I got into trouble with this leo.

Posted by Oknoti1234
A week or two ago, I posted a topic here and it was titled "How to get rid of this leo?". I posted an update there saying we were on good terms then and he was just trying to be my friend again. Well, I was wrong. Yesterday, he was being extra nice to me. I was at my cousin's house and he was there too (he is a friend of my cousin, as I mentioned before). We were talking and he said I was looking good. He kept on complimenting me the whole night. I was sitting with my legs stretched out, he looked at my feet and asked why my feet looked so ashy (fyi, they didn't). He then brought a bottle of lotion and started applying it to my feet. I was shocked and everyone around us was going "goals!" One of our friends asked whether we were getting back together. It got all awkward and then he looked at me and realized I felt awkward so he told everyone we're "just friends". Then on our way back home, he asked me, "So, we're dating, right?" WTF!! Okay, this whole night reminded me of when we were dating. This was how we actually started dating before. I know he isn't being serious, he is just doing this for fun. How do I get rid of him? I do not feel like being used by him again.

GIRL, you need to know your BOUNDARIES! I went to the club w/my girlfriends this past Saturday. A YOUNG Libra kept smiling at me as he passed by and said, "I like her face" (pointed to me) and said, "I want to talk to her", I shifted the attention to my other two girlfriends, and I was doing my own thing.

Libra came by again and wanted to start a conversation w/me, "I said, are you a Taurus?" He said, "No, I am Libra, are you a Cancer?" "Nope, but you've got 11 more zodiac signs" He walked away.

I danced a cumbia and I looked up and he was looking at me. Well, I came back and my girlfriends were NOT at our table. The young Libra BRUSHED his body towards mine. I backed up! Instead of saying, "You're in my space" I said, "Oh, no, that's a no, no. You are getting too personal with me; back up please!" He went away.

The FIRST thing I would have done when he reached for your feet was to back up just like I did and tell him, "What do you think you're doing?" 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: You YOURSELF opened your own Pandora's box.

What did you say?

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Posted by Oknoti1234
A week or two ago, I posted a topic here and it was titled "How to get rid of this leo?". I posted an update there saying we were on good terms then and he was just trying to be my friend again. Well, I was wrong. Yesterday, he was being extra nice to me. I was at my cousin's house and he was there too (he is a friend of my cousin, as I mentioned before). We were talking and he said I was looking good. He kept on complimenting me the whole night. I was sitting with my legs stretched out, he looked at my feet and asked why my feet looked so ashy (fyi, they didn't). He then brought a bottle of lotion and started applying it to my feet. I was shocked and everyone around us was going "goals!" One of our friends asked whether we were getting back together. It got all awkward and then he looked at me and realized I felt awkward so he told everyone we're "just friends". Then on our way back home, he asked me, "So, we're dating, right?" WTF!! Okay, this whole night reminded me of when we were dating. This was how we actually started dating before. I know he isn't being serious, he is just doing this for fun. How do I get rid of him? I do not feel like being used by him again.

GIRL, you need to know your BOUNDARIES! I went to the club w/my girlfriends this past Saturday. A YOUNG Libra kept smiling at me as he passed by and said, "I like her face" (pointed to me) and said, "I want to talk to her", I shifted the attention to my other two girlfriends, and I was doing my own thing.

Libra came by again and wanted to start a conversation w/me, "I said, are you a Taurus?" He said, "No, I am Libra, are you a Cancer?" "Nope, but you've got 11 more zodiac signs" He walked away.

I danced a cumbia and I looked up and he was looking at me. Well, I came back and my girlfriends were NOT at our table. The young Libra BRUSHED his body towards mine. I backed up! Instead of saying, "You're in my space" I said, "Oh, no, that's a no, no. You are getting too personal with me; back up please!" He went away.

The FIRST thing I would have done when he reached for your feet was to back up just like I did and tell him, "What do you think you're doing?" 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: You YOURSELF opened your own Pandora's box.

I know but I didn't! I regret not stopping him. Thank you for helping.

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🤗 Cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I htink you should flat out tell him im not interested in being more than friends unless things change (only if you want to make it work). Tell him how you felt used last time and see what he says and does about it. Be honest.

Posted by Oknoti1234
A week or two ago, I posted a topic here and it was titled "How to get rid of this leo?". I posted an update there saying we were on good terms then and he was just trying to be my friend again. Well, I was wrong. Yesterday, he was being extra nice to me. I was at my cousin's house and he was there too (he is a friend of my cousin, as I mentioned before). We were talking and he said I was looking good. He kept on complimenting me the whole night. I was sitting with my legs stretched out, he looked at my feet and asked why my feet looked so ashy (fyi, they didn't). He then brought a bottle of lotion and started applying it to my feet. I was shocked and everyone around us was going "goals!" One of our friends asked whether we were getting back together. It got all awkward and then he looked at me and realized I felt awkward so he told everyone we're "just friends". Then on our way back home, he asked me, "So, we're dating, right?" WTF!! Okay, this whole night reminded me of when we were dating. This was how we actually started dating before. I know he isn't being serious, he is just doing this for fun. How do I get rid of him? I do not feel like being used by him again.

