Is he letting me down easy or testing me?

I really hope someone can help shed light on my situation. My heart is breaking and I don't know if I should move on or ride the waves of this storm until it passes.
I met a Leo guy June 1st on a dating site. I asked him what brought him to the site and he said he was looking for a long term relationship. He's 21. I'm a Cancer w a leo moon so I attract leos like flies. Anyway, most leo guys I have met are flashy, and try to impress you. He wasn't, very toned down, only said a few words in his messages. I felt that he might have some earth in his chart and I was right. He has a Taurus moon and Virgo venus. Idk his rising, he doesn't know his birth time. We started txting a few days later and I could barely get a full sentence out of him, but he did say a lot of "cutesie" things. I did most of the big talking, he mainly responded..however everything he said was well.."sweet" he txt

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So I sent him the message, calling him out, etc. I txt him "You could have been honest and said you didn't want to talk to me, I sent you a fb msg, you wonr here from me again" No reply to anything. A week past. The other day I realized I wasn't ready to let go. I sent him a really long fb msg, in a calm, rational manner, telling him my feelings and that I missed him. Then I txt him letting him know I fb him..No reply. So later I txt him a really nasty txt saying "Judging by your lack of reply, I guess you really are a lying, piece of s*it" He txt back "My lack of response because you send me fucking paragraphs of messages.i dont wanna type all of that out." And I told him being a d!ck didn't help and he said "Im sorry for not responding.ive gone through hell these last 4 days." And when I said why didn't he telk me and he said "idk I guess I shut ppl out" We kinda argued for a while and I said "If you thought I was too fat then you could have been honest, we could have still been friends. " im not obese, but a little curvy.. Anyway he txt back "omg its not even about that" I told him how I felt like he wanted a size 2 model and didnt like my body and he said "Well dont.i really do like bigger girls.the other night was amazing but now im scared because you may be pregnant." Ugh yes we did have sex! :/

Still more, sorry!!

Well good news, im not pregant. Anyway I told him I didnt wanna fight and he agreed and apologized for the way he's been. I then told him that I didn't want to lose him and I hope that what we had was not down the drain and that I miss him like crazy, wanted us to work and I hope he feels the same. He txt back that it's not down the drain and that he does feel the same and that I won't lose him. But it feels different! Before he was sweet and now he seems distant. No more cutesie things no more hearts. His answers were alway vague and short, but still sweet. :/ And now everytime I say something sweet, he stops txting. Like the other night I said I hope one day he finds me special enough to write a song about (he writes, sings, etc) he stopped txting. The nxt morning he txt me "Hey baby" we txt until I asked when could I see him, I would love to take you on a romantic date Sunday..lunch, movie, sunset on the beach. Conversation stopped..nothing. And I told him a few txt prior I wanted to be his ink'd and pierced princess but only if he truly wanted me to be and he said "i do". But yeah after the whole date idea, nothing. Until this morning he txt me "Goodmorning baby" I didnt txt back for a few hrs cos I woke up late. But as the pattern goes, we txt for a bit..i said I miss you..nothing. Its been 3hra. Wtf— Im thinking of txting him tomorrow saying if he is trying to spare my feelings don't. But why the eff does he ignore,me after a sweet comment but then turns around and "goodmorning baby" the nxt day.. July 26, 1989 is his bday

I know its a lot to read, but im hurting so bad so any answers will help

Sorry, I just have to clear something up. After he said that I won't lose him, thats the end of what HE said. The part that follows "but it feels different" Is what IM saying myself.

Omg did not mean to post this twice. Im using my android phone and it froze as my post was uploading so it must have went through twice. I don't know how to delete topics so just ignore this one. Sorry!!!!

No one? 😢

I agree with splitnconfused.

I have no problem with dating sites, I've used them every once. For me it would be kinda strange if a guy starts texting that I'm going to be his BEFORE we even met. Even after a few dates that might still seem like a red flag. To me it seems like he is lonely and wants someone, but isn't actually ready for a real relationship.

I might have missed something, cause there was a lot to read through, but you guys only had one date correct? IF he had been ready for a relationship, you may have scared him off with what you said and how often you contacted after that. I know if I want to have some me time for a day or two and a guy start blowing up my phone I will ignore him until I feel ready to deal with that. To me if someone can't go a day or two without contact, especially in the dating stage, they usually aren't emotionally ready for an actual relationship. The person you are dating or even in a relationship with should not be your whole life.

Basically it comes down to this. If I am into someone I will make time to see them and I may not respond to a text immediately, but I always try to respond that day. The fact that he isn't willing to respond to your attempts at scheduling tells me that he has lost interest. If I'm wrong and he hasn't, you might want to think about whether or not you are ready to deal with his daughter and his ex (the daughter's mother).