Leo and Pride...

I've read quite often about Leo's and their pride. Has there been a time when you put pride aside?

I'm going thru a divorce. Husband Scorpio, me Sagittarius, his girlfriend Leo.

I've kept pretty mum about the whole ordeal except here but I caught him cheating with her, put him out and now divorce.

As of late she's been playing on my phone, calling crying because she think he's here or sending angry or what seems to be drunk texts at times. I don't engage in conversation with him at all even tho he tries. He made several attempts to reconcile and move back in but he hurt me too much. I could tell her that (out of anger and disgust with how she was so bold with fucking my husband and throwing it in my face) but I won't, mainly because I no longer care.

I have a few Leo friends and this seems to be quite out of character for this sign. My ladies are really regal and have a heap of pride. They would rather cry all night then bother doing something of this magnitude.

I'm not gonna lie, her calling makes me angry at him all over again. I blocked numbers but she'll call from a different number.

Plenty of times when I have... You are right to put him out and go on with the divorce. You deserve way better.

It IS out of character for a Leo to try and steal a taken person let alone a married one. Don't know what kind of lies your husband could've been telling her for her to act that way.

Cause trust me, we Leo's don't play that mess, disloyalty is a deal breaker almost right off the bat and we respect the fine line with a taken person.

But yes, separate yourself from that mess and let them both deal with it.

I'm sorry that you're going through a divorce. The last thing you need is drama from some mistress.

We leos do tend to be filled with pride and ego, but we love is our kryptonite lol . As for the dating a married individual, I've seen leo women get tangled in this web for a couple of different reasons: 1. severe insecurity, 2. EGO (thinking they can take someone's man), 3. unaware. I have found myself in scenario #3 twice and when I tell you I dropped them both like a hot potato and never ever looked back. I simply don't condone this type of BS. This leo could be one who is immature and a bit more insecure than normal. One thing for sure, if she ever comes around to her sense, she is going to be extremely embarrassed and angry at herself.

She sounds insecure about their relationship status- which makes sense since he's a cheater- and she got him by cheating. That's the only way we'd lose our Pride and self respect...

A lot of it is probably her projecting that internal struggle with her own poor choices in men @_@

It's called Karma's a Bish and even Leo's are not immune 😆 and I'd ignore their drama as much as possible, stay strong MZ 🤗

I appreciate the comments. I'm soooooo late.

I've been going thru.

My dad passed away the next morning after I posted this very thread. I'm missing him so but I'm not as sad because he lived a good , long life.

It was good reading you all comments about this. Thank you guys.

Posted by mzmee
I appreciate the comments. I'm soooooo late.

I've been going thru.

My dad passed away the next morning after I posted this very thread. I'm missing him so but I'm not as sad because he lived a good , long life.

It was good reading you all comments about this. Thank you guys.

Holy moly sorry to hear that!

Condolences xox

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Posted by mzmee
I appreciate the comments. I'm soooooo late.

I've been going thru.

My dad passed away the next morning after I posted this very thread. I'm missing him so but I'm not as sad because he lived a good , long life.

It was good reading you all comments about this. Thank you guys.

Holy moly sorry to hear that!

Condolences xox

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Thank you so much. What I loved was that he was pleased with his life and asked us not to mourn or be sad for him. He wanted us to have a party instead lol.

Posted by leowww
😢

I'm sorry mzmee...

my condolences

Take care of yourself girl!

Good vibes only!

thank you sweetie.

I'm really trying. I'm doing okay. You're right, good vibes only.

Jeezus. 😢

So sorry.

To answer the question in OP... no, I would never in my right

mind, put aside my pride to act like the Leo you're dealing

with, right now.



I don't know what he's telling her... but I'm willing to bet it

sounds MUCH different than what he's telling you.

However in light of recent events, I hope these two fade into

the background, where they belong, and you can start over.

Posted by Montgomery
Jeezus. 😢

So sorry.

To answer the question in OP... no, I would never in my right

mind, put aside my pride to act like the Leo you're dealing

with, right now.



I don't know what he's telling her... but I'm willing to bet it

sounds MUCH different than what he's telling you.

However in light of recent events, I hope these two fade into

the background, where they belong, and you can start over.

Thanks.

I know for a fact he's telling her different. Since my father passed, he's been back home. He's been here for me and my family greatly. He wants to reconcile still but won't even give an explanation As to why he did what he did but says he was stupid and to just start over.

I'm even more confused now than ever.

Posted by mzmee

Posted by Montgomery
Jeezus. 😢

So sorry.