What do you mean he's just doing this for fun? He clearly isn't. Are you ignoring what he's been doing? You need to stop being so passive and put your foot down. He clearly doesn't want to be "just friends". Why do you think he's been over at your house SO many times. Why do you think he's been remained close to your friends and family?

The thing about Leos is we can be stubborn when we want someone/something. He clearly hasn't let you go in his mind. So unless you want him to continue doing this, you'll need to set up some serious boundaries.

So again, what do you want?

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Posted by Oknoti1234
A week or two ago, I posted a topic here and it was titled "How to get rid of this leo?". I posted an update there saying we were on good terms then and he was just trying to be my friend again. Well, I was wrong. Yesterday, he was being extra nice to me. I was at my cousin's house and he was there too (he is a friend of my cousin, as I mentioned before). We were talking and he said I was looking good. He kept on complimenting me the whole night. I was sitting with my legs stretched out, he looked at my feet and asked why my feet looked so ashy (fyi, they didn't). He then brought a bottle of lotion and started applying it to my feet. I was shocked and everyone around us was going "goals!" One of our friends asked whether we were getting back together. It got all awkward and then he looked at me and realized I felt awkward so he told everyone we're "just friends". Then on our way back home, he asked me, "So, we're dating, right?" WTF!! Okay, this whole night reminded me of when we were dating. This was how we actually started dating before. I know he isn't being serious, he is just doing this for fun. How do I get rid of him? I do not feel like being used by him again.

What do you mean he's just doing this for fun? He clearly isn't. Are you ignoring what he's been doing? You need to stop being so passive and put your foot down. He clearly doesn't want to be "just friends". Why do you think he's been over at your house SO many times. Why do you think he's been remained close to your friends and family?

The thing about Leos is we can be stubborn when we want someone/something. He clearly hasn't let you go in his mind. So unless you want him to continue doing this, you'll need to set up some serious boundaries.

So again, what do you want?

I know he's doing this just for fun because we have the same friends group and he does talk about dating multiple girls at once, not being able to stick with one girl, etc. and this is just hard to believe. He also broke up with his recent "official" girlfriend 2 weeks ago, I found out but I don't think he's over her... Maybe he cheated on me too, he has joked about that too a few times but I'm not sure. I don't want to be a rebound or be cheated on again.

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Just because you have the same group of friends doesn't mean you have to be around this guy if you don't want to be. It's simple, tell your friends to let you know when he'll be hanging out. On those days, occupy yourself with something else.

It also doesn't sounds like he's joking around either. Sounds like he's fishing around to see if he can get you back. Whether or not he cheated or will cheat on you is another story altogether.

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Posted by Oknoti1234
A week or two ago, I posted a topic here and it was titled "How to get rid of this leo?". I posted an update there saying we were on good terms then and he was just trying to be my friend again. Well, I was wrong. Yesterday, he was being extra nice to me. I was at my cousin's house and he was there too (he is a friend of my cousin, as I mentioned before). We were talking and he said I was looking good. He kept on complimenting me the whole night. I was sitting with my legs stretched out, he looked at my feet and asked why my feet looked so ashy (fyi, they didn't). He then brought a bottle of lotion and started applying it to my feet. I was shocked and everyone around us was going "goals!" One of our friends asked whether we were getting back together. It got all awkward and then he looked at me and realized I felt awkward so he told everyone we're "just friends". Then on our way back home, he asked me, "So, we're dating, right?" WTF!! Okay, this whole night reminded me of when we were dating. This was how we actually started dating before. I know he isn't being serious, he is just doing this for fun. How do I get rid of him? I do not feel like being used by him again.

What do you mean he's just doing this for fun? He clearly isn't. Are you ignoring what he's been doing? You need to stop being so passive and put your foot down. He clearly doesn't want to be "just friends". Why do you think he's been over at your house SO many times. Why do you think he's been remained close to your friends and family?

The thing about Leos is we can be stubborn when we want someone/something. He clearly hasn't let you go in his mind. So unless you want him to continue doing this, you'll need to set up some serious boundaries.

So again, what do you want?

I know he's doing this just for fun because we have the same friends group and he does talk about dating multiple girls at once, not being able to stick with one girl, etc. and this is just hard to believe. He also broke up with his recent "official" girlfriend 2 weeks ago, I found out but I don't think he's over her... Maybe he cheated on me too, he has joked about that too a few times but I'm not sure. I don't want to be a rebound or be cheated on again.

Just because you have the same group of friends doesn't mean you have to be around this guy if you don't want to be. It's simple, tell your friends to let you know when he'll be hanging out. On those days, occupy yourself with something else.

It also doesn't sounds like he's joking around either. Sounds like he's fishing around to see if he can get you back. Whether or not he cheated or will cheat on you is another story altogether.

Yeah, I guess, I'd have to do that.

I think he's joking around because as I said, he has dated multiple girls at once and he's not the type to go back to an ex. He showed me pictures of girls and told me how many girls he has dated after we broke up few days ago. He bragged about his girlfriend too. I mentioned that in my update on the last topic.

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You're missing my point. I agree that this guy is probably a player and looking to play you, but I also think he seriously thinks he has a shot with you. This is why setting up boundaries is necessary. Leos rarely flirt mindlessly. We typically some rationale behind our actions. My advice is to keep this guy at a distance.