Leo disappeared...what to make of it?

Hey all, need some insight here...

So I've been doing the online dating thing and recently met a Leo that I seemed to hit it off with right away. We had a lot of the same interests, and things in common... We talked on the phone, texted and FT for about 5 days before finally going on a date. He was the perfect gentleman, he picked me up and we had dinner/movie which went great. We cuddled during the movie and the entire drive back to my house he either held my hand or had his hand on my leg, which I didn't mind.

Once he dropped me off we had an amazing kiss...didn't want it to end. We talked/texted the days following that date but one day he just seemed to pull away. He seemed distant, but I didn't say anything.

Then it happened. I texted him one afternoon to say hello. He was very short with me. I asked how he was, he simply said "I'm good." I responded with "I'm good too. Thanks for asking." He immediately texted back "I'll ttyl." I left him alone but haven't heard from him since. True, its only been about 2 days since then but since we met we haven't gone without some form of communication.

Just wondering wth happened? Did that one reply I sent really irritate him or what? Do you think he'll come back or should I cut my losses?...

Me:
Virgo Sun
Sagittarius Moon
Scorpio Venus
Capricorn Mars

Him:
Leo Sun
Pisces Moon
Gemini Venus
Aries Mars

Leo sun with pisces moon and gemini venus—

might as well keep it moving

Posted by Thecolorpink
Hey all, need some insight here...

So I've been doing the online dating thing and recently met a Leo that I seemed to hit it off with right away. We had a lot of the same interests, and things in common... We talked on the phone, texted and FT for about 5 days before finally going on a date. He was the perfect gentleman, he picked me up and we had dinner/movie which went great. We cuddled during the movie and the entire drive back to my house he either held my hand or had his hand on my leg, which I didn't mind.

Once he dropped me off we had an amazing kiss...didn't want it to end. We talked/texted the days following that date but one day he just seemed to pull away. He seemed distant, but I didn't say anything.

Then it happened. I texted him one afternoon to say hello. He was very short with me. I asked how he was, he simply said "I'm good." I responded with "I'm good too. Thanks for asking." He immediately texted back "I'll ttyl." I left him alone but haven't heard from him since. True, its only been about 2 days since then but since we met we haven't gone without some form of communication.

Just wondering wth happened? Did that one reply I sent really irritate him or what? Do you think he'll come back or should I cut my losses?...

Me:
Virgo Sun
Sagittarius Moon
Scorpio Venus
Capricorn Mars

Him:
Leo Sun
Pisces Moon
Gemini Venus
Aries Mars

Leo Sun..vary talkative, sincere, and a little arrogant, but usually very genuine with their feelings. However, Pisces...very wishy washy....afraid of his feelings or just lost interest. Gemini, just non chalant about everything including relationships, but can be sincere if you're the one. Gemini men are very very picky, and as an Air sign, take a loooong time to make a decision..lol. Aries..can be very indecisive and flighty, but usually pretty honest about their feeling as well.

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Bless you!! He has the same VIG as that taurus remember? Lol lol It's only been 2 days! Please just let him lead... Let him initiate contact.

Looking at your charts everything there is 'square' so it will be challenging!!! Do nothing more!! Keep options open keep meeting others!! It's early days!

Lol Yea as soon as I found out he had VIG I said "here we go again" lol. He did seem more sincere than the Taurus though! Oh well...we'll see what happens...

Posted by LIb4Life

Posted by Thecolorpink
Hey all, need some insight here...

So I've been doing the online dating thing and recently met a Leo that I seemed to hit it off with right away. We had a lot of the same interests, and things in common... We talked on the phone, texted and FT for about 5 days before finally going on a date. He was the perfect gentleman, he picked me up and we had dinner/movie which went great. We cuddled during the movie and the entire drive back to my house he either held my hand or had his hand on my leg, which I didn't mind.

Once he dropped me off we had an amazing kiss...didn't want it to end. We talked/texted the days following that date but one day he just seemed to pull away. He seemed distant, but I didn't say anything.

Then it happened. I texted him one afternoon to say hello. He was very short with me. I asked how he was, he simply said "I'm good." I responded with "I'm good too. Thanks for asking." He immediately texted back "I'll ttyl." I left him alone but haven't heard from him since. True, its only been about 2 days since then but since we met we haven't gone without some form of communication.

Just wondering wth happened? Did that one reply I sent really irritate him or what? Do you think he'll come back or should I cut my losses?...

Me:
Virgo Sun
Sagittarius Moon
Scorpio Venus
Capricorn Mars

Him:
Leo Sun
Pisces Moon
Gemini Venus
Aries Mars

Leo Sun..vary talkative, sincere, and a little arrogant, but usually very genuine with their feelings. However, Pisces...very wishy washy....afraid of his feelings or just lost interest. Gemini, just non chalant about everything including relationships, but can be sincere if you're the one. Gemini men are very very picky, and as an Air sign, take a loooong time to make a decision..lol. Aries..can be very indecisive and flighty, but usually pretty honest about their feeling as well.

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That definitely puts things into perspective. Thanks!

The only thing I keep wondering is how he lost interest so quick...just the night before he disappeared on me, we basically talked all night until I fell asleep. I don't get it.

If he's actively on a dating site, chances are someone else may have piqued his interest. Just back off and let him get in touch. If you do all the leading, you won't be able to tell what's really going on with him or see his true intentions.

Totally agree w/Rocky..if he's really interested, he'll be back. What you don't want to do is make him think you're more interested in him. The Leo in him loves attention, and trust me, he can blow his own head up because he can be arrogant like that. I think honestly, it's just the confidence that a lot of Leo's have for themselves. Leave him wondering and let him chase you a little. Good luck Hun
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TCP...I'm only commenting on gem venus being one...there's a lot of thinking going on which may appear as being casual and not caring.....a gem venus can get caught up in the moment and then once that passes will do a lot of thinking and question everything especially whether they like you or not and what it means to like you.

Gems will always want to communicate with you if they like you regardless of any conflicting thoughts they may have. ....sorry it doesn't look too good due to the shortness and disappearance.😢

So he did text me, the day after I posted this...had the nerve to ask me where I'd been? Lmao really— I reminded him about blowing me off the last time we talked and he basically said he was annoyed by the text that I sent him...a little petty to just up and disappear on me like that for... but we hashed it out...we're good again, for the most part.

I just always get the feeling that he's waiting on me to make the first move. He disappeared on me and then I was supposed to continue to run after him? What gives? Is he just not that interested?