leo500
@leo500
10 Years
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Posted by dontgetmewrongI have a Leo cat, and I feel the same way you, and OP do. 😉
I have a Leo mars amd feel amd do exactly what you described.

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I really enjoy "going out", have a nice air, or drive a few miles around the city at night after the dinner if i am not tired of course. My closest ones are familiar with my needs. Usually I do that alone, because i think that the rest of mortals doesn't validate that, and i wouldn't be confortable if they feels sick joining my escapes. lol
So, in friendship, i create a circle of friends, but then i like to leave the confort zone, and it might apear that i am running away, whis is not true. I think i am always trying to discover something new, do not know what, but i have no warriors to join my ride, or who doesn't understand me, or i thing wrongly that no one wants to join me, so i do that alone.
When dating, the same, specially long realtionships. I am not fully predictable, or worst, i am 99% predictable, and when i want to do something new, it is completely new, not something that my partner was expecting, and they feel surprised.
I read somewhere that we need to "hunt" sometimes, alone. Can explain this?
So here are examples of my "needs":
- Stay alone 1 or 2 days a week at home, without my girlfriend aries, just to do whatever i want. Play LOL, going out, have a beer with my friends, or simply stay at home working. I AM SURE that the fact that i want to be alone without my aries, doesn't mean that i want her far away. No!
- Reject a dinner with my friends because i want to wake up next morning to surf. This caused me lot of troubles. I really love to surf, they finally understand that.
- When staying with my GF at her home, i like to go to the window and talk to my mother on the phone in private. I improve in this detail since i presented they meet each other, and now i do not run away when on the phone wiht my mother. lol
- Sometimes i make a serious effort to not stay at home or somewher else to meet my friends. I mean, i usually go, but an hour earlier i am struggling myself asking me if i would go or stay, because i just want to stay lol but most of the times i go.
Cheers