sugarwitted
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LEO's what would you do?
Posted by MiaouHe messaged this girl on a app called blitter, (it’s like Twitter) I felt betrayed because he went out of his way to give her his Snapchat so that I wouldn’t be able to see there messages but the messages end up saving. So I read them they were just talking but he was calling her beautiful, basically he was entertaining her (if you know what that means)
Who's the girl?
What was the message about?
The first incident (when we first got together) i caught him trying to message a girl on POF. But she never responded.
Posted by nightowlWhat do you mean by he seems understanding? I’m the one that’s understanding, he messed up. Did I confuse you?
Dont see the problem, he seems understanding
I would let it go and not look at his stuff anymore. At this point he knows what he should be doing and not doing.
He admitted to entertaining other women. He's young and wants to explore his options maybe.
Either way forgiving him for the same thing twice is setting a precedent for him to continue to cheat.
Your only way forward is to respect yourself enough to end it with him and walk away.
Either way forgiving him for the same thing twice is setting a precedent for him to continue to cheat.
Your only way forward is to respect yourself enough to end it with him and walk away.
He's trolling for pussy on a dating app and you reaffirm your dedication and love to him?? I don't get that.
Don't be scared of losing him. He's not scared of losing you. If he was he wouldn't be trying to fuck you over like this.
Don't be scared of losing him. He's not scared of losing you. If he was he wouldn't be trying to fuck you over like this.
i feel like i have forgiven him easily, I really have a big heart and I do love this man. I don't want to throw away 3 years of friendship even though we've been only together for a small amount of time (5 months). If he does this again I most likely will have to walk away.
Posted by MoonshineLeoright girl so you would forgive him. I don't technically call this cheating, but my feelings are hurt.
I would let it go and not look at his stuff anymore. At this point he knows what he should be doing and not doing.
Beginning of the end. Save yourself some time... it maybe a good lesson for you though... this is why a lot of girls then go for an older guy... however you need to learn to judge the individual over a period time.
Piscesmoon
Piscesmoon
Age has nothing to do with it... girls these days are just as guilty. They are the ones that seek attention... it is always more becoming of a woman to have grace and not think she is all that just because she is attractive. There are many other qualities that are important.
Piscesmoon
Piscesmoon
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI've heard that virgo can be pretty secretive.
you're a fuking idiot, he just texted another girl that she's beautiful, and you're telling him you're his ride or die
no wonder virgo/leo relationships fail.
urfffffffffffffff in my case leo moon and all other leo placements
look dude.
with virgos ..never mind
i won't share my secrets with Thirsty ASS leos
peace
Posted by piscesmoon2I sure do hope its not the end. I have more faith in my relationship than that so on behalf of knowing he's a decent person, I hope that he step's up. I will definitely take your advice and keep my eyes open.
Beginning of the end. Save yourself some time... it maybe a good lesson for you though... this is why a lot of girls then go for an older guy... however you need to learn to judge the individual over a period time.
Piscesmoon
Posted by nightowlTrue, he says that he's insecure too, so maybe his ass was trynna make himself feel better by the attention of another bitch, idk it doesn't make since to me, cause why would your risk the thing that you say you don't feel good enough for, i should make him feel great. but idk i'll see if he's serious.Posted by sugarwittedthen he's playing field and not ready to commit or be your ride or diePosted by MiaouHe messaged this girl on a app called blitter, (it’s like Twitter) I felt betrayed because he went out of his way to give her his Snapchat so that I wouldn’t be able to see there messages but the messages end up saving. So I read them they were just talking but he was calling her beautiful, basically he was entertaining her (if you know what that means)
Who's the girl?
What was the message about?
The first incident (when we first got together) i caught him trying to message a girl on POF. But she never responded.
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Posted by MiZLeoyou would put no thought into it, just go for the dump?
Dump him
Posted by sugarwittedFor people it is a choice to not seek others... many people just want anything or more then one person. I know that maybe hard to accept but it is my personal perspective... see then it is not about you but that they are selfish or he is... and worse manipulating your emotions and feelings as if you are an object not a person.Posted by piscesmoon2I sure do hope its not the end. I have more faith in my relationship than that so on behalf of knowing he's a decent person, I hope that he step's up. I will definitely take your advice and keep my eyes open.
Beginning of the end. Save yourself some time... it maybe a good lesson for you though... this is why a lot of girls then go for an older guy... however you need to learn to judge the individual over a period time.
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Good luck with it
Piscesmoon
The funny thing is when guys get a little ego boost or when boredom sets in they want to entertain these females... As long as he's admitting what he did was wrong and open to change some things...give him a second chance. What happens when 1 or 2 years go by and he's bored again except the girl he's "flirting" with turns into an emotional affair..then physical? You have to think about those things...but when the point comes to when you're constantly obsessed and don't trust him at all. That's when you have a problem...
