Leo man breaking up with Scorpio woman

My boyfriend of 11 months is breaking up with me. We’ve been living together one month after we officially started dated. It happened really out of the blue and he’s said super hurtful things (e.g. he hates me, never wants to see me again) and then I didn’t stop him from packing anymore (he lives at my place). He’s picking up the rest of his things now, I don’t know what else to do....I’m just really heartbroken, because a part of me feels like it’s his ego and anger speaking. But at the same time, I don’t know if I’m a suitable person to handle this kind of personality anymore. Whatever I say or do, he actually showed disgust and hatred, even said seeing me walk around the house makes him annoyed. So basically my existence. I’m deciding, if I should have one last talk with him about whether or not we are willing to change and put in effort for the relationship or just let go and break up.

Posted by scorpsuncancermoonlove

My boyfriend of 11 months is breaking up with me. We’ve been living together one month after we officially started dated. It happened really out of the blue and he’s said super hurtful things (e.g. he hates me, never wants to see me again) and then I didn’t stop him from packing anymore (he lives at my place). He’s picking up the rest of his things now, I don’t know what else to do....I’m just really heartbroken, because a part of me feels like it’s his ego and anger speaking. But at the same time, I don’t know if I’m a suitable person to handle this kind of personality anymore. Whatever I say or do, he actually showed disgust and hatred, even said seeing me walk around the house makes him annoyed. So basically my existence. I’m deciding, if I should have one last talk with him about whether or not we are willing to change and put in effort for the relationship or just let go and break up.

Sounds to me like he rushed into the titling this relationship primarily cuz he needed a place to live? I could be wrong, but it’s odd that a month into being bf/gf he moves into YOUR place, makes me wonder what was his living situation like prior to you all dating and how secure was it?

Honestly, without further context to why he wants to breakup, and what’s been going on in the relationship, this is the best I can think of. And it would make sense, Leo males (can’t speak on the women, haven’t really met one) love to project. Nothing is ever their fault, and they love to use people to boost their ego, when they no longer need that ego boost, or have found another way to feed their ego, they will drop the other people like a bad habit. Of course, this isn’t every Leo I’m sure...but this has been my experience, and tbh, I’d never date one again, just an all around shitty character and he seems like he may be one of these types.

Let him leave, you can’t get anyone to change and FIGHT for a relationship if they don’t want to.

Let him go, doesn’t sound like there’s anything to salvage in this relationship from your description.

He’s saying hurtful things to you... what’s prompted this reaction? There’s more to the story but even without going into more detail it sounds like it’s a volatile relationship.

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Posted by malloryor

Let him leave, you can’t get anyone to change and FIGHT for a relationship if they don’t want to.

Definitely this. I’m not a good person to give relationship advice but you shouldn’t try to make someone change their mind. Let him go, if it’s meant to be he will come back and then you can choose.

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See, I’m solely going on how he talked to her. No one should be told they’re hated or that their existence—in her own home no less, not his—is a problem.

The entitlement of some Leo men is nauseating!

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What exactly sparked this outburst from him? What sort of problems were you having leading up to this event?

He was upset that I was bringing up too much of the topic of marriage. We were both excited about marriage and children since the beginning. He’s said multiple times he wants to marry me. But recently, we got the approval from both families, so I got even more excited (looking at rings and showing him). I’m turning 27 and he’s turning 31 so tbh I’m not in that big of a rush. I was just excited to look at things and show him my ideas. He said I was “forcing marriage” and it was “suffocating”, described it as being held hostage. So I apologized for that and said I would be more subtle. But the damage is done.

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Posted by scorpsuncancermoonlove

My boyfriend of 11 months is breaking up with me. We’ve been living together one month after we officially started dated. It happened really out of the blue and he’s said super hurtful things (e.g. he hates me, never wants to see me again) and then I didn’t stop him from packing anymore (he lives at my place). He’s picking up the rest of his things now, I don’t know what else to do....I’m just really heartbroken, because a part of me feels like it’s his ego and anger speaking. But at the same time, I don’t know if I’m a suitable person to handle this kind of personality anymore. Whatever I say or do, he actually showed disgust and hatred, even said seeing me walk around the house makes him annoyed. So basically my existence. I’m deciding, if I should have one last talk with him about whether or not we are willing to change and put in effort for the relationship or just let go and break up.

Sounds to me like he rushed into the titling this relationship primarily cuz he needed a place to live? I could be wrong, but it’s odd that a month into being bf/gf he moves into YOUR place, makes me wonder what was his living situation like prior to you all dating and how secure was it?

Honestly, without further context to why he wants to breakup, and what’s been going on in the relationship, this is the best I can think of. And it would make sense, Leo males (can’t speak on the women, haven’t really met one) love to project. Nothing is ever their fault, and they love to use people to boost their ego, when they no longer need that ego boost, or have found another way to feed their ego, they will drop the other people like a bad habit. Of course, this isn’t every Leo I’m sure...but this has been my experience, and tbh, I’d never date one again, just an all around shitty character and he seems like he may be one of these types.

Let him leave, you can’t get anyone to change and FIGHT for a relationship if they don’t want to.

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Well he has enough money to buy a place, where we live housing is one of the most expensive in the world. So he has always been planning on getting his own place. Before he has always lived at home with his parents, which I didn’t mind or think less of him because of the culture where we are.

The fight started over something really silly. It was whether or not we have ordered that dish before at this restaurant. He said we have, I said we haven’t. And turns out we have. So he got extremely upset that I would “argue” with him, since he was right all along. I really wasn’t trying to start drama or anything, merely just saying what I recalled. So I was even more confused why he was upset about that. And it felt like recently, his temper was getting shorter and shorter, like whatever I say could potentially anger or annoy him so I have be cautious...anyways, I just got kind of scared of him ngl.

