Posted by ChuckcemWhat about a Leo who is trying to keep his relationship 100% secret?
The age old question. A Leo in love can be hard to read like a Libra. It's not that we have a good poker face, but we know how to turn up the heat. We can be guilty of taking risks and not looking before we leap. A Leo can like you, lust after you, and even "love" you, but not be IN love with you. Why? We protect our hearts and don't want to truly hurt anyone. We may also miss
People get caught up in the flowery words and grand gestures that they don't really notice what a Leo is actually doing. So here's a few ways to tell if a Leo likes you truly.
Availability & Consistency: The first signs a Leo likes you is if we are easily accessible. Not only will you be able to summon us, we'll want to be around you. We'll invite you out so that we can share our world with you. You'll notice this with way more consistency if we love you. Not only will we want you around, it will be odd if you're not around. We will only have eyes for you. Our desire to flirt is focused on you.
Territorial or Possessive Behavior: We are yours and you are ours. We're not big into sharing our lovers. Does that mean you can't be free to be your own person? No, we want you to be your own person. We respect a person inner drive and their convictions. We don't necessarily want a clingy partner, but we do need loyalty. While not all Leo's do this, if a Leo is assigning labels to you or the relationship, that's a good sign that the Leo loves you. We will also share with the expectation you will do so back. Your Leo will have your back and will watch over you even we're not physically near you.
So if your Leo is cool with you going out and dating other people, that's not a good sign.
Hints of Jealousy: This should not be provoked as it could result in an explosively bad situation or with you being left out in the cold. However look at a Leos eyes when a person attempts to flirt you. Leo's have a glare, even if we're smiling and playing along, our eyes won't be. They'll be fixed.
Our body language will become rigid and you may even feel our skin become noticeably warmer. This is because we are preparing to "pounce". One million thoughts are running through our skulls as we process the situation. Our hearts are beating harder. Since most people are aware of Leo jealousy, a lot of Leos have either learned to control it or hide it. Also full blown jealousy is never a good thing, so don't go for looking for it from a Leo. It could just be a sign of immaturity and end terribly.
So if your Leo is unmoved when someone is overstepping their bounds with you OR if they don't care that you are flirting with other people, that's not a good sign.
Emotional Openness & Discomfort: Leos do not like to open up emotionally. We don't like appearing weak and hate being taken advantage of by people close to us. Leos will share a piece of themselves as a way to create trust if we really like you. This is a good sign, but not the full story. A Leo will still have issues we keep close our chests. Your sunny Leo's disposition may change entirely when we share these things with you. Do not take this lightly because we not only love you, but are bearing our souls. If we let you in and even allow you to help us on these issues, we love you.
If you Leo hasn't shared much of themselves with you, it could mean they aren't comfortable yet OR it could be they aren't in love.
Observation: Leos are far more patient and observant than most people realize. If we like you, we've noticed you already. We've taken the time to observe and remember random details about you. We'll use the knowledge to attract you when we like you. When we really like you, we'll even let you know some of the things we've noticed. When we love you, you'll know we know you inside and out. It's one of the rare unspoken things, but you'll know we are there for you. You'll wonder how you got along with us.
If the Leo doesn't seem to be able to recall any details about you, that's DEFINITELY not a good sign.
Cat-like Ever observed a cat? Leos are all big cats. If we like you, we'll be around. If we love you, we'll purr and rub up against you and will circle your legs and not leave your side.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
What about a Leo who is trying to keep his relationship 100% secret?
Posted by ChuckcemUh oh, I don't think he's good at this. The Virgo cusp isn't doing him any favors lol. He's very quick to shut down any advances from girls lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHahaha well there's your answer. Sounds like he's willing to be obvious that he's not interested in other people. That is a very Leo trait.Posted by ChuckcemUh oh, I don't think he's good at this. The Virgo cusp isn't doing him any favors lol. He's very quick to shut down any advances from girls lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
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Posted by ananthema9018they will obsess over you in secret.
From what I've seen, leos generally like a lot of people. So how do you know if you mean more to them than just a pretty face? Like what differences in behavior would you see over time to know if they really care for you or if you're just one amongst the crowd for them?
Posted by ChuckcemBut......but.......don't you people LIVE for attention from anything with a heartbeat? Except maybe cockroaches.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHahaha well there's your answer. Sounds like he's willing to be obvious that he's not interested in other people. That is a very Leo trait.Posted by ChuckcemUh oh, I don't think he's good at this. The Virgo cusp isn't doing him any favors lol. He's very quick to shut down any advances from girls lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWe don't need superficial attention. Attention from a lover or someone we hold close is the REAL deal and that's what's most important to us. Immature Leos are just happy to get attention from anywhere, but most Leos want something that's real.Posted by ChuckcemBut......but.......don't you people LIVE for attention from anything with a heartbeat? Except maybe cockroaches.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHahaha well there's your answer. Sounds like he's willing to be obvious that he's not interested in other people. That is a very Leo trait.Posted by ChuckcemUh oh, I don't think he's good at this. The Virgo cusp isn't doing him any favors lol. He's very quick to shut down any advances from girls lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
What about a Leo who is trying to keep his relationship 100% secret?
See, this is all very new to him. I'm the first guy he's ever been with. Before I came along, he was 100% straight. Fast forward 4 years later and he's singing a vastly different tune. But his family are a bit conservatively religious, so while he's figuring himself out we're keeping everything on the down-low around them and anyone who knows any of his mother or siblings.
