Leo man and cancer women

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themb22
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9 Years

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Hi I'm a Cancer girl and I've been knowing this Leo for almost 2 years now. We met on social media and we dated for 3 months then we broke up because we couldn't see each other as often (I was living with my parents so I wasn't independant). The break up was really hard, he said really mean things to me and rejected me when I tried to fix things. Then he came back 1 year later, and wanted to fix things. I am so in love with him and I couldn't move on so I accepted. We saw each other and we had the best date ever. Then something happened with my parents, my mom talked to him and was really mean to him she was throwing menaces at him and he got very angry, he stayed calm while talking to her tho. He didn't wanted to talk to me at first but then I fixed everything. We got back together but we didn't see each other for 4 months. He was really patient in the beggining but after 1 month he got tired of it and we decided to do a break. After 1 month I reached out to him and he was really cold, I planned a date but a the end he didn't come, he wasn't answering my calls. When I texted him (with huge paragraphs) he told me that I left for 2 months and then I'm coming and wanna make my own rules and that he was busy that's why he couldn't come, when I replied he blocked me. He came back again 1 month later telling me that he wants me but my situation is not stable. I told him I was going to move by myself in 2 months (he knows this since a long time) and that we can have a stable relationship then. We kept on planning dates that never worked out because he didn't wanted to go where I wanted to go and he wasn't really understanding of my situation who was really complicated. We talked for a week and at the end of the weekend he told me that he was tired of this situation and he wanted me but I have to fix my issues and take my time so we can be good. We didn't talked to each other since I sent him a message and I told him I wanted to ask after him and I missed him, he was acting normal. Yesterday I sent him another message telling him that I was moving by the end of the month and that I missed him and everything will be fixed, his response was again not cold or hot just casual. Now I see him flirting with other girls on social media and I suffer so much I don't know how to get him back and jow to act! Btw I should've went abroad to study but I stayed in my country for him, I'm moving for him and I do everything for him. He knows it because I always tell him how much efforts I put into the relationship, but unfortunately he don't do the same. He tell me that he can't be in a relationship with someone that he see every 3 weeks (which I understand) but everytime I see him is a all about sex, he kisses me a lot tho, when I talk about that with him he tell me that if he was with me just for sex he wouldn't kiss me, he doesn't kiss anyone. We don't have proper sex since I'm virgin. He's a real leo he gets mad sooo easily and he is very mean if he's angry, he's 26 tho. I'm sorry if that's long but I need help please, what should I do. What do you guys Leo's think about that ?
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bullbullgirl
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Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..
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themb22
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9 Years

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Posted by bullbullgirl
Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..
Thank you, this was the comment I needed to see! I will let him chase me, but it can get so confusing cause at the same time Leo's feel like if you don't talk to them you're ignoring them...they're so annoying and confusing
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I am going to take an educated guess on this one.

I may be wrong.

This is just speculation.

Nothing has happened in the two years that the both of you have known each other. However, it does appear that you and your entire family is navigating that entire relationship, and he doesn't have a voice. You decide no sex, you decide the date locations, you decide when you want to re-appear in his life, and you decide when you want to fix your issues without letting him be a part of it.

The 'living' situation is not the problem here. It is everything else that is associated with it. Getting your own place isn't going to cure the relationship.

Leos from what I gather tend to have big egos. They like to feel as if they're leading their relationship....and they're fixed signs....so there has to be SOME compromise with them in the middle.

You can be intimate with someone and still remain a Virgin. Kissing, handholding, flirting, sexy,texts, stroke his ego...

You can also ask him what he likes, sports bars, comic-con, jazz lounges.