Very right on the projection part, nothing is his fault. So I have to be really careful with my wordings and how I phrase things...but I just get really tired.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Ugh I just noticed by your name you have the same sun and moon placements as me. That damn cancer moon 😭🙄🙄🙄🙄

Let’s talk... what is it about him that makes you want to work it out? Why is he worth the trouble?

He is my first love, the first person I’ve ever seen as someone I could potentially marry and live with for the rest of my life. Honestly, before this fight trigger and the discussion of marriage truly hitting, he was an absolute angel. He adored me to bits and I to him. He would compliment me and dealt with my emotional side. I’m a romantic and he inherently isn’t, but he went above and beyond to make everything cute and lovely throughout the time we were together. But this argument...it really has changed everything. It completely changed how I see him cause for the first time I saw his explosive side and it scared me so much, I know I’m the type to retreat after.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I dated a Leo in my early 20s, he was all Leo. Leo moon, sun and Venus throughout. Textbook narcissist, and I don’t use that word loosely. 🗑

They do love compliments and everything should be about them

In a way, I know he would come back. We still love each other, and a lot of the nasty things said were due to ego and explosiveness in anger for him. I’m just really deciding, if he’s the person I do want to share the rest of my life with. I’m so exhausted tho, I’ve been crying all day. I need to calm myself first.

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Posted by scorpsuncancermoonlove

My boyfriend of 11 months is breaking up with me. We’ve been living together one month after we officially started dated. It happened really out of the blue and he’s said super hurtful things (e.g. he hates me, never wants to see me again) and then I didn’t stop him from packing anymore (he lives at my place). He’s picking up the rest of his things now, I don’t know what else to do....I’m just really heartbroken, because a part of me feels like it’s his ego and anger speaking. But at the same time, I don’t know if I’m a suitable person to handle this kind of personality anymore. Whatever I say or do, he actually showed disgust and hatred, even said seeing me walk around the house makes him annoyed. So basically my existence. I’m deciding, if I should have one last talk with him about whether or not we are willing to change and put in effort for the relationship or just let go and break up.

Sounds to me like he rushed into the titling this relationship primarily cuz he needed a place to live? I could be wrong, but it’s odd that a month into being bf/gf he moves into YOUR place, makes me wonder what was his living situation like prior to you all dating and how secure was it?

Honestly, without further context to why he wants to breakup, and what’s been going on in the relationship, this is the best I can think of. And it would make sense, Leo males (can’t speak on the women, haven’t really met one) love to project. Nothing is ever their fault, and they love to use people to boost their ego, when they no longer need that ego boost, or have found another way to feed their ego, they will drop the other people like a bad habit. Of course, this isn’t every Leo I’m sure...but this has been my experience, and tbh, I’d never date one again, just an all around shitty character and he seems like he may be one of these types.

Let him leave, you can’t get anyone to change and FIGHT for a relationship if they don’t want to.

Well he has enough money to buy a place, where we live housing is one of the most expensive in the world. So he has always been planning on getting his own place. Before he has always lived at home with his parents, which I didn’t mind or think less of him because of the culture where we are.

The fight started over something really silly. It was whether or not we have ordered that dish before at this restaurant. He said we have, I said we haven’t. And turns out we have. So he got extremely upset that I would “argue” with him, since he was right all along. I really wasn’t trying to start drama or anything, merely just saying what I recalled. So I was even more confused why he was upset about that. And it felt like recently, his temper was getting shorter and shorter, like whatever I say could potentially anger or annoy him so I have be cautious...anyways, I just got kind of scared of him ngl.

Very right on the projection part, nothing is his fault. So I have to be really careful with my wordings and how I phrase things...but I just get really tired.

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I think I’m going to stick to my analysis, I think he moved in with you for convenience. Maybe he does make a lot of money, but maybe his savings and finances are shit...idk, but for someone who has money, and still lives at home, sounds like they’re capable of buying a home, they didn’t need to stay with their parents to save. But whatever that’s not really a big deal, it’s just something is so off that he jumped into living with you so quickly while you all were dating. Then he breaks things off over so simple. It seems like whatever the motive, he’s impulsive and bases his decisions off of his mood and what is convenient for him in the moment. And that is not someone you want to be with, that’s toxic and unhealthy.

Posted by scorpsuncancermoonlove

My boyfriend of 11 months is breaking up with me. We’ve been living together one month after we officially started dated. It happened really out of the blue and he’s said super hurtful things (e.g. he hates me, never wants to see me again) and then I didn’t stop him from packing anymore (he lives at my place). He’s picking up the rest of his things now, I don’t know what else to do....I’m just really heartbroken, because a part of me feels like it’s his ego and anger speaking. But at the same time, I don’t know if I’m a suitable person to handle this kind of personality anymore. Whatever I say or do, he actually showed disgust and hatred, even said seeing me walk around the house makes him annoyed. So basically my existence. I’m deciding, if I should have one last talk with him about whether or not we are willing to change and put in effort for the relationship or just let go and break up.

Let him go.

Full moon y'all. Cancer moon natives are pissing people off because of that infusion of energy from the super moon and mars. I hope it gets better after the new moon.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I dated a Leo in my early 20s, he was all Leo. Leo moon, sun and Venus throughout. Textbook narcissist, and I don’t use that word loosely. 🗑

Omg literally just dealt with one! He is a Leo Sun Leo Rising Pisces Moon though, idk, I thought the Pisces would give him compassion and sensitivity, but he is probably the most clear cut definition of a narcissist, I think I’ve ever met.