To answer the question in OP... no, I would never in my right

mind, put aside my pride to act like the Leo you're dealing

with, right now.



I don't know what he's telling her... but I'm willing to bet it

sounds MUCH different than what he's telling you.

However in light of recent events, I hope these two fade into

the background, where they belong, and you can start over.

Thanks.

I know for a fact he's telling her different. Since my father passed, he's been back home. He's been here for me and my family greatly. He wants to reconcile still but won't even give an explanation As to why he did what he did but says he was stupid and to just start over.

I'm even more confused now than ever.

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Well... people f*ck up.

And tbh, I doubt there's any real explanation for what

he did-- certainly, no good one, and he knows it.

It *was* stupid.

Idk if you two have kids, but if you do and you think

you can trust him, it's worth it.

Even if you don't.

Either way, I hope it works out like you want it to.

♥

Posted by mzmee
I've read quite often about Leo's and their pride. Has there been a time when you put pride aside?

I'm going thru a divorce. Husband Scorpio, me Sagittarius, his girlfriend Leo.

I've kept pretty mum about the whole ordeal except here but I caught him cheating with her, put him out and now divorce.

As of late she's been playing on my phone, calling crying because she think he's here or sending angry or what seems to be drunk texts at times. I don't engage in conversation with him at all even tho he tries. He made several attempts to reconcile and move back in but he hurt me too much. I could tell her that (out of anger and disgust with how she was so bold with fucking my husband and throwing it in my face) but I won't, mainly because I no longer care.

I have a few Leo friends and this seems to be quite out of character for this sign. My ladies are really regal and have a heap of pride. They would rather cry all night then bother doing something of this magnitude.

I'm not gonna lie, her calling makes me angry at him all over again. I blocked numbers but she'll call from a different number.

File a damn restraining order against this psychotic bitch.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by mzmee

Posted by Montgomery
Jeezus. 😢

So sorry.

To answer the question in OP... no, I would never in my right

mind, put aside my pride to act like the Leo you're dealing

with, right now.



I don't know what he's telling her... but I'm willing to bet it

sounds MUCH different than what he's telling you.

However in light of recent events, I hope these two fade into

the background, where they belong, and you can start over.

Thanks.

I know for a fact he's telling her different. Since my father passed, he's been back home. He's been here for me and my family greatly. He wants to reconcile still but won't even give an explanation As to why he did what he did but says he was stupid and to just start over.

I'm even more confused now than ever.

Well... people f*ck up.

And tbh, I doubt there's any real explanation for what

he did-- certainly, no good one, and he knows it.

It *was* stupid.

Idk if you two have kids, but if you do and you think

you can trust him, it's worth it.

Even if you don't.

Either way, I hope it works out like you want it to.

♥

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We have a son. I completely understand that people fuck up. I was more than willing to work thru this with him. Other things that were said and done on his end caused me to kick him out and file. I'll never throw away my marriage over a piece of pussy. No. But the disrespect is what I can't stand. I was even able to forgive the lies, because with bullshit, that's all a part of the territory.

I won't lie, him being here makes everything feel OK. I'm gonna think this over. It's gonna take some time but I do want to make my marriage work. No lie.

As for her, I guess she seems to get the message. She called one last time to try and tell me the"truth" about them. This was after he came home and I let him stay. I kindly asked that she not contact me any longer. Haven't heard from her since.

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Posted by mzmee
I've read quite often about Leo's and their pride. Has there been a time when you put pride aside?

I'm going thru a divorce. Husband Scorpio, me Sagittarius, his girlfriend Leo.

I've kept pretty mum about the whole ordeal except here but I caught him cheating with her, put him out and now divorce.

As of late she's been playing on my phone, calling crying because she think he's here or sending angry or what seems to be drunk texts at times. I don't engage in conversation with him at all even tho he tries. He made several attempts to reconcile and move back in but he hurt me too much. I could tell her that (out of anger and disgust with how she was so bold with fucking my husband and throwing it in my face) but I won't, mainly because I no longer care.

I have a few Leo friends and this seems to be quite out of character for this sign. My ladies are really regal and have a heap of pride. They would rather cry all night then bother doing something of this magnitude.

I'm not gonna lie, her calling makes me angry at him all over again. I blocked numbers but she'll call from a different number.

File a damn restraining order against this psychotic bitch.

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I should have done it then. She hasn't called back.

Posted by Se7en
Sorry to hear about your dad.

Stay strong.

Thank you. I'm trying to be strong.

My kids are my pride and no I will not set them aside for anything.

Posted by Solesan
My kids are my pride and no I will not set them aside for anything.

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