Ok so I started talking to my middle school crush again. I found him on facebook. We used to have the biggest crush on each other but we were too little to "date" hehe. Anyways I haven't seen him since 7th grade! and we're both 20 now.. we're still young but more wise. Well we started texting each other and he wants to see me and take me out for lunch when I visit. I live in Arizona and he lives in Nevada so its kinda hard to see each other but I told him that I'm planning on moving back to Nevada once school ends in February. I'm a little skeptical though because when we text he's like super flirty and very eager to see me. He says things like "I wish you were here to cuddle with me" (he said that after the FIRST day we exchanged numbers) which is weird to me because we barely started talking like 2 weeks ago and we hardly know each other anymore. Also when we do text it takes him forever to reply back and sometimes he wont text back at all and I wont hear from him for like a day or two. He also calls me "babe" and "love" sometimes. Oh and yesderday when he finally decided to text me.. he just asked when I was going and said that I better visit and how he can't wait to see me.. but then he steered the conversation to sex and was like "we're gonna have some crazy things ahead of us when u come 😉" Is he just being a young guy with too much testosterone? Or does he only want sex? I mean he does compliment me and asks me about my day and says that he'll make time for "us". I just can't seem to read him. Is he playing me? I'm so confused. He's a leo if that helps. Please help give me some insight.
Im confused about a leo :/ Please helpp.

What do you think? I mean, what do you really think?
Talk to him as just a friend and don't give into any sex talk or sexting. If/when you go there, let him know but only see him if he asks you out on a date. If he asks to just hang out, treat him as a friend and be surprised if he tries to get more friendly with you. You have got to set the boundaries with him and let him know your feelings will not be played with nor are you willing to give it up to just any guy.
If you're confused, then find out by doing the above. Always assume what he says means nothing because it doesn't. If he really wants you, he'll swim through crocodile invested waters to be with you. And yeah, make him do just that. 😉
If you're confused, then find out by doing the above. Always assume what he says means nothing because it doesn't. If he really wants you, he'll swim through crocodile invested waters to be with you. And yeah, make him do just that. 😉
Thanks Jonleo. Now, as me being a Taurus, I'm pretty sure I'm gonna start falling for him after the first date so because Leo's are naturally affectionate should I give in to him if he wants to cuddle or lean in for a kiss? I don't want him to thonk he has me wrapped around his finger but at the same time I don't want him to think that I'm not into him..
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