TypicalScorpio
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Leo from the past is back...
Leo man or not. If he really wanted to be with u, u being in a wheelchair should not have affected his choice. Now he knows what an idiot he is. I say be friends with him if you want to, but don't pursue him. I think it's pretty fucked up for him to say what he did to u because SOME things are better left unsaid. Now that ur taken, he see's what he could have had, but too bad some people just have to learn the hard way. If u ever got with him, u would only be thinking about how ur wheelchair is gonna affect ur relationship with him :\
Lol @ LovelyMissAries: I would have never said that to a guy. I think the guy is just a jerk! who would say that to someone in a wheelchair? RUDE! Am i right? lol its not even a Leo thing 😢
Thanks for the advice. I realise that by just reading what I've said it sounds pretty bad but the fact of the matter is I LOVE it when people can be so honest. He can't change the way he feels about that particular situation so if he had of made excuses other than telling me the truth...that would have hurt MORE than what he actually said.
I understand that wheelchairs (or any kind of physical disability) can make people feel uncomfortable, especially in a relationship sense... "am I going to have to be a full time carer, What are my friends and family going to think?" there are so many things that can make people feel awkward about it and even I am no exception to this. However, I completely agree with delishhh about if he really had feelings for me it shouldn't have affected his choice. He may have thought that before hand but if he ended up having feelings those 'problems' would have deminished, if not disappeared.
So I guess I'm agreeing that what he said was pretty mean but also defending him because I personally really appreciated his honesty...that's how HE thinks and I respect that.
I just wanted to know if the being persistant and not moving on was typical of a leo even when there are no REAL feelings present.
I understand that wheelchairs (or any kind of physical disability) can make people feel uncomfortable, especially in a relationship sense... "am I going to have to be a full time carer, What are my friends and family going to think?" there are so many things that can make people feel awkward about it and even I am no exception to this. However, I completely agree with delishhh about if he really had feelings for me it shouldn't have affected his choice. He may have thought that before hand but if he ended up having feelings those 'problems' would have deminished, if not disappeared.
So I guess I'm agreeing that what he said was pretty mean but also defending him because I personally really appreciated his honesty...that's how HE thinks and I respect that.
I just wanted to know if the being persistant and not moving on was typical of a leo even when there are no REAL feelings present.
Yes it did! Thanks Sam 😄
And although others perceive what he said to me to be mean and whatever else, in my eyes I thought it was probably the kindest way I've ever been let down and maybe he just picked that up about me.
When ever you post in my threads, Sam, you always give me lots to think about!! 😛
Seems my life has been taken over by Leo men these past couple of months.
And although others perceive what he said to me to be mean and whatever else, in my eyes I thought it was probably the kindest way I've ever been let down and maybe he just picked that up about me.
When ever you post in my threads, Sam, you always give me lots to think about!! 😛
Seems my life has been taken over by Leo men these past couple of months.
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