Ok, well me and my Leo have been going out on and off for a little over 2 years. We had a lot of ups and downs. We constantly argued but when times were good, they were good. Sometimes, he would be a complete jerk towards me. Some of the things he would say would leave me speechless. He had his times where we was verbally abusive and even mentally. Regardless, whenever we got into an argument, he would always come running back. He introduced me to his family and he was my first love. However, recently before we broke up, he got a job that he would constantly put his focus into. He would hardly make time for me and would hardly ever see me. I got fed up even though he would persistently remind me that he was trying to make a better life for himself. He always persuaded me to stay in the relationship until one day I got so fed up and broke up with him because he ignored my call and text. Long story short, when we finally talked after weeks of no communication...he said he would come back for me one day. A couple weeks after that, I threw my pride out the window and basically poured my heart out to him, only for him to tell me he didn't want a relationship anymore. Next thing I find out, he has a girlfriend. It's been 5 monthsalready, and i'm wondering will he ever come back like he said he would? I just love him so much.
Leo men, I seriously need your advice.

Move on... You don't deserve or have time for his games. Just find a more grown up Leo.

"Sometimes, he would be a complete jerk towards me. Some of the things he would say would leave me speechless. He had his times where we was verbally abusive and even mentally. Regardless, whenever we got into an argument, he would always come running back. He introduced me to his family and he was my first love. However, recently before we broke up, he got a job that he would constantly put his focus into. He would hardly make time for me and would hardly ever see me. I got fed up even though he would persistently remind me that he was trying to make a better life for himself."
He was verbally abusive, played games with you...I would try to get over him as leodriven stated. And another thing, notice how he said he's trying to make a better life for HIMSELF. He should've said a better life for US. You deserve better.
He was verbally abusive, played games with you...I would try to get over him as leodriven stated. And another thing, notice how he said he's trying to make a better life for HIMSELF. He should've said a better life for US. You deserve better.

Do not believe the hype, he has a new girlfriend now. There is nothing wrong with loving someone after the relationship is no more, but you are hanging on to someone who has moved on. You should too. And next time you get into a relationship, check your nagging at the door. If a man is not going to make time to call you back or see you and is making excuses about it then dont say anything just go on. Make plans with your friends to do fun stuff. Take up a hobby or go to the gym or something. Enrich your life and stop waiting desperately for some man to call you or pay you attention. Men respond more to silence then to a woman who checks him like she is his parole officer.
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