Leo Women, is this girl interested or nah?

Hey girls,

I'm gonna need your help on this one. It's a doozy.

For quick reference, this girl is born 3rd of August, 1996, near Milan, Italy.

We've known each other for 4 years now, though only through online and penpalling. But because of our chemistry together, it blossomed really well. And while we always knew nothing would be concrete until we had the opportunity to meet, there was the unwritten rule that we were going to be romantically loyal to one another (more on this in a second). I mean, you guys know you don't stick around for 4 years without feeling something, especially for someone online who you text. I've known my fair share of Leo women (I'm a big game hunter, lol) and y'all are horrible af texters,

So, earlier this year, I did the worst thing one could do to a Leo: I killed her ego. Reason being that it *seemed* every time I tried to get closer to her, she got cold feet, felt scared, and warded me off.

We had so many miscommunications like that within a period of 3 months, that I blew up, calling her cold, aloof, mean-spirited, like Elsa from Frozen. She was utterly devastated. She went from being the one to double and triple text-reply me, to giving one word, stone-cold answers. This went on for six months, and it seemed to get worse and worse. We argued a lot, for hours on end, and it would drain both of us.

I've worked my arse off to show I won't hurt her, and it's paid dividends. Her disposition toward me is 90% where it was before our relationship took a plunge, but because it's a very mature relationship, I reckon it can only be 100% again when I finally meet up with her.

I'm finally able to go see her this November, and this is where creating this account and thread comes in. Old problems are rearing their ugly head again: her aloofness, coupled with poor texting, is threatening to derail things.

Earlier today, I sent her a text: "I'm coming to Milan!"

She had just come back from visiting London, and while I live there currently, I wasn't able to see her because I was in Lisbon. Talk about inconvenience!

So coming back from London this week, she's dead tired, but she sent me a reply: "Great! It's such a lovely place!!!!!! You will like it!".

It really pissed me off bad, because she's not stupid. She knows why I would mention it -- I'm there to see her, since this should have happened a very long time.

"I'm not coming to see the city. I'm coming to see you."

That merited a voice message from her. It means I have her attention. Her voice was jovial, giggly, and slightly flirtatious: "But I don't live in Milan!" (she doesn't, she lives in a small town near it).

The point is that this girl is really grinding my gears by not even extending the slightest hand to help me in this. I don't need to be met halfway, I can do the 90% and you just do the 10% . Look a Sag might be better for a Cancer like me because they fire the first arrow. Leo's aren't too far behind, but no other Leo I've known has played with her prey this much before, and she's ruffled all my feathers pretty badly with her cute claws. I don't know what's up with her.

I would really like the help from the Leo women here to figure out what's going on in her head! Why the cold feet when it comes to the crunch time? What should I do? Just bite the bullet, sit in a cafe in Milan and say "Yo, hurry up and get here." ?!

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Now, I think it's worth mentioning about our "loyalty": we're not entirely loyal, due to not being able to see each other physically. Look, that's just a matter of pragmatism: she's a Leo that needs to be adored by everyone, and I'm just a guy lol. But when we both unwittingly found out about each other's flings, we were so mad at each other. I think it exposed and ironically reinforced our deep affections.

And I don't know about her, but I can always draw up other options. I know more affectionate women, I know prettier women, I know women who have a similar politics and religion as me, and these women are around me. Why have I held out for so long with this one girl though, when others I've met have just come and gone?

I'm holding out that this is the leonine princess I've been lead to believe I can make a queen. As I said, I'm a big game hunter. I know what makes Leo's tick, and while previously it hasn't clicked with others, this lionness and I seem to get along like peanut butter and jelly. And since I have good intuition, I feel that if we met up, it may take awhile to get used to our new mode of communication (i.e physical proximity), but we'd be pretty explosive. She already reckons she'd never shut up if she's around me.

Failing that, oh well, there's plenty more fish in the sea!

Sorry for the long post btw

For me personally, I couldn't do a long distance thing. I need affection and attention and it would all just be too cold, texting and emailing. If she adores you (which it sounds like she does) then you will always have a special place in her heart but she may feel that this isn't going anywhere because you hardly ever see each other.

Posted by blimey201
Earlier today, I sent her a text: "I'm coming to Milan!"

She had just come back from visiting London, and while I live there currently, I wasn't able to see her because I was in Lisbon. Talk about inconvenience!

So coming back from London this week, she's dead tired, but she sent me a reply: "Great! It's such a lovely place!!!!!! You will like it!".

It really pissed me off bad, because she's not stupid. She knows why I would mention it -- I'm there to see her, since this should have happened a very long time.

"I'm not coming to see the city. I'm coming to see you."

That merited a voice message from her. It means I have her attention. Her voice was jovial, giggly, and slightly flirtatious: "But I don't live in Milan!" (she doesn't, she lives in a small town near it).

The point is that this girl is really grinding my gears by not even extending the slightest hand to help me in this. I don't need to be met halfway, I can do the 90% and you just do the 10% . Look a Sag might be better for a Cancer like me because they fire the first arrow. Leo's aren't too far behind, but no other Leo I've known has played with her prey this much before, and she's ruffled all my feathers pretty badly with her cute claws. I don't know what's up with her.

I would really like the help from the Leo women here to figure out what's going on in her head! Why the cold feet when it comes to the crunch time? What should I do? Just bite the bullet, sit in a cafe in Milan and say "Yo, hurry up and get here." ?!



I know what makes Leo's tick...

She's making you work for it, and if you're honest with yourself, you

wouldn't have it any other way.

My advice is to get busy. 🙂



You're going to have to take the risk.

Do you really think she would bother acknowledging your trip to

Milan, if she had no intention of seeing you?



Assuming she didn't travel to London specifically to see you, and

ran off to Lisbon, that is.