Leo women and relationships

This topic was created in the Leo forum by aliciarose on Monday, August 28, 2017 and has 8 replies.

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@aliciarose
8 Years

I'm not too sure how this website works but I'm going to just go with it.

I am a Leo woman and I am in a relationship with a male libra . I was wondering why doesn't he understand that I feel I should be a part of his world 24/7.

yes I know I love attention but I don't feel like a prioity in his life . he seems to make more time for his friends .

I've tried to speak to him multiple times about the issue but he doesn't seem to care. one side of me wants to shut him out and end everything but the other side is finding it hard as I love him. I feel that I'm fighting a losing battle.

I believe in all of this type of stuff so I wanted to know do our star signs have anything to do with the current issues or do you believe that it's all just silly relationship problems.

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@ragingfirelove
11 YearsCancer

I've noticed alot of Leo's connecting with Libra lately and they all ended same way. Libra comes on strong, once Leo reciprocates Libra doesn't know what they want anymore but trys to remain friendly, even putting on a fake mask. Leo is hurt but hides it. And on and on. Up to you what you'll put up with.

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@ragingfirelove
11 YearsCancer

And also Leo will have to comprise with Libras socializing. Libra would have a nervous breakdown if they couldn't go and and hang with friends when they want, and I do mean Whenever and for however long.

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

I've had the best relationships with Libras, you have to be more of a friend than a gf to them. They do tend to take leo girls for granted but they always come back. In the past i had to be the one to finally end it because if not they can drag it for a WHILE but thats because i think they feel bad because they know how much we like them so it might have to be you that gets fed up and decides to end the relationship for good.

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@Breeze
9 Years

Im a libra and my ex is leo. For me if i got like that its because i wasnt happy within the relationship or wanted my space.

We were bestfriends as well as lovers. Maybe you have to find that balance between the 2. We like affection but not too too much. We like team or couple things so find fun things to do together.

Hes not gonna express himself because its not our forte. If he says everything is ok he could just go along with it to keep the peace. Dont be forceful because it may cause him to shut down communicating. (did me)

If my leo was more caring to my sexual needs and other things we would be married. These 2 can work. She was the fire to my air. Too much of 1 puts the flame out.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by ragingfirelove
I've noticed alot of Leo's connecting with Libra lately and they all ended same way. Libra comes on strong, once Leo reciprocates Libra doesn't know what they want anymore but trys to remain friendly, even putting on a fake mask. Leo is hurt but hides it. And on and on. Up to you what you'll put up with.

This. I've gone through that myself and learned that when a Libra detaches or starts running hot/cold, leave them to it. Walking away has more of a positive effect than chasing them at that point. I've actually watched a Libra or two physically chase after me when I've backed away.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by aliciarose
I'm not too sure how this website works but I'm going to just go with it.

I am a Leo woman and I am in a relationship with a male libra . I was wondering why doesn't he understand that I feel I should be a part of his world 24/7.

yes I know I love attention but I don't feel like a prioity in his life . he seems to make more time for his friends .

I've tried to speak to him multiple times about the issue but he doesn't seem to care. one side of me wants to shut him out and end everything but the other side is finding it hard as I love him. I feel that I'm fighting a losing battle.

I believe in all of this type of stuff so I wanted to know do our star signs have anything to do with the current issues or do you believe that it's all just silly relationship problems.

Don't try to force things with anyone, but especially not with a Libra. This will make them uncomfortable and apt to back away. Libras tend to oscillate, especially when things are out of balance, so too much affection can prompt them to back away. Don't take offense, just get busy doing your own thing. If a Libra cares about you, they'll pop back up.

The real issue here is that your expectations aren't being met. However know that we Leos tend to have VERY high expectations when it comes to our partners. We can also be very possessive of our lovers. This type of attitude smothers the air signs and could potentially scare off the signs that aren't fixed. So try and dial it down.

My advice is to not put too much energy into anyone who can't reciprocate that same energy back to you. If this guy doesn't show you the same amount of affection, what sense does it make to try and force him? Pump your breaks a bit and start doing your own thing. Don't ignore him, but instead busy yourself with other aspects of your life. He's just a guy after all. If you find that he can't give you the attention you desire, then it may be time to look elsewhere.

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@SunnyLioness
8 Years

Posted by Breeze
Im a libra and my ex is leo. For me if i got like that its because i wasnt happy within the relationship or wanted my space.

We were bestfriends as well as lovers. Maybe you have to find that balance between the 2. We like affection but not too too much. We like team or couple things so find fun things to do together.

Hes not gonna express himself because its not our forte. If he says everything is ok he could just go along with it to keep the peace. Dont be forceful because it may cause him to shut down communicating. (did me)

If my leo was more caring to my sexual needs and other things we would be married. These 2 can work. She was the fire to my air. Too much of 1 puts the flame out.

I agree with this 100% . I have dated Libra men and had great success. They always included me with their friends and were focused on my needy-ness. My best one only broke up because of a move to long distance and I couldn't handle it. I hate to say it, but you might want to walk away and see if he comes back around. He might be wanting to end things and being passive about it. 😢