Your boyfriend is openly disrespecting you and you're allowing him to continue doing so by validating his behavior. Putting your trust in someone who is untrustworthy will only bring you more pain. You need to start understanding your value and stop condoning this type of behavior.
You're young, so you may not see it now, but this relationship isn't worth defending. Your boyfriend knows what he did was wrong. He is using your pity and empathy to avoid the consequences. It is up to you to stand up for yourself and know when to not accept hollow excuses.
You're young, so you may not see it now, but this relationship isn't worth defending. Your boyfriend knows what he did was wrong. He is using your pity and empathy to avoid the consequences. It is up to you to stand up for yourself and know when to not accept hollow excuses.
Posted by PrincessT
The funny thing is when guys get a little ego boost or when boredom sets in they want to entertain these females... As long as he's admitting what he did was wrong and open to change some things...give him a second chance. What happens when 1 or 2 years go by and he's bored again except the girl he's "flirting" with turns into an emotional affair..then physical? You have to think about those things...but when the point comes to when you're constantly obsessed and don't trust him at all. That's when you have a problem...
She already gave him a second chance and he did this shit again.
Posted by SupesIt wasn't just a harmless compliment tho. He signed up for a dating app and is complimenting females. That shows intention to cheat.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
Posted by SupesDid he already have the app? Op please clarify. Also please clarify if 'at the beginning' means when you first started dating or at the beginning of the relationship.Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you read what she wrote, it was very early on when he did that and already had the app. Do you delete all that stuff after the first date?Posted by SupesIt wasn't just a harmless compliment tho. He signed up for a dating app and is complimenting females. That shows intention to cheat.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
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Posted by ChuckcemThank you for your advice.
Your boyfriend is openly disrespecting you and you're allowing him to continue doing so by validating his behavior. Putting your trust in someone who is untrustworthy will only bring you more pain. You need to start understanding your value and stop condoning this type of behavior.
You're young, so you may not see it now, but this relationship isn't worth defending. Your boyfriend knows what he did was wrong. He is using your pity and empathy to avoid the consequences. It is up to you to stand up for yourself and know when to not accept hollow excuses.
Posted by MiZLeoyou're right. Thank you.
I'll give you a very important tip my bestie gave me a long time ago for you to meditate on:
Just because you are ride or die for him, does not mean he is ride or die for you.
You don't have to put up with someone who isn't 100% with you. There are so many other men out there.
Posted by LadyNeptuneHe had already had the POF dating app. We had gotten together in May and later that month, he tried to send 1 girl a message (no other girls). But the girl never responded. He didn't try to message any other girls. I saw this about 2 weeks after it happened.Posted by SupesDid he already have the app? Op please clarify. Also please clarify if 'at the beginning' means when you first started dating or at the beginning of the relationship.Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you read what she wrote, it was very early on when he did that and already had the app. Do you delete all that stuff after the first date?Posted by SupesIt wasn't just a harmless compliment tho. He signed up for a dating app and is complimenting females. That shows intention to cheat.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
Oh, I forgot that you’re perfectclick to expand
The second incident was on Sunday. Bitter is an app like twitter, they were having a normal convo, then they proceeded to exchange Snapchat's. I felt like this was done so that I wouldn't be able to see what they were talking about. If you don't know, you can message on Snapchat and the messages will disappear if you don't hold it down to save it. Well the messages saved and I read them. He didn't outright directly call her beautiful, it was more along the lines of him thinking she did model work and the pictures of her are beautiful. I don't think this was anything innocent, but i know that he wasn't about to step out and cheat on me since the girl lives out in California. We live in Texas.
Posted by SupesI agree that he was not being respectful of my relationship. I've forgiven him, but if it happens again i don't think i'll be staying with him.Posted by MiaouOkPosted by SupesNope.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
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As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
Posted by 29LeoThanks,
As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
I did trust him until this, all of the trust i have for him isn't completely lost. I feel like the trust can be rebuilt, it's just up to him to initiate it. I'm mostly just hurt and i feel like i'm sulking right now :/ I'm so hurt because I know the we both care and love one another deeply so why would he risk it all.
