Leo man advice

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Cynthiak13
@Cynthiak13
6 Years

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Hey,

Need a bit of advice me and my leo man was together for about 2 months... we spent most of our time together he met my daughter and everything was great one night we was sat at home till 4am drinking and talking he told me how much he loved me and that he wanted a future with me really deep conversations .. the next day we had a massive argument and i got my stuff and went back to my house.. he said he needed space but me being me i kept on messaging him which he then said just let me be... the next day I found out through Facebook that i have been dumped ... the problem is i do actually really love him and want to sort it out ... how long will he need if he wants to come back or should i try to message him ? We haven’t spoken in nearly two weeks... can a leo man just forget everything so easily—
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Nameless Nemean
@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

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It's only been two months, you might feel like you love this person, but you don't really know this guy. It takes 3 months approximately for the honeymoon phase to end and your relationship started having problems before that. That doesn't bode well for a long term romance.

You were both in love with the idea of the other, but now you're starting to see how he really handles conflict. The real him is beginning to emerge and it's not pretty. Leos sometimes jump the gun when we really like a person, but haven't taken enough time to let things truly develop. We can confuse that passion for love. Since passion and love are two different things, this can become problematic.

Additionally beware of people who use the word "love" too soon without thoroughly knowing you. That usually means A. the person only loves certain aspects of you or B. is using "love" as a lure to hook you. Players and narcissists do this all of the time to keep their "lovers"/victims on a leash (not to say he's either of those).

It's only been two months and he's already cutting you out. Time to cut this one loose and find someone who is able to communicate properly.