Leo and Virgo: What should I do?

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Un le?n de Dios
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So, the other night I got into a huge fight over the phone with my Virgo sqeeze. She isn't my girlfriend, just GOOD friends if you know what I mean. I think she is cool, but she is really fake. She pretends to be someone in order to make me proud of her; She thinks that if she is herself I will leave her. Her actions have spoken louder than her words.

So, the other night after her yelling at me for about an hour, and me just trying to calm her down; I lost it, and I told her straight up: "I have helped you so much to be the best you can be, but you have never done shit for me. I dont need you, you need me." She then hung up and turned off her phone.

In this conversation, she was mad because like 3 weeks ago I told her I do not want to talk to her again because of some stupid shit she did and lied about. She kept bringing that up, but according to her "She doesn't care if that was the end". After I told her that we ended up talking again a few days after like nothing ever happened.

So after she hung up I assumed that was the end. In fact, I changed my number so she couldn't call me anymore. Today I get this email:

"I BELIEVE DAT FIGHT WAS UR FAULT BUT SENSE I WAS DRUNK IM GUNNA TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION AND APOLAGIZE. SO MY BAD MARIO!!"

I don't understand what she means: If it was my fault, then why is she apologizing?

If she was mad at me for that day, then why couldn't she just wait to tell me later, instead of getting into a fight on the phone with me in front of all her punk friends, then actually giving the phone to the mom of one of her friends to talk to me?

I feel sorry for my Virgo. She has had a really tough life and I just wanted to be the one person that she knew without a doubt was there for her always, no matter what. I wanted to help her to become great, just like I aspire to be. I wanted to take her to the top with me, at least as a friend. However, I will not accept her telling me I have never done anything for her, and if she doesn't care if it is over, then I don't care either.

Usually, I know exactly what to do, but this situation is different. Do I want to finally be free from fakes, start over, and to show everyone that I can cross from friend to enemy just as quick as they can?

If I wanted, I could never talk to her again in my life.