Posted by Supesimmature 40 year old.Posted by sugarwittedDon’t be digging through his stuff. I’d have done something like that just to piss you offPosted by SupesI agree that he was not being respectful of my relationship. I've forgiven him, but if it happens again i don't think i'll be staying with him.Posted by MiaouOkPosted by SupesNope.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
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Posted by sugarwittedHe wants you to be okay with it, just make sure that he understands that it's OK if you do it too. Check out other guys, flirt with them, get their phone numbers ECT using SC or not.Posted by 29LeoThanks,
As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
I did trust him until this, all of the trust i have for him isn't completely lost. I feel like the trust can be rebuilt, it's just up to him to initiate it. I'm mostly just hurt and i feel like i'm sulking right now :/ I'm so hurt because I know the we both care and love one another deeply so why would he risk it all.click to expand
If he wants to be in a relationship, he should not be hitting on other woman... using SC or not.
It is NOT okay. if he wants to act like he's single then make him single.
I've been w/ virgo ex for 7 years. I was an enabler...because that's how Leo's love. But he took advantage of that by expecting me to be okay with the things he did while I could not. I look back and wondered why I cave in instead of running away, fast. If you decide to cave in, then get mad when he does it again, you set yourself up to get mad. Just speaking from my experience.
Posted by 29Leowow girl thank you for this. Today we are going to have a talk about healthy boundaries for our relationship because this is clearly still bothering me.Posted by sugarwittedHe wants you to be okay with it, just make sure that he understands that it's OK if you do it too. Check out other guys, flirt with them, get their phone numbers ECT using SC or not.Posted by 29LeoThanks,
As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
I did trust him until this, all of the trust i have for him isn't completely lost. I feel like the trust can be rebuilt, it's just up to him to initiate it. I'm mostly just hurt and i feel like i'm sulking right now :/ I'm so hurt because I know the we both care and love one another deeply so why would he risk it all.
If he wants to be in a relationship, he should not be hitting on other woman... using SC or not.
It is NOT okay. if he wants to act like he's single then make him single.
I've been w/ virgo ex for 7 years. I was an enabler...because that's how Leo's love. But he took advantage of that by expecting me to be okay with the things he did while I could not. I look back and wondered why I cave in instead of running away, fast. If you decide to cave in, then get mad when he does it again, you set yourself up to get mad. Just speaking from my experience.click to expand
Posted by SupesUr lame af lol.Posted by sugarwittedLol. You’re the one invading others privacy and you are calling me immature?Posted by Supesimmature 40 year old.Posted by sugarwittedDon’t be digging through his stuff. I’d have done something like that just to piss you offPosted by SupesI agree that he was not being respectful of my relationship. I've forgiven him, but if it happens again i don't think i'll be staying with him.Posted by MiaouOkPosted by SupesNope.
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
Grow up already. Insecure teeny bopperclick to expand
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Long story short on two separate occasions i've caught my boyfriend trying to message a girl on snapchat, it wasn't super inappropriate but the fact that he was messaging 1 girl made me really uncomfortable. We talked about it the day it happened and then I thought about it some more and we were texting back and forth. As a leo are you also this forgiving?
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I don’t want to be that gf that’s looks through your things because you are your own person, and I wouldn’t want anyone to not trust me and do that to me.
Remember how I told you the first time that it took me a minute to get over it, well I felt like I did, and this incident it’s like ripping off the bandaid again.
I know it’s still fresh, and I forgive you but this, tied along with everything else is making me sad
And the attention excuse isn’t really a good enough excuse for me. I give you plenty of attention, what am I doing wrong"
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"The last I want you to think is that you are doing something wrong because you are not. You sacrifice and do so much for me when you really don’t have to. The problem is me being secure with myself and with what I have. I often feel like I’m not good enough for you. I’m not in school and I feel like I’m running in place and it’s gonna take me so long to graduate. I feel like you deserve so much more than what I can provide for you at the time.
I am wrong for entertaining other females. I also know I wouldn’t like it if you were doing the samething.
I’m not lookin to start anything with anybody else.
I’m not going to find what we have with anybody else. If I really didn’t want to be with you. I would let you know."
I said,
Okay, I’m understanding what you’re saying. Baby, we are only 22 and 23, you don’t have to have everything together for me at this moment and time. I don’t even have it all together. Plus there is no rush on school, we both know that you’re taking a break this semester and you will, if not by next semester, be back in school in Fall 2018. I love you so much and since the beginning of our relationship you have become a big emotional support for me. You are more than good enough for me, just because you don’t have all the physical materialistic thing doesn’t mean that, that brings down your worth. So, that being said, pick ya head up, your worth is priceless. I’ma be here with you no matter what, AND I MEAN THIS. I want to be your ride or die, thru thick and thin. I want a partner that I can share everything with, who i started from the bottom with, I want us to be able to grow, learn, and share with each other, and I’ma be here for us.
I do forgive you, I’m not going to throw this incident in your face, because we all deserve forgiveness. But please bear with me and my insecurities as well. I love you dearly, I look at your like my family, and I don’t ever want to lose you."
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