leo EGO v. scorp EGO (Page 2)

No, I am not married. But I feel like I always have been in my heart. (sappy so what.)

He is a Scorpio. Venus and Mercury too, like you. On and off forever. On, right now.

And you? Are you dating anyone?

you- you-left...

didn't you?

😢

lol

nonono, I'm here 🙂

I have a lil crabapple of my very own

VERY crabby

but

very sweet

the sideways walking kinda gets to me- but hey- what are you gonna do- you know?

seeing a crab?

ok, lol

I dated a crab for awhile. The sideways walking is just their round about way of communicating with you lol maybe.

i love my lil crabbycakes and i think my crazy scorpness handles the meal pretty well

lol

you DID!

haha

hehe

do tell- trials? tribulations?

kitty plays with crab...interesting

I can only imagine how this turned out...

the moods

the cling factor

the sensitivity - I gotta keep that stinger in check sometimes...

gotta love it...

o_O

who would

even EAT ONE—

😉

*feeling hungry*

what made the relationship not work for you?

if you don't mind my asking/prying

o_O

*brandishes the kitty-probe 2000 delux*

Aw, sweet. How long have you been dating? Still new?

The kitty always plays with the water signs, weird how that works. I didn't look at the chart and think Hmmm, ok sensitive guy he will do.

We actually got along quite well for the first half of the relationship. He was an outgoing crab, more leo seeming but still sideways. The bad=a little too insecure, but then again so am I. Eventually jealous of my relations to my brothers even, that's when it became too much and I had a hard time understanding. The good...I was able to talk to him and trust he understood me (for the most part)

probe away, it's ok. He's gone anyways, lmao I ESCAPED

yes they are very sensitive indeed

the insecurity bit... WHOA

that can crack the relationship...rot it away like a disease eating the flesh from within...

*pinchy pinchy*

you ESCAPED!

lol...

Yeah, I can understand insecurity. But it can only go so far. My best friend is a cancer too. She is nothing like that. She loves family.

yes, he pinched a little too hard lol

Is this a new relationship for you?

we are 5 yrs living the drowning life of two water signs together...lol...still alive- if you believe it

and you and your scorp? long time? fresh or stale?

have you had a taste of scorpman's venom? (not in the bed I mean...)

what do you think??

tasty? it can be bitter...

Yes, long time. I've known him since I was just a kid. Always still feels fresh though 🙂 Maybe because we keep getting back together lol

well...I bet the sex is really hot anywaaayzzz

meowmeowstingymeow

hmmm

long time- wow...well, do you feel like you really "know" him? you know?

them scorps can be hard to open up- tough shell I mean...did your cute lil claws get him all pulled apart or what?

haha schoene!! Yes, he is FULL of evil venom, and yes not the sexy kind sometimes. I have learned though that there is only so many different ways to sting someone though before you become numb to it.

Are you married to your crabby?

...do you feel like you really "know" him?...

yes I do. 🙂

we are not married

YET

but it is in the future...

though he did put a bling on my finger last year

we may not get married for a while though due to some specific circumstance...perhaps not for quite a while...it would be long to explain

I have a question schoene. Since you are dating another water sign. Would you say that the rumors are true about 2 of the same element? Is it really what all the books describe it to be? As compatible as can be?

I gotta go do something-

shall we chat again soon?

o_O

you are such a nice kitty

*pet*

I want to consider that question and give you a good answere- I will have more time later though...- I will come back to this as soon as I can

🙂

...though he did put a bling on my finger last year...

A pretty promise is always nice still, even if there is a waiting period. I'm around if you ever want to explain.

Okie 🙂

I have a question schoene. Since you are dating another water sign. Would you say that the rumors are true about 2 of the same element? Is it really what all the books describe it to be? As compatible as can be?

I think the scorp-cancer makes a very good combo- better than with pisces but I'm sure it all comes down to the individuals involved. I know that other aspects like the moons can really effect the love relationships- as do the placements in venus...

but all in all, I would say that the water signs tend to be so compat with eachother because they have a tacit understanding. an unspoken communication and the intensity of feeling that tends to be reciprocated more fluidly 😉 by another water

now, I cannot say the above is always true for me and crab, I understand what the books say about the nature of water-water relationships but I see that those ideals do not always play out- in my personal experience anyway...

I think drowning can definately be a problem in a combo like this...you have to watch out, for that intensity of feeling, where it is nice for sex and love, can be complicated when dealing with a union that is so absorbed by feelings...one's own- and often others as well.

Take db for example, he has the refreshing air of his gemini love when he gets too absorbed in his own feelings and watery depths...a nice glittery gemstone my distract him from his moody self or bring him out of the undertoe. In my case- when both signs are trapped in their own private pool of despair- who will be the one to say "okay, time to come up for air!"

well, if both signs are stubborn- neither will de-sulk long enough to realize that their undies are soaking wet for no reason at all and the two will stay underwater for as long as they can hold their breath.

However, the sex MIGHT be good on the beach after...but that can be a crap shoot depending on how oxygen deprived one or the other may be and more sulking could be in order (and it will prolly be the crabby of the two) and eventually the watery ones will return to a loving state of harmony until the next tidal wave rolls in!

so there you have it- water-water from a real survivor!

*clings to life raft surrounded by sharks with a pleading look in eyes* o_O

HEYYYYY NOW!!!! the water is great! c'mon in!

wow schoene. I like what you wrote. It's nice to see other people see compatibility the same way (aside from DB of course) So many people want to base things on elements alone and in reality, in means nothing. I agree, it's only what is written in the books. By someone who has no idea who you really are. Astrology is so very very interesting, but it is not everything. Yeah, sometimes I have to remind myself this too. I get too into the details. If someone wants to base life on astrology it's best to remember that astrology is just a suggestion. Maybe even a peek into how someone might handle something but a lot of people miss what's bigger. And that's what the voice inside their head is saying.

You and your crab. Good example. It's not what someone else says you two should be. And there is def. a down side. I know another crab/scorp combo that even from their chart should be compatible but they hate the living hell out of each other. I dunno...there's math and then there's real lol

Anyways, thank you 🙂