He may feel this relationship is one-sided.
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bullbullgirl
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11 Years

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Posted by bullbullgirl
Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..
Thank you, this was the comment I needed to see! I will let him chase me, but it can get so confusing cause at the same time Leo's feel like if you don't talk to them you're ignoring them...they're so annoying and confusing
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It's confusing because you like him. It's not balanced between u and him.. It's obvious that you like him more than he likes you now, thus you feeling confuse.. For now don't initiate any communication with him.. Not initiating is not equals to ignoring.. Give him the power to lead if he does lead.. I don't know how mean is your leo to u, because my leo will be angry with me playfully, but he's never mean to me.. You need to feel secure with yourself, if he does return and chase u, good. If not, you need to let him go. Give yourself a time frame on how long you will wait for him. Meantime find some one to date or activities to do; take him off your mind.

My leo talks sex to me often, but when we meet, he such a gentleman.

I'm not a expert in leo, but I have somewhat similar situation as you. 🙂
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themb22
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9 Years

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Just focus on your studies now.. If he's meant to be, he will come around.. Leo man is quite self centered, until unless he thinks that you are as important as him.. Leave him alone, let him come to you.. Leo man like to chase.. Give him space to chase u.. Until he decide you are the one, he will be roaming around.. Right now you are putting in more efforts than him.. So just step back and focus on yourself.. Leo are charming, especially with words... But pay to his actions, it speak louder..
Thank you, this was the comment I needed to see! I will let him chase me, but it can get so confusing cause at the same time Leo's feel like if you don't talk to them you're ignoring them...they're so annoying and confusing


It's confusing because you like him. It's not balanced between u and him.. It's obvious that you like him more than he likes you now, thus you feeling confuse.. For now don't initiate any communication with him.. Not initiating is not equals to ignoring.. Give him the power to lead if he does lead.. I don't know how mean is your leo to u, because my leo will be angry with me playfully, but he's never mean to me.. You need to feel secure with yourself, if he does return and chase u, good. If not, you need to let him go. Give yourself a time frame on how long you will wait for him. Meantime find some one to date or activities to do; take him off your mind.

My leo talks sex to me often, but when we meet, he such a gentleman.

I'm not a expert in leo, but I have somewhat similar situation as you. 🙂
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He can also be a gentleman but do not see each other that much, so he tell me that he needs it.. he's don't insult me or anything he's just mean when he rejects me. Again I'm a Cancer I take those things very personnally and I get hurt very easily.
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themb22
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9 Years

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
I am going to take an educated guess on this one.

I may be wrong.

This is just speculation.

Nothing has happened in the two years that the both of you have known each other. However, it does appear that you and your entire family is navigating that entire relationship, and he doesn't have a voice. You decide no sex, you decide the date locations, you decide when you want to re-appear in his life, and you decide when you want to fix your issues without letting him be a part of it.

The 'living' situation is not the problem here. It is everything else that is associated with it. Getting your own place isn't going to cure the relationship.

Leos from what I gather tend to have big egos. They like to feel as if they're leading their relationship....and they're fixed signs....so there has to be SOME compromise with them in the middle.

You can be intimate with someone and still remain a Virgin. Kissing, handholding, flirting, sexy,texts, stroke his ego...

You can also ask him what he likes, sports bars, comic-con, jazz lounges.

He may feel this relationship is one-sided.


My family doesn't know about this relationship, in our culture it is not really allowed to be in relationships and stuff like that (I'm Moroccan), it's the total opposite he's in control of the situation, he decide when to dump me, when to come back, when and where to meet, if it's not like he wants he will not come. I am the one feeling like it is one sided because I do everything for him, and he doesn't even do the effort to come meet me, I always have to do everything. We are very intimate, but only when we see each other in real life, we don't have a real chemistry virtually we both don't like it. The situation is complicated because he needs by his side everytime to have a real relationship, well that's what he says...

Thanks for your reply!
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bullbullgirl
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11 Years

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Sop doing everything for him.. He will only appreciate if he wants to be with you. He knows you like him, so give him the chance and space to chase you. When he's in, he's in. Right now, no matter how much more you do for him, he's not going to care that much. And yes, leo likes to be in control. But you have the power to control your own life. I won't ask you to give up on him, but ask you not to focus on him.