Leo female w/ cancer male

Is any leo female here who is with a cancer and knows how to handle their attitude? PLease i need some advice on this.LOL how do you handle them?

I'm not a leo but Summer you have to stop being so nice, period, you don't have to argue and spit mean venom but you have to learn to be indifferent to a cancer man, if you can stop associating your feelings with his feelings you will have more success with dealing with him. If he's being rude, you mirror that back to him in a nice mean way, yes thats the only word i can think of, be non chalant when he's being pissy, INDIFFERENCE is the key, let him BE with his emotions, take yourself out of the equation, you will never understand why and what for inregards to his moods and behavior, he holds them deep within him and if you ask he may or may not choose to open up, once you understand that 95% of the time your not going to crack the surface of his shell you will begin to stop struggling, this sign can keep secrets unlike no other.

Ask him if he's alright, if he says he's fine and yet he's acting pissy then go about your normal routine in life, this will make him open up because he will feel neglected in some way....some cancer men live for neglect this is their way of getting love and assurance so what seems like neglect turns into affection and making up, I have read that this a pattern with some cancer men...so stop being afraid if you are afraid of hurting his feelings, give him all the hurt he can take lol!He will love you hard because he will see your not letting his emotions overwhelm you and this a huge plus.

If you can relax, flow with the ins and outs of his moods, give him space to brewd and sulk, which will and can be days at a time, he will begin to trust you, he has all kinds of thoughts of disloyalty and cheating and seething about things he feels slighted about, stop competing with his emotions, let him figure it out and when he's being pissy around you, you go and find something or someone else to hang with until he gets his act together.

in other words act as if you could care less about his moods and this will push him to find out why your not being expressive towards his moods, if he says I don't wanna talk to you, you say okay and end the conversation, if he says I don't like you, you say oh okay, talk to me when you do start to like me again or you say I don't like you either....this is just examples but, these are examples of indifference, you could care less if he's happy, moody, sad, mean, you have to let him BE..period

If you can show him this side of you, he will be more apt to not pull you into his mood swings, you have to allow his moods to be his, don't take ownership of his moods, let him be whatever it is he's choosing to be that day.

Hmm...I've been good friends with Cancer males and found them super easy to deal with after the passive and serious Cap males. I've found that they really know how to emotionally satisfy me. Then again, I've dealt with a Cap male.

The push-pull thing actually does work with this guy. Back off for a bit if you're not liking his attitude and maybe he'll come around?

Yea we do see each other a lot. I asked him before and I kind of told/asked him, "i think we see each other too much, don't you think so" and his answer is always NO. I try to understand him, believe me...... I am trying. I've stop my constant questions, they way I am now from all the advice i'm getting here. LOL is to act calm and go with the flow and that's all ive been doing. It's kind of hard because I'm used to always say how i feel and always ask for reassurance. I also want to know if they treat their friends that are girls better than their girlfriends? I feel like when we were friends then before we became us, he was a lot nicer/romantic/sweet than he is with me now. NOW he rarely agree with me or do things for me.

i say 2 some1 "i dont like u" i wonder what they think, did they think i was to mean, r they goin to talk to me bout it. when they do talk 2 me bout it i dont have anything 2 say cuz i didnt think they cared if i didnt care. when they do care i want them to ask me again so i can tell them y.lol. but i get along with every1 but theres ppl that just dont think b4 they speak.i guess those r the ones i dont get along with.