When we're alone, he's a completely different person. A few days ago he even held my hand in public, although we were like 20 miles away from his family home, in an area where he doesn't know anyone. We go for a run every morning and on the way back as we're taking our time, there's been interest shown to both of us. But he barely responds to it.
He looks friendlier than me, whereas my Virgo moon and my wolf-like facial features make me look somewhat surly lol. So he gets more of the attention, but he's not phased by it.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemThis is spot on...most of the things he says are hehPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowWe don't need superficial attention. Attention from a lover or someone we hold close is the REAL deal and that's what's most important to us. Immature Leos are just happy to get attention from anywhere, but most Leos want something that's real.Posted by ChuckcemBut......but.......don't you people LIVE for attention from anything with a heartbeat? Except maybe cockroaches.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHahaha well there's your answer. Sounds like he's willing to be obvious that he's not interested in other people. That is a very Leo trait.Posted by ChuckcemUh oh, I don't think he's good at this. The Virgo cusp isn't doing him any favors lol. He's very quick to shut down any advances from girls lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHe'll still respond to you the same way. He may pretend to flirt with people if he's really trying to keep everything a secret, but he won't do too much of it. He'll also make sure you're on the same page the whole time.
What about a Leo who is trying to keep his relationship 100% secret?
See, this is all very new to him. I'm the first guy he's ever been with. Before I came along, he was 100% straight. Fast forward 4 years later and he's singing a vastly different tune. But his family are a bit conservatively religious, so while he's figuring himself out we're keeping everything on the down-low around them and anyone who knows any of his mother or siblings.
When we're alone, he's a completely different person. A few days ago he even held my hand in public, although we were like 20 miles away from his family home, in an area where he doesn't know anyone. We go for a run every morning and on the way back as we're taking our time, there's been interest shown to both of us. But he barely responds to it.
He looks friendlier than me, whereas my Virgo moon and my wolf-like facial features make me look somewhat surly lol. So he gets more of the attention, but he's not phased by it.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemDamn!
The age old question. A Leo in love can be hard to read like a Libra. It's not that we have a good poker face, but we know how to turn up the heat. We can be guilty of taking risks and not looking before we leap. A Leo can like you, lust after you, and even "love" you, but not be IN love with you. Why? We protect our hearts and don't want to truly hurt anyone. We may also miss
People get caught up in the flowery words and grand gestures that they don't really notice what a Leo is actually doing. So here's a few ways to tell if a Leo likes you truly.
Availability & Consistency: The first signs a Leo likes you is if we are easily accessible. Not only will you be able to summon us, we'll want to be around you. We'll invite you out so that we can share our world with you. You'll notice this with way more consistency if we love you. Not only will we want you around, it will be odd if you're not around. We will only have eyes for you. Our desire to flirt is focused on you.
Territorial or Possessive Behavior: We are yours and you are ours. We're not big into sharing our lovers. Does that mean you can't be free to be your own person? No, we want you to be your own person. We respect a person inner drive and their convictions. We don't necessarily want a clingy partner, but we do need loyalty. While not all Leo's do this, if a Leo is assigning labels to you or the relationship, that's a good sign that the Leo loves you. We will also share with the expectation you will do so back. Your Leo will have your back and will watch over you even we're not physically near you.
So if your Leo is cool with you going out and dating other people, that's not a good sign.
Hints of Jealousy: This should not be provoked as it could result in an explosively bad situation or with you being left out in the cold. However look at a Leos eyes when a person attempts to flirt you. Leo's have a glare, even if we're smiling and playing along, our eyes won't be. They'll be fixed.
Our body language will become rigid and you may even feel our skin become noticeably warmer. This is because we are preparing to "pounce". One million thoughts are running through our skulls as we process the situation. Our hearts are beating harder. Since most people are aware of Leo jealousy, a lot of Leos have either learned to control it or hide it. Also full blown jealousy is never a good thing, so don't go for looking for it from a Leo. It could just be a sign of immaturity and end terribly.
So if your Leo is unmoved when someone is overstepping their bounds with you OR if they don't care that you are flirting with other people, that's not a good sign.
Emotional Openness & Discomfort: Leos do not like to open up emotionally. We don't like appearing weak and hate being taken advantage of by people close to us. Leos will share a piece of themselves as a way to create trust if we really like you. This is a good sign, but not the full story. A Leo will still have issues we keep close our chests. Your sunny Leo's disposition may change entirely when we share these things with you. Do not take this lightly because we not only love you, but are bearing our souls. If we let you in and even allow you to help us on these issues, we love you.
If you Leo hasn't shared much of themselves with you, it could mean they aren't comfortable yet OR it could be they aren't in love.
Observation: Leos are far more patient and observant than most people realize. If we like you, we've noticed you already. We've taken the time to observe and remember random details about you. We'll use the knowledge to attract you when we like you. When we really like you, we'll even let you know some of the things we've noticed. When we love you, you'll know we know you inside and out. It's one of the rare unspoken things, but you'll know we are there for you. You'll wonder how you got along with us.
If the Leo doesn't seem to be able to recall any details about you, that's DEFINITELY not a good sign.
Cat-like Ever observed a cat? Leos are all big cats. If we like you, we'll be around. If we love you, we'll purr and rub up against you and will circle your legs and not leave your side.
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