soul

Posted by heliumfiasco

Posted by Soul
I'm putting myself into his situation because I've done the same thing, but can't guarantee the reasons will match.

He wants you to relate to it the same way he does. Its really a flaw with some Leos, and a perfect example of the ego. He wants you to feel, think, relate, and discuss it in a way he mentally pictured you would. Then when you don't his ego takes a hit, and he thinks you aren't good enough or that you can't relate with him on a deeper side.

Imo its a flaw more then anything. Simply because no one will ever be able to truly sync with his personal mindset 100% of the time. Yet as a Leo he honestly believes that is possible. He thinks he will eventually find a person that is in every shape and form perfect for him. Which quite frankly is impossible. But you will never convince an ego like that otherwise. Which is why most Leos like that end up alone and solo. Unable to settle with anyone because they are in search of this specific type of perfection that is impossible in our world. Some leos truly live in another world altogether.

I could see this. This isn’t one of those delusional things we as humans sometimes do. You know? where you make yourself genuinely think someone likes you who doesn’t. I KNOW he did, and my intuition is he still does. But his behavior is so foreign to me. Erratically calm is the best way I can describe it.

The way a Leo man goes about things will be in ways you never seen before. Most tend to be original in every aspect, and go out of their way to be the first in anything. Even if its as simple as a young Leo who was the first to bite your lip during a kiss, or an older one who is actually paying attention to you and trying to impress you by doing things you've never seen before. Don't be fooled though. All of this can be a test, because somewhat like a cat they are quick to move on to something else they feel will interest them more. Even if that ends up being something disastrous in the end. Leo men and women are queens and kings of drama, because they are willing to try absolutely anything if it seems interesting.

When dealing with Leos you want the more mature ones who excel at their best traits, and learned to remove the worst ones from their life.

This post of mine is a perfect example of a Leo who is out of touch and their ego. I didn't even acknowledge your questions or opinions. I just read it, then made a post that related to me and me alone. Because my ego see's nothing more then that. You likely forgot what you were even talking about, and found yourself focused on what I was saying. I know I'm cutting myself short by saying that, but it isn't what you what with a Leo male. As pretty and though out as the text sounds, it was never about you. It was about me and my personal opinion. Just trying to help in the future for people who might have a Leo they don't understand.

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I love this. Makes perfect sense. I don’t judge.

Leo sent more songs at midnight last night while he was plowing snow over night.

Can he just confess his love already? Damn! Quit playing, you slow ass Taurus moon. You know you love me!

hahaha JK 😉