@jezzyboo21
8 Years
Is this how hookups are supposed to feel?
Are hookups supposed to feel intense and complicated
Hookups can vary but typically involve casual, no-strings intimacy without emotional investment. Feeling like a relationship may indicate emotional attachment or mismatched expectations. Understanding zodiac signs can help identify compatible partners for casual encounters, but individual experiences differ widely.
Oh and he is a Leo BTW. This is definitely staying in the bank for reference....
Posted by jezzyboo21
Also, can anyone tell me what signs are good for one night stands? None of that Fwb pussy ass shit.
whatever it is, probably not a fixed sign.
Libras definitely, you want have to worry about us catching feels. Bring up relationship words and we will start planning our exit strategy. We notoriously a flirty sign.
I'm a cap
I was reading up on aries, they sound like a safe bet. And yeah I can't stand fixed signs. So hot and cold
Def Aries and Scorpios good for just fun
Jesus Christ, I miss the days when dating came first and making out came second.
Virgos are good for one night stands. Ppl say Gems but I gave a Gem a handjob 1 fucking time and dude stalked me for over a year...
Libras...eh, maybe, but what I thought was a one night stand turned into a 15 yr on and off again weird fucking shit that I cant seem to escape from.
🤔
Aries? Hmmm...I dunno..I've had sex with 1 Aries 1 time and we are still friends.
Capricorns are good for 1 night stands from what I gather from my Cap bestie. Never been involved with one myself.
Scorpios if they don't end up stalking you.
Leo's are not really good for one night stands or fwbs....unless you catch us in a I dgaf about anything type mood.... which is rare....
Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by LibraSupreme
Libras definitely, you want have to worry about us catching feels. Bring up relationship words and we will start planning our exit strategy. We notoriously a flirty sign.
Weird libras I know are in relationships
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Your observation is interesting 😘. I know libs love the thought of a ship but can be considered serial daters. But I'm sure maturity and other placements can play a factor my Queen.
Posted by jezzyboo21
I'm a cap
So... emotionally constipated?
Leos are not good at FWB. Not bc we get emotionally attached, we need a grand stage so we probably just convince ourselves about our feelz so we can act it out.. but generally if Im fucking you Im probably holding your hand in public too, figurably speaking. It's an established fact I treat fwbs like girlfriends, I don't know any other way to go about it. /Leo
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by jezzyboo21
I'm a cap
Leos are not good at FWB. Not bc we get emotionally attached, we need a grand stage so we probably just convince ourselves about our feelz so we can act it out.. but generally if Im fucking you Im probably holding your hand in public too, figurably speaking. It's an established fact I treat fwbs like girlfriends, I don't know any other way to go about it. /Leo
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Agreed...
Sag is good with fwb situations, but it can turn into something later if they are feeling you. I think the choice would be left up to you though. Sag are fine just chilling and fucking most of the time, no title is necessary.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by jezzyboo21
I'm a cap
So... emotionally constipated?
Leos are not good at FWB. Not bc we get emotionally attached, we need a grand stage so we probably just convince ourselves about our feelz so we can act it out.. but generally if Im fucking you Im probably holding your hand in public too, figurably speaking. It's an established fact I treat fwbs like girlfriends, I don't know any other way to go about it. /Leo
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I do the same thing, but I tell a guy this is how I am. It's even more confusing though once I've cut them off and they confused my actions for feelings.
Why would you go along with so much if you weren't interested in him like that?
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by jezzyboo21
I'm a cap
So... emotionally constipated?
Leos are not good at FWB. Not bc we get emotionally attached, we need a grand stage so we probably just convince ourselves about our feelz so we can act it out.. but generally if Im fucking you Im probably holding your hand in public too, figurably speaking. It's an established fact I treat fwbs like girlfriends, I don't know any other way to go about it. /Leo
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So why not get a girlfriend then. Or you could simply buy the experience... That's cheaper at least.
Posted by jezzyboo21
So I've been hooking up with this Leo for about 3 months on and off (we barely sleep together) and so far it feels like I'm in a full blown relationship with him😬😬😬. The emojis are an understatement to say the least. Now for the past three months I've have given this man wins when we would argue, I have tried to see this bullshit from his perspective, hell I've even let him set up the terms of this "situationship". Now he has "caught the feels", suspiciously enough I might like to add, as I proposed we break this shit off and just be friends. But then he also springs on me the eponymous "what we do is real to me" garbage and in my head, Im like 😂😂😂😂😂😂 boy wut? You just wanted to smash now you tryin to get tricky with it?! Anyways rant over I just wanted to express how I felt about hookups. And the verdict is.... The hype is overrated. I mean duck, if I have to work this hard for some rooster I might as well stay at home and watch some skin flicks. Also, can anyone tell me what signs are good for one night stands? None of that Fwb pussy ass shit.
Gemini will be the perfect one night stand anytime. lmao! Also some Sagitarius and some aries. But still gemini is #1
Posted by jezzyboo21
So why not get a girlfriend then. Or you could simply buy the experience... That's cheaper at least.
Why do we have to act like we're on the autism spectrum just bc it's a fwb situation,? Why put an up the act when you're willing to fuck - no, in NEED to fuck, eachother - bc of the chemistry and the physical attraction.. does it not make sense then, that you'd have the urge to be touchy feely with eachother even outside of bed? Why pretend and act like aspies? He just had his meat in you.. embrace it, embrace and savour all things that come with the physical.
"Why not get a girlfriend?" Imo that's an irrelevant question. You get a gf when you feel like it, not bc you're attracted to a person and want to sex them up. Not everyone you're attracted is a potential partner, doesn't mean you can't enjoy them and them you and not put on Helen Keller acts. But like I said, I'm really crappy at fwb situations. Or really good
I've never been a hookup type of person anyways. You know what I think I'm just going to be celibate. It's less over inflated back and forths and more ahhhhhhhh. As in laying back and relaxing.
Posted by SeaLion
Virgos are good for one night stands. Ppl say Gems but I gave a Gem a handjob 1 fucking time and dude stalked me for over a year...
Libras...eh, maybe, but what I thought was a one night stand turned into a 15 yr on and off again weird fucking shit that I cant seem to escape from.
🤔
Aries? Hmmm...I dunno..I've had sex with 1 Aries 1 time and we are still friends.
Capricorns are good for 1 night stands from what I gather from my Cap bestie. Never been involved with one myself.
Scorpios if they don't end up stalking you.
Leo's are not really good for one night stands or fwbs....unless you catch us in a I dgaf about anything type mood.... which is rare....
"Ppl say Gems but I gave a Gem a handjob 1 fucking time and dude stalked me for over a year..."
PFFFFFTTTTAHAHAHAAA!!!!!! AHHHH!!! AHHHH!!!!! WAHHH!!!!!!
To the enfant person, you have a point it was me that was getting all freaked out by a guy showing physical interest in me but I still don't understand. What if the other person changes their mind and wants to change the whole dynamic of the "situationship" to something more? My question is what do you do then?
And can someone tell me how to properly reply in these threads I really hate having to remember username. Thanks
Posted by jezzyboo21
And can someone tell me how to properly reply in these threads I really hate having to remember username. Thanks
Where you live?
I'm down.
Posted by emeraldgem
Gemini of course. We can fuck ya cold.
Naaah...I don’t fuck cold. I need feelings. Never fucked anybody I wasn’t in love with. Is it my Leo moon?
I have morals you know...🤔
Seriously...I have this thing since I was little girl...I KNOW if I want man from the first sight.
I don’t remember ever changing my mind about man I didn’t looove from the first sight and then he pursued me and I gave it a chance...never!
Not a kiss. Not a touch...no thing!
But if I know it’s mine - it’s mine! And I don’t care about technicalities. Come to mama...and it’s the end of the game. I mean beginning...👍
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So I've been hooking up with this Leo for about 3 months on and off (we barely sleep together) and so far it feels like I'm in a full blown relationship with him😬😬😬. The emojis are an understatement to say the least. Now for the past three months I've have given this man wins when we would argue, I have tried to see this bullshit from his perspective, hell I've even let him set up the terms of this "situationship". Now he has "caught the feels", suspiciously enough I might like to add, as I proposed we break this shit off and just be friends. But then he also springs on me the eponymous "what we do is real to me" garbage and in my head, Im like 😂😂😂😂😂😂 boy wut? You just wanted to smash now you tryin to get tricky with it?! Anyways rant over I just wanted to express how I felt about hookups. And the verdict is.... The hype is overrated. I mean duck, if I have to work this hard for some rooster I might as well stay at home and watch some skin flicks. Also, can anyone tell me what signs are good for one night stands? None of that Fwb pussy ass shit.